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Erotic New Year’s Resolutions

Saturday, December 26th, 2015

Erotic New Year's Resolutions Vancouver Canada

Do you have a new year’s resolution yet? According to a recent study, the top three new year’s resolutions are to stick to a budget, exercise regularly, and eat healthier. While these are great new year’s resolutions that can help you live your best life, here at Honey Gifts we want you to consider making a few new year’s resolutions to improve your sexual health and happiness, too! Whether you are single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, there are lots of easy and fun ways you can improve your sex life.

Get To Know What You Like – For some women, masturbation is already a part of their sexual repertoire, and that’s great! Others may be exploring their body for the first time. Keep in mind that masturbation is part of a normal and healthy sex life, and can have lots of benefits for the body, too. Sexual health researchers have found that having an orgasm releases tension, relieves stress, and can help you get to sleep. Who knew! Masturbation can also improve your partnered sex life, too. Knowing how you like to be pleasured makes it easier to communicate with your partner what you enjoy. For women that are uncertain where to begin, we recommend trying a versatile and easy to use vibrator that you can use internally for g-spot stimulation and externally for clitoral pleasure, such as the Lelo Gigi 2.

Explore Your Sexual Fantasies – Getting the sex life you really want is about communicating your sexual desires and exploring your fantasies. Feeling a little shy? One way to easily bring up sexual fantasies with your partner is to read short erotic stories to each another, and then talk about what parts of the story that turned you on the most. The Sweet Life: Erotic Fantasies for Couples is a short story anthology for couples to inspire and arouse you. Another great way to share fantasies with your partner is to watch adult erotic films together. Erika Lust’s downloadable adult films are tastefully erotic and sensual movies that celebrate sexuality, intimacy, and genuine passion between couples. Watching an erotic film with your partner can easily and quickly get you in the mood for a night of intimacy, and bring you closer together through your shared sexual experience. If you are starting the new year solo, erotic stories and adult films are a great way to explore your own sexuality, too.

Try Something New – One of the great things about a new year is feeling like you get to start fresh. So why not try something new that you’ve been interested in for awhile now? Whether you are picking out your first sex toy or already have a few, trying out a new adult sex toy can bring a lot of sexual pleasure and enjoyment to your solo or partner sex life. The new Fun Factory G5 Tiger Deluxe Vibrator is a USB rechargeable vibe that has stimulating textured ridges and ultra-strong vibrations. Curious about bondage? The 50 Shades of Kink: Introduction to BDSM book and Beginner Bondage Fantasy Kit will get you started. Want to try a new sex position? The informative Sex Deck accompanied by the supportive Liberator Wedge make it easy to get into different sexual positions.

Have a safe and happy new year’s from Honey Gifts!

Intro to Anal 101

Thursday, October 22nd, 2015

Intro to Anal 101

Curious about trying anal sex? Whether you are interested in solo anal exploration, or anal sex with a partner, anal stimulation can add a lot of pleasure and excitement to your sex life. If you are just beginning to explore anal play, there are few things to keep in mind to make your anal experience more pleasurable and safe.

Hygiene:

For peace of mind, some people like to wash the anal area externally with a gentle cleanser, such as the organic Sliquid Splash cleanser, before any anal play. For a more complete clean, others prefer to use an anal douche (also known as an enema) such the Ultra Douche or Titan Flexible-Nozzle Douche, to thoroughly clean the rectum internally. When using a douche or enema, it is important to read the directions closely and make sure to give yourself plenty of time to finish your cleaning routine. If you are going to be using butt plug or any other anal sex toy, make sure to clean it thoroughly before and after each use with a cleaner such as the popular Refresh Toy Cleaner. For your health and safety, remember to never go between the anus and vagina or mouth using the same sex toy, penis, or fingers, as harmful bacteria can be transferred from the anus if you aren’t careful.

Lubricant:

With any anal play, it is important to use plenty of good quality lubricant! Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating, meaning that you need to use a generous amount of lubricant during any kind of penetrating anal play for your comfort. There are a lot of different types of lubricant that are great for anal play, depending on what you are looking for. The Intimate Organics Soothe Anal Lubricant is formulated with soothing botanicals and is great for people with sensitive skin. For those looking for a longer lasting formula, a silicone lubricant such as the Pjur Silicone Lubricant is a great choice – just make sure not to use silicone lubricant with your silicone sex toys, as the silicone lubricant may degrade your silicone toys over time.

Sex Toys:

Anal sex toys come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and materials. When just starting out, it is generally recommended to begin with a smaller sex toy that is tapered for easy insertion, like the Pleasure Plug in the smallest size, or the Vibrating Anal Beads. Some people find it easier to work up to penetrative anal sex with their partner by first starting out using a smaller butt plug to get used to the feeling, either on their own or as part of foreplay with their partner. All butt plugs and anal beads are all designed with a flared base or ring for safety to ensure that they remain in place during use and are not accidentally lost internally. While most anal sex toys can be enjoyed by anyone, some sex toys, such as the Duke Prostate Massager, are specifically designed to stimulate the prostate in men. Using sex toys when exploring anal stimulation can add a lot of enjoyment and pleasure, just make sure that you are using a sex toy that is designed for anal play for your safety.

Keep in Mind…

Before trying anal sex with a partner, it is a good idea to get familiar with your anal area. Explore your own body and to get to know what feels good for yourself. Some people find that using a gentle relaxing spray, such as the Intimate Organics Anal Relaxing Spray, makes anal sex more comfortable. You can also try out different positions for anal sex from the Anal Sex Position Guide. If you experience any discomfort during anal play, that’s your body’s way of telling you to slow down, add more lubricant, or just take a break and try something different for awhile. And if you find that anal sex just isn’t for you, that’s okay, too!

Romantic Getaways

Monday, August 24th, 2015

Planning a romantic getaway can bring you closer together then ever before!

 

Planning a romantic getaway is a fun way to bring you closer together as a couple. Going on a romantic vacation together, whether you are planning a week of exiting international travel or a relaxing weekend getaway nearby, gives you and your partner time to relax and reconnect while enjoying each another’s company. Planning a romantic getaway is just like planning any other vacation – it pays to plan ahead! Make sure you pack everything you need ahead of time to inspire intimacy and sensuality on your vacation.

Planning Ahead for Romance:

– When you get the hotel and get settled, set the tone of the getaway by giving your partner an erotic massage using a romantic massage candle. Unsure how to give your partner a massage? Try out some of the easy to learn techniques in the Touch Me Erotic Massage Game.

– Get inspired by reading erotic stories to one another from the Sweet Confessions: Erotic Fantasies for Couples book. Or try playing one of the erotic games in Cosmo’s Steamy Sex Games, which includes 12 quick, sexy games to play with your partner.

– Want to really heat things up? Surprise your partner with some erotic lingerie and a couple’s sex toy to try together!

– Not sure what to bring? The Kama Sutra Getaway Kit and the Kama Sutra Weekenders Kit are specially designed with several different travel-sized romantic oils, lotions, and pleasure gels to try together.

– Make sure to pack any lubricant and safe sex supplies you might need.

Travel Tips for a Worry-Free Romantic Getaway:

– When you’re packing your adult sex toys, make sure to remove any batteries to avoid your vibrator turning on accidentally in your suitcase. Some rechargeable vibrators feature a travel lock function to prevent this from happening. If you’re flying, some airlines place restrictions on what you can bring in your carry-on luggage. For hassle-free traveling, it’s recommended to pack your sex toys in clear plastic bags in your checked baggage.

– Make sure to pack extra batteries or the charger for your rechargeable sex toys. When leaving the hotel, make sure you don’t forget to take your chargers with you.

– Taking some extra time to set the mood for a night of romance makes your romantic getaway feel extra-special. Bring some candles, scented rose petals, and some romantic music, or bring an erotic DVD to watch together.

– Once at the hotel, make sure to put the “do not disturb” sign on the door and request to not be interrupted with a turn-down service if the hotel provides one. You don’t want to be interrupted when things are heating up!

What Frequent Travelers Know:

– Print a copy of any confirmations from hotel, car, or flight reservations. That way, you have all the information you need right at hand in case you need to confirm your travel itinerary with the front desk of the hotel or travel agent at the airport.

– If you aren’t familiar with your destination, it’s a good idea to check out Google Maps before you leave, and get an idea of where you’re going so you don’t miss that important highway exit turn off to your destination!

Keep in Mind…

Planning a romantic getaway is all about bringing you closer to your partner and getting some much deserved rest and relaxation time together. Even if everything doesn’t go exactly according to plan, just remember it’s all part of the adventure. Bon Voyage!

New Rechargeable Hitachi Magic Wand

Monday, June 8th, 2015

Have you heard of the Hitachi Magic Wand? Recommended by countless industry experts, including Dr. Laura Berman and Betty Dodson, and featured on Sex and The City, the original Hitachi Magic Wand is legendary in the world of high quality sex toys for the past 30 years. Now comes the innovative new Rechargeable Original Magic Wand!

This revolutionary new version of the original Hitachi Magic Wand provides the same incredibly strong external vibrations – without the cord! That means that you are no longer restricted to using the Magic Wand near a wall plug in. The versatility of the new cordless version means that you can use it nearly anywhere, just make sure not to take it in the shower or the bath as the Rechargeable Hitachi Magic Wand isn’t waterproof. Simply use a damp washcloth to carefully clean the head of the Magic Wand.

Whereas the original Hitachi Magic Wand has two speeds, this new rechargeable version features 4 vibration patterns with 4 levels of intensity at the touch of a button. The easy to use button controls and light up display make finding the right vibration setting simple. For added comfort, make sure to use some water based lube when using the Magic Wand on the vulva and clitoris. The new version of the Magic Wand is compatible with the Curved Attachment and Wonder Wand Attachment designed for the original Magic Wand, too.

This updated version of the original Hitachi Magic Wand also features a smooth, silicone head that is non-porous, hygienic, and hypoallergenic, making it suitable for those with sensitive skin. For a relaxing all-over body massage to soothe achy muscles, try the Magic Wand on your shoulders or back. When you are ready to charge this sex toy, simply plug it into the wall using the included charging cord and in 3 hours it will be fully charged.

The Rechargeable Original Magic Wand is the perfect sex toy for people that are searching for a strong vibrator that delivers incredibly powerful external vibrations. For the past 30 years, the original Hitachi Magic Wand has been the go-to sex toy for countless women, a title that may be surpassed quickly with the versatile, cordless Rechargeable Original Magic Wand! Find the Rechargeable Original Magic Wand at Honey Gifts in Vancouver, Canada.

Lelo Luna Vibrating Smart Bead

Monday, November 3rd, 2014



The Lelo Luna Vibrating Smart Bead is a personal vibrating massager that guides you easily through a series of progressively difficult exercise routines in order to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles to aid you in achieving stronger and more frequent orgasms. Hygienic, non-porous and hypoallergenic, the Luna Vibrating Smart Bead is designed to sit comfortably in the vagina, with an easy retrieval cord to assist you in removal. The Luna Vibrating Smart Bead makes doing kegel exercises incredibly easy – simply squeeze and relax your pelvic floor muscles along to the guided, timed pre-programmed vibration exercise routine. Let the gentle vibrations guide you through the exercise. After the approximately 5 minute exercise routine, the bead will automatically turn off. Innovative touch-sensors measure the level of strength in each squeeze, automatically adjusting the difficulty of the routine to the setting that’s right for you. As the pelvic floor muscles get stronger, the bead will automatically adjust the setting, allowing you to progressively work through 5 different difficulty modes. The Luna Vibrating Smart Bead also features a constant vibrating setting for pleasure. Designed to efficiently exercise, strengthen, and tone your vaginal muscles, the Luna Vibrating Smart Bead from Lelo makes kegel exercises simple, fun, and easy.

Features:

  • Vibrating kegel exercising bead
  • Strengthen pelvic floor muscles easily
  • Let the gentle vibrations guide you through the exercise routine
  • Innovative touch-sensors measure the level of difficulty required – from beginner to advanced
  • 5 progressive vibration settings that automatically adjust to the difficulty setting you need
  • Hygienic, non-porous and hypoallergenic
  • Retrieval cord for easy removal
  • Waterproof
  • Separate, constant vibrating setting for pleasure
  • Easy to clean
  • Up to 200 training cycles with 1 battery
  • Great for beginners and more advanced users
  • Storage bag and battery included

Sexual Tips and How to Use: Apply water based lubricant to the toy to increase comfort prior to insertion, and then press the button once to turn on the Lelo Luna Vibrating Smart Bead and gently insert into the vagina. Once inserted into the vagina, the bead will begin to vibrate. Squeeze and relax your pelvic floor muscles along to the guided, timed pre-programmed vibration training cycle. Let the gentle vibrations guide you through the exercise routine. After the approximately 5 minute training cycle, the bead will automatically turn off. After the routine is complete, a separate constant vibration mode can be turned on by holding the button for three seconds, if desired. The Lelo Luna Vibrating Smart Bead measures the level of difficulty and automatically adjusts as necessary, allowing you to work through 5 progressive vibration settings depending on the difficulty setting you need. This toy is not compatible with silicone lubricant, as it may degrade the silicone material of the toy over time.

Cleaning Advice: This toy is completely waterproof, making it easy to clean. Simply clean with mild soap and warm water, or use a specially formulated toy cleaner. Dry completely before storage.

Storage Advice: Store this toy in a cool, dry place. Placing this toy in the included storage bag before storing will help keep dust away.

Sizing and Specs:

  • Width: 3.2 cm (1.25 inches)
  • Length: Bead is 7.9 cm (3.1 inches) long, Retrieval cord is 6 cm (2.4 inches) long
  • Texture: Smooth
  • Material: Silicone
  • Waterproof: Yes
  • Power: 1 x AAA battery (included)

Contact Honeygifts.com to answer any questions you have about this or any other product.

Liberator Sex Furniture

Tuesday, July 29th, 2014



Where is it written that sex has to be hard work? Where does it say that you have to be a contortionist or acrobat to experiment with new positions? Liberator has created a fantastic line of sex furniture that aids in sexual enjoyment as well as sexual adventure. This furniture not only lets you try positions you never thought you could try but also makes sex more enjoyable with less work for both partners.

Liberator Black Label
*note for Black Label items, the cuffs and mask appear leopard print in the images, they are in fact solid black

Black Label Ramp
The Black Label line from liberator is for adventurers who think bondage might be in the cards. The Black Label Ramp features ankle cuffs, a blindfold, cuff connector, two tethers, and a 10-page position guide allowing you to experiment in countless ways. The ramp elevates your lovemaking 12 inches for more options off the side of the bed or a superior doggie-style position. Standing is a man’s “power position” sexually, allowing for stronger thrusting, more varied strokes and greater longevity. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Black Label Ramp.

Black Label Ramp Video – Contains Explicit Sexual Activity (18+)

Black Label Wedge
The Black Label Wedge is great for ease of access. This product includes wrist cuffs, blindfold, cuff connector, two tethers, and a 10-page position guide. Bottoms can get buried in a squishy mattress, the wedge lifts and tilts for a better missionary position. A 27-degree angle presents her on a platter for oral sex that neither strains his neck nor drains his energy. Longer sessions yield stronger orgasms. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Black Label Wedge.

Black Label Wedge Video – Contains Explicit Sexual Activity (18+)

Black Label Ramp/Wedge Combo
The Black Label line also offers a Ramp/Wedge combo. This combination allows for all the possibilities of the pieces separately while adding possibilities when using the pieces combined.

Liberator Classic

Liberator Ramp
The Liberator Ramp lifts your lover 10 to 14 inches and tilts them 27 degrees letting you dive in deeper and reach further. Off the side of the bed, the elevation increases the sweet sexy sensations, sending you into a quivering love saturated oblivion. The Liberator Ramp is now even better; newly redesigned the ramp folds in half for more convenient transportation and storage while not affecting usability.

Liberator Wedge
The Liberator Wedge packs huge benefits into a small package. Fantastic for elevating or providing support the firm foam is comfortable yet maintains its stability. With numerous positions that can be done comfortably you are free to explore a whole new world of sexual pleasure. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Wedge.

Classic Wedge Video – Contains Explicit Sexual Activity (18+)

Liberator Ramp/Wedge Combo
Get the benefits of both the Ramp and the Wedge with the Ramp/Wedge combination. New and exciting possibilities are available when you combine the two. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Ramp/Wedge Combo.

Classic Ramp/Wedge Combo Video – Contains Explicit Sexual Activity (18+)

Liberator Flip Ramp
Looking for a versatile piece that can double as a foot stool or for seating? Look no further than the Liberator Flip Ramp. This item folds into a cube allowing it to be used in a multitude of ways and when folded out can be used like the Ramp. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Flip Ramp.

Flip Ramp Video – Contains Simulated Sexual Activity (18+)

Stimulate Your Largest Sex Organ

Tuesday, May 20th, 2014

Are looking for something to read that will titillate? Erotica can be a great way to explore your desires without actually having to attempt to create the fantasy. Erotica can also be a great way to discover things that excite you that you had no idea about. This guide can steer you in the right direction no matter what you are looking for.

Erotica comes in many different styles; from novels that follow a single story to collections that cover a wide range of topics and collections that focus on a single theme.

When thinking of erotic novels that follow a single story the 50 Shades trilogy immediately springs to mind. These novels by E.L. James follow the tumultuous relationship between wealthy businessman Christian Grey and literature student Anastasia Steele as she explores her desires and he learns that there are other routes to satisfying his own. These novels involve BDSM and have been instrumental in opening the door to men and women exploring some of their darker fantasies. The series includes the novels 50 Shades of Grey, 50 Shades Darker, and 50 Shades Freed.

If you are looking for something a little darker, the cornerstone of BDSM stories for years has been the Story of O. This novel by Pauline Reage follows the story of “O”, a photographer, as she submits completely to her lover Rene and explores the underground of the BDSM scene.

Most collections have a minor unifying theme, for example erotica for women, erotica for couples, erotica for lesbians, etc. If you are looking for a very general collection of erotica that will contain a wide variety of stories a great place to start is The Mammoth Book of Best New Erotica. Containing over 45 stories from a multitude of different authors there is sure to be something in this book that gets your engines revving. Some of the best erotica for women is written by Nancy Friday. In her collections she explores themes of female sexual awakening and exploration and provides a wide range of fantasies. Her novels include Women on Top, My Secret Garden, and Forbidden Flowers.

Erotica for couples is a great way to explore fantasies together by reading out loud to one another or both reading the story separately and coming together to discuss or explore. Couples erotica is also a great way to be able to share your fantasies with your partner, if it’s difficult for you to come out and say ‘I want to try (insert desire here)’ then it may be easier for you to say ‘I am really intrigued by what Sally and Joe did in the story we read’. Some great collections of couples erotica are Sweet Confessions, Sweet Life and Sweet Life 2, and Irresistible: Erotic Romance for Couples.

Lots of erotica comes in collections that explore specific themes. If you are looking for lesbian erotica a great collection is Best Lesbian Erotica, an annual collection of the years best lesbian themed erotica collected together in one volume. If you are looking for anal erotica a great collection is Luscious: Stories of Anal Eroticism. This volume collects together 27 unique stories celebrating anal sex. Another theme is aqua erotica, or erotic stories that involve water. A great collection is Wet: More Aqua Erotica, and as an added bonus the book is waterproof so you can take it into the water with you.

Another theme that is explored in erotica is BDSM. Many people are curious about bondage, or domination/submission, and some people are curious about exploring pain, either their own or others. This curiosity  isn’t always easy to explore, ones partner may not be interested, you may be single, or maybe you just aren’t ready to jump into the deep end. While many people are interested in reading an entire novel along these themes many other people find it more desirable to read a series of short stories that explore different situations and that can be read in a single session. Some great collections of BDSM themed erotica include Best Bondage Erotica, an annual collection of the years most celebrated short stories, or Anything for You: Erotica for Kinky Couples a collection falling in both the BDSM and couples categories.

Whatever your desire you are sure to find erotica that matches so explore some of these great stories today and satisfy not just your curiosity.

The Seasons Hottest Gifts – 1 of 3 – The Lelo Hula Beads

Thursday, November 28th, 2013

The holidays are approaching and that means finding the perfect holiday gift for your special someone.

This holiday Honey Gifts recommends trying out three new and innovative products from two of the most respected and high quality companies in the industry; Lelo and We-Vibe.

The Hula beads are the world’s first remote-controlled pleasure beads offering rotations and vibrations for the most intense pleasures. These beads provide unlimited excitement for couples. The discreetness of the remote and the quite motor are perfect for a little experimentation; try them at a restaurant, on the dance floor or during foreplay. With 8 rotation & vibration patterns, a wireless remote with a range up to 12 meters and powered with SenseMotion technology this smart and sleek product will leave you satisfied. The Hula is 100% waterproof & rechargeable with a battery charge of 1.5 hours use and 60 day standby and is made from smooth, body-safe silicone with 1-year warranty so you always feel safe, comfortable and hygienic.

Features:

    • Remote Control with SenseMotion
    • 8 Stimulation Modes
    • 100% Waterproof & Rechargeable
    • Ultra-smooth, Body-safe Silicone
    • 1-Year Warranty, 10-Year Quality Guarantee

Sexual Tips and How to Use:

Insert only the rotating bead gently within, and let powerful vibrations be felt around the ultra-sensitive labia and up to the clitoris. Or take things further by wearing them discreetly inside, so the top bead rotates against the G-spot, while the lower bead delivers powerful vibrations through 8 stimulation patterns, each adjustable via wireless remote.

Sizing and Specs:

    • Width: 3.8 cm
    • Length:9.8 cm
    • Texture: Smooth
    • Material: Silicone
    • Waterproof: 100%
    • Power: Hula Beads are rechargeable and the wireless remote takes 2 AAA batteries (sold separately)

Pelvic Floor Exercises for Sexual Health

Tuesday, August 27th, 2013

What exercises can make recovering from childbirth easier, reduce urinary incontinence, tighten the vagina and increase sexual pleasure in women and reduce premature ejaculation while increasing the size and intensity of erections in men? Pelvic floor exercises which are also known as Kegel’s have been shown to provide all of these benefits.

Women are prone to a number of factors that decrease pelvic muscle strength over time; these include being overweight, pregnancy, ageing, childbirth and abdominal surgery. A decrease in pelvic muscle strength can lead to urinary incontinence, reduction in sexual pleasure, and pelvic prolapse which can leave a woman feeling less than sexy and highly uncomfortable.

Men can also suffer from a lack of pelvic muscle strength and factors such as being overweight and abdominal surgery will decrease a male’s pelvic muscle strength in the same way as females. A lack of pelvic muscle strength in men can lead to urinary incontinence, premature ejaculation and diminished erections.

Thankfully there is a way for both men and women to increase the strength of their pelvic floor muscles and gain the benefits. Just as your arms benefit from lifting weights so too does your pelvic floor benefit from Kegel exercises.

For men, because Kegel devices are unusable, simple reps of muscle contraction are the best way to gain muscle tone in the pelvic floor. A great resource for men in regards to Kegel’s is provided by the Mayo Clinic.

For women there are a lot more options for doing Kegel exercises. Ben Wa balls are one of the best tools for aiding in pelvic floor strengthening and they come in many different shapes and sizes, many even including an internal counter weight to stimulate automatic contraction of the pelvic floor muscles. One of the best products for beginners or experienced users alike is Lelo’s Luna Luxury Pleasure Balls because they come with two different sets of weights that can be interchanged in the silicone sleeve in order to do a gradual progression of resistance and find exactly the balance that works for you. The Luna balls also come in two different sizes, the Lelo Luna Mini’s which are for younger women who have not experienced pregnancy and the Lelo Luna Balls which are for older women and those women who have experienced pregnancy, suffer from urinary incontinence or pelvic prolapse. The Luna balls also come in a sleek black version.

Another fantastic beginner set is Fun Factory’s Smart Balls, either the Tenuo Uno or the Tenuo Duo depending on which appears more desirable to you. Both versions contain an internal weight and are coated in high quality silicone which means they are made to last and incredibly hygienic.

Once you have gotten the hang of the Ben Wa balls you can graduate up to heavier weights and solid balls such as the most advanced Little Gold Balls which are quite heavy and are solid metal and the new to the market Fifty Shades of Grey balls which are also solid metal but come on a string and are larger.

With daily exercises you should see benefits in 8-12 weeks. With minimal work and incredible benefits to both your health and sexual function, pelvic floor exercises are a fantastic addition to your daily routine. When you consider that they can be done at work, while you do house work, while you are taking your kids to the park, at night lying in bed and pretty much anywhere else you can think of there is no excuse not to be taking care of this part of your health the way you take care of everything else.


Stamina Training

Saturday, July 27th, 2013

Men and women often have different pleasure cycles when engaging in sexual activity so a common problem for men is finishing before their partner is finished. This difference between the genders often leaves men feeling embarrassed and women feeling dissatisfied but as sexual partners we need to understand these inherent sexual differences and find ways to overcome our natural biological differences.

These natural differences are one of the reasons foreplay is so important, it gets women aroused to a level equal to their lover which increases the chance of simultaneous orgasms during intercourse. Often this still is not long enough and for many men this prospect can create some anxiety. Sexual stamina training and the many different products on the market can help prolong sexual activity and increase satisfaction for both partners.

One of the best ways to delay orgasm is stamina training which is just what it sounds like, for a marathon you run longer everyday and for sex you masturbate longer everyday. One of the best ways to do this is to use Fleshlights Stamina Training Unit. The way this unit works is by creating a texture on the inside that is extra stimulating and will bring a man to orgasm rapidly; therefore, if you can last 15 minutes in the stamina trainer you can last 25 during intercourse. To increase stamina use the device until you are near orgasm and then stop until the feeling subsides (also known as edging), then resume masturbation until close to orgasm again. Repeat this process as many times as you feel comfortable and then either stop without an orgasm or continue to fruition. Any Fleshlight can be used for this purpose and the process will create lasting increases in stamina.

If stamina training doesn’t work for you or if you need more immediate results try one of the many prolonging products such as Stud 100, Kama Sutra Desensitizer Gel, Shunga Sensations Desensitizing Balm or Shunga Male Desensitizer, all of which decrease sensation by using an anaesthetic type ingredient. Condoms can also help prolong intercourse by decreasing sensation; speciality condoms like Performax include a climax control lubricant on the inside. Cock Rings can also be used around the base of the penis or around both the testicles and penis to prolong intercourse.

Another way to sync sexual release with your partner is to enhance their stimulation. This can be achieved by using any number of stimulating products such as ON Natural Arousal Oil, Shunga Secret Garden Cream, Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel, O Clitoral Stimulating Gel, Flower Balm or Love Button Arousal Balm. These products help arousal in a female by increasing the blood flow to the clitoral area. Kama Sutra has packaged a desensitizer and a stimulating gel in one kit called the Kama Sutra As One Pleasure Kit that is fantastic for combining both synchronization tactics.

These techniques can become part of a training routine that can include stamina training, desensitizers, and even herbal supplements designed for male virility such as Forta that have similar effects to prescription sexual drugs like Viagra.

If you still find yourself finishing before your partner there are also ways to continue her pleasure after you are finished. Extenders are a good way to maintain the intimacy of lovemaking even after the male resources have been exhausted; these include the real feel Vixen Ride On Extender and the VixSkin Colossus Extender,both of which allow you to continue intercourse with your partner. A standard vibrator, strap-on or dildo can also pick up where one partner has left off.

With all the options available to maximize sexual synchronization there is no need to be frustrated with your sexual experience; simply be willing to discuss the issues openly and explore all your options to find a way to leave both partners happy and sexually fulfilled.