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Travelling with your Toy!

Tuesday, August 9th, 2011

Planning a summer getaway?  From last minute weekend getaways to week long vacations, it is always exciting to take along something a little naughty for some extra-memorable holiday excursions.

Here are some tips and suggestion on traveling with toys:

Rechargeable vs. Battery operated – depending on where you are traveling, taking along extra batteries or a charger could be a hassle or helpful. If you are traveling overseas or out of the country you may be better off to choose a toy that recharges through a USB port on your laptop rather than an electrical outlet in case there are compatibility issues.  Otherwise, a battery operated toy is another reliable option.  Traveling with a toy that uses easily accessible batteries like AA or AAA instead of specific cell batteries would be another consideration although an extra set can be packed before you travel.

If your favorite toy is a rechargeable one, adaptors are available from most companies.

Top Rechargeable Travel Toys: Lelo Mia

Top Battery Operated Travel Toys: Black Jewel, Water Dancer and Bcute Curve

Waterproof – water can play a huge part of any summer holiday whether it is a private cottage near a lake, a hotel pool, or a private hot tub for two.  It is always a good idea to be prepared with a waterproof toy for any adventurous activity that may arise.

Top Waterproof Travel Toys: Form 2, Fun Factory Flash, Iconic Bullet and Lelo Alia

Storage – if you are travelling by air make sure to pack your toys with the batteries removed and in your checked luggage.  Always remove batteries before travelling in case it accidentally turns on in your luggage and if it is a rechargeable toy, turn the lock function on or store it in its own hard case until you get to your destination. 

If you are travelling with a sex toy in your carry on, also make sure you store the batteries in a separate place so you don’t encounter some accidental buzzing enroute.  And if you do get some question regarding your selection of carry-ons…it is what it is and it happens more often than you think!

Lubricant!  Don’t forget to pack small travel size lubes or transfer some of your favorite into a small travel bottle.

Click here to view Honey’s entire Mini and Bullet sized vibrators to get your summer buzz!

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How To Use A Glass Sex Toy

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

Glass is a fantastic material for adult toys because it is completely frictionless, non-porous, phthalate free, and hypoallergenic.

Some of the greatest feedback we get from customers that purchase glass for the first time is how surprised they are at how much they enjoyed the unique sensation.

Features of Glass

We’ve already mentioned that they are hypoallergenic and body safe, but glass is also completely frictionless and smooth against the skin. With very little lubricant you can easily use glass toys both anally and vaginally without the need to re-apply.

Glass is also a great conductor of hot or cold sensations. You can warm up the glass toy in warm water or the microwave and the glass will hold onto the heat for extended periods and then slowly adjust to your body temperature. You can also cool down the glass by running it under cold water or placing it in the fridge or freezer.  The different temperature sensation are very stimulating both internally and externally.  If you do not warm or cool down the glass, the toy will easily and quickly take on your body’s core temperature for a comfortable play time.

The weight of the glass is also very erotic.  Feeling the natural weight of the toy is extremely rousing and distinctive in its sensation.

Clean up is also a breeze with glass toys.  It can be simply washed down with soap and water, boiled or placed in the dish washer. 

With proper care, glass toys are very durable and can last a lifetime. 

Glass Toys:

Glass Dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes and colors. The Larger full sized dildos like Blossom and Masagi provide a full length and have some added texture and a slight curve without being overwhelming.

Toys like the Sunlight, Pink Indulgence and Crystal G have a little less length but have a distinctive curved to stimulate the G-spot.  These glass toys also allow you to use either end for stimulation.  

Then there are more phallic shaped dildos like 7th Heaven that has textured ridges at the top but maintains a more realistic shape.

The Onyx is the same size and shape as the Crystal G but has added texture at the curved tip designed to specifically target and stimulate the prostate for men. Silksurra is specially designed as an anal plug with the full retrieval ring and curved tip for men or women.

Most of the glass toys can be used vaginally as well as anally.

Newer on the market are some amazing glass toys that actually vibrate! The Glass Waterproof Vibrator and G-spot Glass Waterproof Vibrator both have three speeds of vibration and designed to be used both internally and externally. They are a incredible addition to our array of glass toys as they do double duty as both a dildo and vibrator.

Stainless Steel

The Njoy Pure Wand is a medical grade stainless steel product. Stainless steel and glass are very similar in their properties in that both are frictionless, hypoallergenic, body safe, non-porous and phthalate free. The largest difference is the weight of the stainless steel, it has a very pleasant heavy weight to it which adds an exceptional pleasure sensation.

Glass toys are not only wonderful to use but beautiful to behold as well.  We hope you will enjoy your new addition and keep having fun!

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What’s the Difference? Dildos and Vibrators

Wednesday, April 7th, 2010


Dildos are often confused as vibrators when in truth they are an entirely different entity. To help you understand the differences and similarities, as well as guide you in the right direction we have put together some key points about dildos and vibrators.

Dildos

What is a dildo?

A dildo is a flexible toy with a soft and bendable shaft. More often than not, they have a flanged or wide base. A dildo does not have a motorized centre so it will not vibrate on its own. The shapes and colors vary from toy to toy but you can have a very realistic phallic shape to ones that are ribbed, swirled, curved, or even shaped like animals.

Why use a dildo?

A dildo can be used with a harness for anal or vaginal penetration, the wide base allows the dildo to be inserted into a harness and kept there with a metal or plastic ring. They do not contain a motor so they are very soft and flexible throughout the entire length to enhance internal stimulation. Often dildos are curved so you can stimulate the g-spot or prostate.

Vibrators

What is a vibrator?

Vibrators are similar to dildos but all vibrators have an internal motor that allow for different movements like vibration, thrusting, spinning pearls, and rotation. The internal motor contained in the vibrator makes part of the length firm and less flexible as compared to a dildo. The base is not flanged but rather usually contains the battery compartment and speed/function controls. Vibrators can be as small as a one inch bullet, phallic shaped, smooth, textured, branched, or curved. Vibrators like dildos can be made of a hard plastic or soft.

Why use a vibrator?

Vibrators can be used both internally and externally for vaginal, clitoral, and anal simulation. Why choose a vibrator over a dildo? The vibration of the toy can add more sensation and pleasure to the nerve endings for both partners.

In most instances a vibrator can be used as a dildo by just leaving the motor off. Though the toy can be harder than a soft dildo you can get the same internal stimulation. In certain situations such as using a harness you cannot use a vibrator, the dildo has a flexible body that allows you to easily slip it into a harness and the flanged base keeps it steady. Most vibrators do not have the wide base needed for a harness.

Why choose vibration?

For women in general the most pleasure is derived from the massive nerve ending located in the clitoris and inner inch or so of the vagina. Vibration allows you to stimulate these nerve endings easily solo or with a partner. Most women will orgasm more easily from clitoral stimulation than penetration on its own, so adding a vibrator to your playtime can be very beneficial.

Why choose no vibration?

Everyone is different and not all women like vibration, some far prefer the penetration sensation and do not want to be distracted by a vibrator. The dildo allows for penetration without vibration and is softer and more flexible than a vibrator. For medical reasons many women need help as they get older or to maintain elasticity of the skin if they have suffered vaginal scarring, a dildo can help ease them into the sensation of penetration without the firmness of a vibrator.

As you can see Vibrators and Dildos are similar but different and it is a personal choice to choose the ones you like and to try each for different reasons. Having a variety of options in your toy box will help you discover your sexual pleasures and preferences, and to ultimately enjoy your body to the fullest.

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unTraditional Anniversary Gift Idea

Monday, March 8th, 2010

It is tradition to buy anniversary gifts related to a specific material for each year of marriage. This tradition started in medieval Germany and has been adopted by most nations. Sticking to a traditional material can make the gift more meaningful whether for your own anniversary or for another couple…and adding a sexy touch will just be extra meaningful!

Here is a fun list of ideas for each of your anniversaries based on the traditional and modern materials.

First Year Anniversary
Traditional: Paper
Modern: Plastic

Paper:
A sexy first anniversary gift for paper would be a book like Kama Sutra Step By Step that takes you through the traditional art of love making from sensual touching to provocative sexual positions. Getting the set Blow Him and Going Down would be both rewarding and considerate!

Plastic:
Sex toys like BGee to help her discover her G-spot, or BGood that is versatile, or BNaughty to hit the perfect spot will keep the marital bliss going.
Adult DVDs would also keep the fun going. Choose from educational themed DVDs or erotica.

Second Year Anniversary
Traditional: Cotton
Modern: Cotton/Calico

Lingerie with cotton like the Cupcakes Cropped Cami and Short set is both sexy and comfortable. A calico print vibrator like the Temptress or an animal print Wild Cat lingerie set from Betsey Johnson would have her purring!

Third year Anniversary
Traditional: Leather
Modern: Leather

For the third year, Honey has some even racier ideas! Leather Corsets such as the Leather Corset with Purple Ribbon, Leather and Lace Baby doll or Teddy would be stunning. Combine the outfit with Leather Under the Bed Restraints and Floggerella for some light bondage and you will have an anniversary to remember.

Fourth Year Anniversary
Traditional: Fruit/Flowers
Modern: Linen/Silk/Nylon

For a fun take on fruits/flowers you could plan a sensual anniversary evening with your partner starting with a lovely bath sprinkled with the Rose Bath Petals and moving on to a lovely massage with fruit scented Making Love Sensually Flavored Massage Oil in strawberry or kiwi-pineapple. Mix and match your anniversary themes and wear the sexy silk thong with bow with a sexy pair of nylon stockings such as the Sheer Backseam with Lace Top Stockings or the Romantic Lace Body stocking.

Fifth Year Anniversary
Traditional: Wood
Modern: Wood

A creative gift to fit the wood theme would be an adult board game like A Hot Affair that was awarded Adult Board Game of the Year. Or 101 Nights of Great Romance with sealed pages for romantic rendezvous all year long.

Tenth Year Anniversary
Traditional: Tin
Modern: Aluminum

It’s time to splurge a little bit for your tenth anniversary with a luxury toy like Jimmy Jane Little Chroma. Made of beautiful metal with a colorful array of colors and a high quality motor. The One Touch Silver Bullet or Elite 5x Bullet would also be a delightful way to celebrate your tenth anniversary!

Think outside the box for a fun adventure to every anniversary!

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Get informed! Sex Toy Material Guide

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

There are many types of materials used to make sex toys and it can be very overwhelming to try and understand the differences and considerations regarding each type of material. Recently concerns have been raised regarding phthalates and toxins in some materials making it especially troubling for consumers. Honey has decided to provide an informative resource to serve as a reference when choosing your next sex toy.

What are Phthalates? They are chemicals that soften plastics and are used in a wide variety of products from building materials, clothing and many adult toys. Currently the use of phthalates and how it affects our health is widely disputed and debated. What we do know is that phthalates make the soft surface of the sex toy porous; hence using a condom over the toy can help make the toy easier to clean. Some people have mild skin reactions to the use of phthalates so again using a condom over the toy cuts down on irritations as well.

Silicone: This material is very easy to clean and can be disinfected or sterilized as well. Silicone is a popular choice because it is easy to clean, hypoallergenic, non-porous, flexible, phthalate free and it can come in a variety of shapes and colors. It warms up to the body temperature and can retain body heat. This material is also very durable and long lasting. Silicone can be boiled for 5 – 10 minutes to be sterilized (as long as no vibrating unit is attached) and can be put into the dishwasher as well, they also can be easily cleaned with soap and water. Silicone is great for people who have sensitive skin or reactions to other products such as rubber or latex.
When choosing a lubricant to use with your silicone toy, you must make sure it is water based as silicone based can sometimes erode or melt the silicone material. If using a silicone lubricant be sure to put a condom over the toy. Some great silicone toys are the Fun Factory Boss, Lelo Gigi and Slim Jim dildo.

Elastomer: This material is a slightly porous material that is still easy to clean but cannot be disinfected. Elastomer is now being used in sex toys because it is a soft material but completely phthalate free, hypoallergenic and durable. To clean elastomer you simply need to use warm water and soap. Elastomer is a good material if you have sensitivity to rubber and still want a soft toy. Toys such as the Rabbit Habit, Rabbit Pearl and Layaspot are all made of elastomer material.

Silicone with TPR (Thermoplastic Rubber): Added to some silicone toys, TPR is a lightweight, flexible material to help add more flex and give to silicone toys. It is phthalate free, easily washed, pliable and supple to the touch but more porous than silicone without TPR. The Royal Princess uses this material.

Jelly Rubber: This material is a soft, porous material that can not be disinfected. Latex as well as phthalates is often included within the material of these toys, these materials have been associated with some skin irritations. An option to avoid skin contact with the jelly rubber if you suspect sensitivity is to place a condom over the toy. This will also make clean up a breeze. Jelly Rubber is a good material if you desire a softer material or have a limited spending budget. The Slim Jelly is a popular toy made with this material.

Hard Materials (Hard Plastic, Glass, Metal and Ceramic): These materials do not contain phthalates and are non porous, hypoallergenic and easy to clean. These products are durable and have a firm, smooth texture to them. Many new toys are made of hard plastic with a soft velvety coating, which maintains its phthalate and hypoallergenic property. Pyrex, which is a high quality glass product and hard plastics, are shatter resistant, but should you notice a crack in the toy then stop using it as you would not want it to break during use. You can boil the glass toys but do not boil the plastics. Some great glass toys are the Pink Indulgence or Masagi Glass, and some great choices to hard plastic toys are the Inked Vibes, Tulip G or Black Jewel.

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Sex Furniture: Hitting all the Right Spots!

Wednesday, July 8th, 2009

Using furniture specifically designed for sex play is a fantastic way to comfortably and easily position both your bodies for optimal sensual play. Using furniture that is foam and shaped with sexual positions in mind creates angles to reach pleasure spots not experienced otherwise. They provide more support than your own pillows and enables you to try a multitude of fun positions.

Iceberg:

Sometimes there isn’t much difference between the right spot and a near-miss. The Iceberg is really versatile and ergonomically designed to decrease the stress on a women’s body.

- It is great to place under your neck when doing the “woman on top” position as it brings you closer to your partner.

- “Downward dog” with the hands free vibrator in place is a must. Improving the angle of penetration as well as helping your partner support the weight and stay in position.

- Elevate your partner’s hips during “missionary” style to improve the angle of the penis to rub against the G spot.
- Under your head and neck for a good “face sitting” which the face closer to the object of it’s affection.
- If you are a sufferer of back pain using a positioning device can be the difference between great sex or no sex. The Iceberg provides the perfect curve for the back allowing you to position yourself in a variety of poses. The curve can support your shoulders and neck to help position you for cunnilingus or fellatio, or support her lower back while you have her legs over your shoulders for deep penetration.
- The Iceberg has the advantage of a vibrator pocket, especially designed to fit a toy such as the Lelo Gigi. You can position yourself over the iceberg and have the vibration perfectly positioned at your clitoris …hands-free to explore other erotic areas!
- When the night is through, unzip the cover and throw it in the wash. The polysuede cover is soft, sensual and easy to clean.

Tilt:
Sometimes due to our bodies shape or size we need a little more support to make our bed play comfortable. The Tilt provides a soft rounded curve that will provide comfortable support for your body.

- When placed beneath your neck and shoulders with the woman on top for a “69” position you can easily and comfortably reach all of her body and help support her as well.
- The tilt easily supports her hips and chest for the deep penetration of the “doggy style” it can also help to support his knees when thrusting from behind. This also helps to position you easy for anal penetration.
- Easily elevate your partner’s hips during missionary position for ease of deep penetration.
- The tilt easily lifts her hips while supporting the lower back for deeper and more intimate missionary positions. Perfect if your partner suffers from back pain or discomfort.
- Support both of your hips and torsos for this snug fit of him on top and her laying beneath.

Love Lounge:

The love lounge is a combination unit providing you with a high and low end allowing you to support your whole body with ease.

- Easily support your entire body during missionary position, his knees and thighs are support for stronger thrusts and her body is fully cushioned and supported.
- For easy cunnilingus you can simply support the back of your thighs against the higher ridge of love lounge and position yourself over him. He will be comfortable and able to play longer.
- Using the higher ridge you can position her hips higher easy access for both deep penetration and anal simulation. Her entire torso is supported along the decline for comfort and saves her arms from straining to hold her weight up.
- With her on top she can easily support a stronger thrust with her knees being supported and raised, also because of the incline with him on his back he can easily lift her with his thighs for a deeper and harder thrust.
- Ride him cowgirl style and have your body easily supported in his lap and your knees higher off the g
round. Also with him reclining on the incline he can use his thighs to thrust harder and deeper.
- Using the length of this love lounge you can easily lay lengthwise along one another for a new and exciting position and sensations.

The Liberators:

The liberator provides you with the fun option of having a ramp, a wedge or a combination of the two together. The benefit of this is that you can choose to purchase the combo and have the options to play with them together or separately for a variety of positions.

The Wedge provide the perfect support for her lower back to lift her hips high, allowing him to penetrate deep while laying over her body for intimacy and sensation.

The Ramp lifts her back and hips supporting her body in a more upright position, allowing him to get up close and personal with ease. The ramp also helps to support and ease your upper body so that you do not need to have all your body weight supported on a flat surface.

Combined the Ramp and Wedge help to lift the body and support the back, thighs and torso for comfort and ease in positioning allowing for deeper, stronger thrusts and longer play time.

With him laying along the combo with his head supported by the wedge and her supported atop his both can easily reach each other’s erogenous zones while being supported for comfort.

With her atop him he can easily thrust deep with his hips supported by the larger ramp while his neck is supported by the wedge so there is less strain on the upper back and shoulder. With her knees raised over the ramp she can easily get more height with less effort.

Whether trying something small such as the iceberg or going for the full love lounge you will be sure to love experiencing the different positions with the support and comfort of the bedroom furniture, in fact, you’ll be wondering what you did before them!

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How to Use a Cock Ring

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

Cock rings provide are a fun and inexpensive way to try something new. They are designed to help the male enjoy stronger orgasms and longer lasting sessions. Many cock rings also hold a bullet for dual stimulation. These popular toys come in a range of materials and styles and are an enjoyable way of introducing more toys into your repertoire.

Traditional Cock Rings: Cock rings can become as elaborate or simple as you choose. The traditional silicone or leather cock rings are designed to slip around the base of the penis, or around the base of the penis and testicles to help maintain a harder and longer lasting erection. The snug fit also helps to give men a stronger and more intense orgasm. Rings made of silicone or rubber such as the Mega Stretch Silicone Ring or Erection Lasso have a large amount of stretch to them allowing them to easily accommodate most sizes comfortably while still providing enough tension. Leather cock rings such as the Spank Cock Ring has less elasticity to them so you need to use the various snaps to adjust the fit and comfort of the ring. As an added tip if you put the cock ring mid-way down your shaft you can give her the added benefit of sensation during intercourse, or you could even try multiple rings for a bumpy ride.

Vibrating Cock Rings: Vibrating cock rings are a fabulous invention; it turns your penis into a real live vibrator. The effect of the vibration is electrifying for both you and your partner, with the Big “O” or Disposable Vibe Ring you can place it so the is bullet above your shaft for optimal clitoral stimulation for her, or turn downwards with the bullet against your testicles for your benefit. The Bong “O” has an added pleasure ball which when the ring is tucked around your shaft and testicles the ball bounces against the sensitive perineum for added pleasure. And for the ultimate in duo pleasure cock ring, you can try the Tri-O, this inventive cock ring sits around the base of your penis with a bullet on top of the shaft for her and another bullet underneath the shaft for him…and with a perineum tickler too! The added bonus of the vibrating cock rings is that they provide more intense stimulation for both partners.

Remember: Safety First. Cock rings do have a time limit, we recommend removing them after 30 minutes of use to make sure you are not reducing blood flow to the penile tissue for an extended period of time. Also make sure to clean your cock rings with warm water and soap to make sure it’s all clean and ready for you next go round.

Other toys such as the Betty Jo Dual Vibrator slip around the penis with an area for two bullets- one above and one below with a larger silicone cock ring to give your partner a strong clitoral stimulator. Also toys such as the Utopia Dual Action and Triple Action rings have a longer sleeve for the penis providing more girth.

So for your next new toy experience try the wonderful world of cock rings to help provide dual pleasure, longer lasting erections and stronger orgasms, you may be wondering why you waited so long!

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The Low Down on Going Down

Tuesday, April 7th, 2009

Going down on your partner is exciting because you are providing your partner with the ultimate sexual pleasure and demonstrating your skill as a lover but it can also be nerve racking if you don’t know what you are doing. We have outlined some very useful tips and techniques to help you take her to new heights of sexual pleasure so you can go down and have fun!

1. Position. Make sure both of you are comfortable. Use pillows beneath your knees if she is standing up so that you won’t be paying more attention to your aching knees than her sexual pleasure. Use pillows or positions aids such as the liberator to angle her hips for easy access. There are a number of ways to provide oral sex for your partner, you can have her straddling your face and holding herself balanced using the head board. This position is sexy and she can have more control. The traditional cunnilingus position with her laying on her back and you between her legs, this is especially good if she is feeling a little self conscious, or her standing and you kneeling between her legs, this appeals to the alpha females and gives you easy access to all her sexy parts.

2. Technique. Don’t just pull of her panties, take it slow, maybe tease through the fabric and tease and tantalize. Make sure you make an effort to relax your tongue as you don’t want it too stiff and pointed, especially in the beginning when it is nice to warm up with broader strokes. An especially great tongue technique is the figure eight, by moving your tongue around more sensitive areas and not just the clitoris you can really rev her engine. Be sure to vary your strokes, fast to slow, firm to gentle, zigzag your tongue and watch her body language because she will let you know which of those she likes best.

3. Lubes and Vibes. Sometimes it is fun to add a small vibrator such as the finger fun or the 5x Finger Vibe to your oral play, these small vibrators can help you bring her to intense orgasms. The fukuoku and finger vibe allow you to slip the vibe onto your finger so you can easily access her clitoris, labia and anus for a full range of vibration sensation. This can help take her over the edge into bliss. Lubricant can also be a fun addition, it is especially helpful if your mouth is feeling dry. There are some deliciously flavored natural lubricants such as the Hathor Flavored Lube or O’My on the market, these help to make you tongue slip and slide as well as taste delicious.

If you are wanting to learn more about how to take your oral sex techniques to new heights and provide even more pleasure then we recommend checking out the Low Down on Going Down Book, or if you’re a visual learner you can also try the Expert Guide to Oral Sex; Cunnilingus DVD. Also already packaged and ready for you is the Low Down on Going Down Honeycomb Gift box, it has everything you need all neatly packages for her oral pleasures!

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How to Give a World-Class Blowjob

Wednesday, March 4th, 2009

1. Choose your position carefully. The classic porn move that he’ll be sure to love is him standing, leaning against a wall and you on your knees before him, it not only looks good but it also looks as if you are worshiping his body. Make sure you are comfortable, with pillows under your knees or if he is sitting or lying on the bed be sure you have enough support so that you are not putting all your weight on your elbows or arms. Being comfortable is important so that you can enjoy yourself without having to stop and think about any pain or discomfort.

2. Toys. Make sure to have any toys or plaything you wish to use on hand and within easy reach. The Blow Him Away Honeycomb Kit has a lot of fun items to help stimulate his sensitive spots, the finger toy can easily be slipped onto your finger or put on the popular Tongue Teaser so that you don’t have to look for them later. Cock rings are also a fun addition to your play, it helps him last longer and makes the orgasm more intense, this is especially helpful if he gets a little too excited by your sexy mouth. The Spank Cock Ring and Erection Lasso are sexy options.

3. Techniques. Every guy likes to be touched differently. The best way to find out what he likes best is to ask. Or if you wish to be sneakier put your fingers in his mouth while you are playing with him, he’ll most likely suck your finger the way he wants to be sucked, sneaky and you’ll learn a thing or two about what he likes. Licking is often a great way to get started, using the flat side of your tongue you can go from tip to end like licking an ice cream cone. Spend some time enjoying this, pay attention to his tip as it is the most sensitive area but also to the entire length of the penis and the testicles. Make sure to be gentle when applying the teeth and watch to be sure you don’t hurt him.

4. Tricks. Some interesting ways to spice things up and keep him guessing is to take a drink before hand of something slightly warm or cool, hold it in your mouth for a moment, swallow then slide your mouth over him. The coolness or added warmth to your mouth is an added bonus of sensation. Nipple Nibbler applied to your lips will have him tingling and tasting yummy. Other products designed for stimulating this erogenous area are Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm and Rocket Balm. The heating and tingling sensation will drive him wild! Also while you are using your mouth you can also involve your hands to the fun, using the finger vibes you can vibrate his perineum or anus for added pleasure, and wrapping your hand firmly around the base of the shaft and giving a hand-job while using your mouth is especially sexy.

**Make eye contact, it’s sexy and will turn him on!**

5. Lubrication. Making the penis slick and slippery will also be very pleasurable. There are some fun choices available like flavored lubricants, warming lubricants, or others with a tingling or cooling sensations.

6. To swallow or not to swallow. It’s your choice whether you want to swallow or not, but try to make the choice before hand so you know what you want to do as you near the end of your play. This avoids any awkwardness at the end. If you decide to swallow try to push him farther into your mouth so that you can bypass the tip of the tongue where most of the taste buds are or put him near you cheek and swallow in one gulp. Also you can hold onto his penis and rock him gently towards you to push him deeper into your mouth, sexy and effective. You can also pretend to swallow, by pushing your tongue against him while he’s coming which allows you to push to the semen back out of your mouth and have it slide down his penis making him warm and slippery. This feels good for him and is a nice
compromise. Or you can always allow him to ejaculate someplace else, pearl necklace perhaps?

7. Lastly; but VERY importantly, one of the key secrets to giving him a blowjob that will take his breath away and leave him your willing slave is simply enthusiasm. Honest enthusiasm to please and play with him is an aphrodisiac often ignored. Even the most skilled techniques are nothing if you are not really into what you are doing. So get ready to learn some easy ways to blow his mind and turn up the heat.

To learn more about giving a great blowjob, check out some very informative and fun books like Tickle His Pickle, Blow Him Away, or How to Be a Great Lover. If you learn better with visuals like a DVD, try Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Fellatio Sex Ed for a New Generation or How to Give a World-Class Blowjob DVD.

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Playful Positions for Fuller Figures

Thursday, June 26th, 2008

Pregnancy is a beautiful time for you and your partner, but sometime the beautiful belly starts to get in the way of your more traditional positions. Here are some fun varieties to try that are comfortable and safe for mommy and baby.
Soft Landing: Stack a pile of soft and fluffy pillows underneath your stomach and chest to cushion and support your body and neck. You will have comfort against the support and he has access to your body from behind. This position allows for adding a little anal play into the equation. The Havana Tush Toy kit can be used with or without vibrations. Using just the tip of the plug for external stimulation of the bum can be a lot of fun. In this position he should avoid pumping too hard or deep.

Wheelbarrow: This position is comfortable and easy. Simply lay curled on your side at the edge of your mattress with your neck and shoulder propped comfortably by a few soft and fluffy pillows. He stands between your butt and knees for easy penetration, and he will enjoy a wonderful view of you. In this position he can easily reach around and stimulate your clitoris with a small and compact Fuzuoku Finger Vibrator. Use the finger sex toy to slowly tease and tantalize!
Belly Up: Bracing yourself up against a headboard or wall allows for a shallower penetration that is pleasurable and fun. It also gives him access to touch your breasts, belly and clitoris softly. We recommend using pillows beneath your knees for comfort and support. Combining this with a couples toy like the Diving Dolphin can triple your pleasure! This toy comes with two bullets-one that vibrates against her clitoris as well as one underneath that stimulates him and her!
As you move along in your pregnancy we recommend visiting your doctor, intercourse should be fine if your pregnancy is progressing normally but if you have any complications be sure to discuss frankly with your doctor what you can and can not do.
Hello to all you voluptuous ladies out there. We’ve created a section just for you, to help you discover some creative and ingenious solutions to some playful positions. Being a plus size lady has many challenges with body image and some positions just don’t work. But instead of worrying about all that we’ve come up with a few fail safe solutions to just enjoy sex, no matter your size.
No Ouch Couch: The couch is perfect for sex furniture. Using the seat cushion to support you upper body and having more pillows supporting your arms and neck as well as cushioning your knees. You will feel cushioned and comfortable allowing him access from behind for deep penetration. This position is great for him to reach around to stimulate your nipples with some Ice Queen Nipple Gel or placing a compact mini vibrator on his finger like the Five Function Finger Vibe to slowly massage your clitoris. This position is also super for pleasuring the nerve rich anal area. Start slowly stimulating the outside with a small well lubricated butt plug like the Silicone Pleasure Plug or insert some small anal beads like the Fun Factory Bendy Beads. The beads are slowly pulled out during an orgasm providing a more intense experience.
Deep Mission: Continuing our couch theme, if you throw the back cushions to the side you will create a deeper couch on which to enjoy yourselves. You can lay back, get comfortable and open you legs wide for a deeper missionary penetration. The intimacy of gazing into each others eyes and giving him access to your breast and clitoris will make this an all around enjoyable position. If you find pillows too soft, a wonderful option would be The Liberator Sex Furniture. These triangular shapes allow you to move into unlimited positions while providing firm support. You won’t be limited by where you can and cannot have sex. The triangle shapes make it easy to slip into narrow spaces when not in use.

Good Headboard: Sometime being on top when you are a voluptuous lady can be awkward and uncomfortable. If you try using the head board as leverage you can lift and support your body with ease and the leverage allows you to speed up the action. This position gives him the added advantage of being able to lay back and have access to your clitoris. A vibrating cock ring like the Utopia Triple Action can be a fabulous addition to this position as it allows you full control of how much stimulation you want on your clitoris. You can tease yourself until you’re ready to orgasm. This couple’s sex toy also has an extra testicle ring for him-intensifying his orgasm.

To see more of these playful positions see Ride’em Cowgirl by Sadie Allison.

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