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Travelling with your Toy!

Tuesday, August 9th, 2011

Planning a summer getaway?  From last minute weekend getaways to week long vacations, it is always exciting to take along something a little naughty for some extra-memorable holiday excursions.

Here are some tips and suggestion on traveling with toys:

Rechargeable vs. Battery operated – depending on where you are traveling, taking along extra batteries or a charger could be a hassle or helpful. If you are traveling overseas or out of the country you may be better off to choose a toy that recharges through a USB port on your laptop rather than an electrical outlet in case there are compatibility issues.  Otherwise, a battery operated toy is another reliable option.  Traveling with a toy that uses easily accessible batteries like AA or AAA instead of specific cell batteries would be another consideration although an extra set can be packed before you travel.

If your favorite toy is a rechargeable one, adaptors are available from most companies.

Top Rechargeable Travel Toys: Lelo Mia

Top Battery Operated Travel Toys: Black Jewel, Water Dancer and Bcute Curve

Waterproof – water can play a huge part of any summer holiday whether it is a private cottage near a lake, a hotel pool, or a private hot tub for two.  It is always a good idea to be prepared with a waterproof toy for any adventurous activity that may arise.

Top Waterproof Travel Toys: Form 2, Fun Factory Flash, Iconic Bullet and Lelo Alia

Storage – if you are travelling by air make sure to pack your toys with the batteries removed and in your checked luggage.  Always remove batteries before travelling in case it accidentally turns on in your luggage and if it is a rechargeable toy, turn the lock function on or store it in its own hard case until you get to your destination. 

If you are travelling with a sex toy in your carry on, also make sure you store the batteries in a separate place so you don’t encounter some accidental buzzing enroute.  And if you do get some question regarding your selection of carry-ons…it is what it is and it happens more often than you think!

Lubricant!  Don’t forget to pack small travel size lubes or transfer some of your favorite into a small travel bottle.

Click here to view Honey’s entire Mini and Bullet sized vibrators to get your summer buzz!

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Explosive New Sex Positions

Tuesday, July 5th, 2011

Lover’s Grip: With the woman laying on her back the man should kneel and lift her legs over his shoulders, raising her hips slightly to ease penetration. The friction and deep penetration makes this position particularly exciting, while allowing his hands to be free to stroke and caress her legs, breasts and add clitoral stimulation. She can easily angle her hips to vary the angle of penetration for deeply pleasurable sensations.

Erotic Flick: This position is called the erotic flick because the woman’s movements of her hips during lovemaking mimic the flick of a fish’s tail as it darts through the water. This position is passive and restful, designed for a more intimate embrace. With the man lying on his back with his legs extended she lies on top of him. With her knees on either side of his hips she gently positions his penis and wiggles it inside of her. Once she has enclosed him, the couple can nestle against each other chest to chest and kiss and caress each other as she moves her hips to the right and left, and up and down in a repeated sequence. This is great for building excitement and taking your time to have an intimate moment together.

Sexy Snug: Face to face to get a close to one another as possible. The man sits on the floor or bed cross legged with his knees open wide while his partner sits with her legs over his thighs and her feet on the floor. The couple pulls each other close to enable him to penetrate. This is emotionally very sexy as you create a gentle rocking motion rather then a thrusting action. The man can grasp her around the buttocks to help lift her as she moves up and down, while the woman rhythmically squeezes and let’s go with her thighs.

G-spot Bliss: This position allows you to indulge in deep penetration and G-spot stimulation. With the woman laying on her back she beds her legs at the knees and draws them close to her chest. The man knees with his knees on either side of her buttocks and moves into the most comfortable position for penetration. She can gain pleasure by holding onto her knees and raising her hips higher, so that her partner can penetrate her more deeply and at an angle that will allow his penis to run and stimulate her G-spot. The G-spot is on the upper wall of the vagina, so specially angled thrusting is required to reach it. To give your partner a G-spot orgasm through intercourse remember that sustained pressure on the spot rather then the friction of thrusting provides the necessary stimulation.

Kneeling Master: This position provides a dominating aspect that will bring her and him intense pleasure. Rear-entry positions lend themselves easily to games of light bondage and domination or submission roles, this position puts the woman in the submissive position by kneeling on all fours on the bed and resting her forearms and head on the bed as well. He enters from behind and her lower body is supported by the bed against her lover’s vigorous thrusts. To gain more stimulation from this position she can use her hands or a vibrator against her clitoris to maximize the stimulation of her partner’s thrusts. This leaves his hands free to roam across her back and breast and also allows him access to anal play with his hands or a vibrator as well.

This information has been provided by Anne Hooper’s Ultimate Sex Positions Book.

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How To Use A Glass Sex Toy

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

Glass is a fantastic material for adult toys because it is completely frictionless, non-porous, phthalate free, and hypoallergenic.

Some of the greatest feedback we get from customers that purchase glass for the first time is how surprised they are at how much they enjoyed the unique sensation.

Features of Glass

We’ve already mentioned that they are hypoallergenic and body safe, but glass is also completely frictionless and smooth against the skin. With very little lubricant you can easily use glass toys both anally and vaginally without the need to re-apply.

Glass is also a great conductor of hot or cold sensations. You can warm up the glass toy in warm water or the microwave and the glass will hold onto the heat for extended periods and then slowly adjust to your body temperature. You can also cool down the glass by running it under cold water or placing it in the fridge or freezer.  The different temperature sensation are very stimulating both internally and externally.  If you do not warm or cool down the glass, the toy will easily and quickly take on your body’s core temperature for a comfortable play time.

The weight of the glass is also very erotic.  Feeling the natural weight of the toy is extremely rousing and distinctive in its sensation.

Clean up is also a breeze with glass toys.  It can be simply washed down with soap and water, boiled or placed in the dish washer. 

With proper care, glass toys are very durable and can last a lifetime. 

Glass Toys:

Glass Dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes and colors. The Larger full sized dildos like Blossom and Masagi provide a full length and have some added texture and a slight curve without being overwhelming.

Toys like the Sunlight, Pink Indulgence and Crystal G have a little less length but have a distinctive curved to stimulate the G-spot.  These glass toys also allow you to use either end for stimulation.  

Then there are more phallic shaped dildos like 7th Heaven that has textured ridges at the top but maintains a more realistic shape.

The Onyx is the same size and shape as the Crystal G but has added texture at the curved tip designed to specifically target and stimulate the prostate for men. Silksurra is specially designed as an anal plug with the full retrieval ring and curved tip for men or women.

Most of the glass toys can be used vaginally as well as anally.

Newer on the market are some amazing glass toys that actually vibrate! The Glass Waterproof Vibrator and G-spot Glass Waterproof Vibrator both have three speeds of vibration and designed to be used both internally and externally. They are a incredible addition to our array of glass toys as they do double duty as both a dildo and vibrator.

Stainless Steel

The Njoy Pure Wand is a medical grade stainless steel product. Stainless steel and glass are very similar in their properties in that both are frictionless, hypoallergenic, body safe, non-porous and phthalate free. The largest difference is the weight of the stainless steel, it has a very pleasant heavy weight to it which adds an exceptional pleasure sensation.

Glass toys are not only wonderful to use but beautiful to behold as well.  We hope you will enjoy your new addition and keep having fun!

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How To Masturbate Your Man

Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011

A friendly little hand shandy with our lover can often intimidate us, but learning a few new techniques can make this an exciting part of foreplay and the most memorable event of the evening.  Yes, he knows what technique will get him off fast and furious but really, it’s not you, and when you take the time and effort to provide some new manual masturbation sensations for your partner he will be forever thankful.

First things first, be prepared. Make sure your hands are clean and there are no rough edges or hang nails. It also helps to remove any rings or jewellery. Lubricant is a necessity for keeping things slick, slippery and frictionless.  Use water or silicone based lubricant if you’re planning on using a condom later on, but if you’re not then an oil based lubricant such as the Stroke 29 or Rocket Balm is the perfect slippery masturbation cream that will put his pleasure over the top.  Always warm up the lubricant (and your hands!) before contacting his skin by placing the bottle in hot water or rubbing your hands briskly together. Keep a towel or pleasure wipes close at hand for quick and easy clean up afterwards.

Get comfortable. It is never fun to be feeling sore or with your body at an awkward angle when you are trying to focus on giving him pleasure, so make sure that you’re in a position where you can comfortably maintain movement for a length of time.  Try down between his knees, sitting beside him or coming in from behind him. And remember: how you angle your body for comfort can also give him an erotic view of your body and face, which is an additional turn on.

Getting started. Remember that anticipation is half the fun, run your fingers along his waist band and along his thighs and butt cheeks, everywhere but where he really wants you to touch. Once you do make contact with his genitals keep the contact light to start and make sure to give the entire genital area a light touch or tease to get him ready. When starting to grip his shaft, keep it light at the beginning and then gently pulse or squeeze working your way to a firmer and tighter grip.

The techniques.  The foundation of a good hand job is to create an essential up and down movement creating a virtual vagina with your hand. Grip your dominant well lube hand around the shaft and use your alternate hand to stabilize or position his penis. Move your hand in a solid up and down fluid movement without losing contact with his penis, at first work the entire shaft fairly slowly and closer to orgasm speed up and work closer to the head. Be sure to ask for feedback and he will be glad to give you a pointers for what he likes best. Start with a light grip and gradually increase the tightness of your grip without causing any discomfort. Keep your movement steady and fluid; not jerky, and add a slight back and forth twisting motion as you go up and down for varied sensation. Don’t pull the skin with you; just allow your grip to move smoothly over the skin.

Get your other hand in on the action. You can use your less dominant hand to play, tickle and caress his testicles and you can massage his perineum which will indirectly stimulate his prostate.  If he likes it, you can stimulate his anus both internally and externally but be sure to give him warning.

It’s good to communicate with your partner about their likes and dislikes, especially with the happy ending. He may prefer you to maintain the firm, quick strokes right up until he ejaculates, or he may prefer a gentler slower motion with his ejaculation. You won’t know until you ask. Finally, it is always a nice touch to help him clean up when you’re done.

Advanced Techniques:

Let’s Twist Again – With each hand, form and okay signal with your thumb and index finger. (You can also use the middle finger if you prefer) Place your hands one on top of the other, starting at the base of the shaft. Twist each hand back and forth in opposite directions as they move in unison up and down the shaft.  Be sure to use a good amount of lubrication.

String of Pearls – Using a string of pearls or Bijoux Pearl Handcuffs and a good amount of lubricant, twist the pearls around your hand and then use that hand to stroke up and down the penis shaft. The feel of the jostling beads is fantastic against the penis. Alternatively you can wrap the beads loosely around his shaft and twist them gently as you stroke up and down for an unforgettable finale.

Giving Thanks – Put both your hands around his shaft with your fingers interlocks and your thumbs overlapping on the opposite side. Move up and down with firm pressure. Closing in on the head when your fingers pass it but don’t lose contact with the shaft entirely. You can add a slight squeezing and releasing around the shaft as you go up and down.

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G-Spot Orgasms

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009

“The G-spot is not a riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma. It is a place in your body…It’s a real, tangible thing, like my breasts and your clitoris, and you can even see it. But for some reason, lots of people seem to think the G-spot is a myth. Or a rumor…No – it’s a real thing, and it makes you come, hard, period. No deep wisdom, soul-searching or goddess worship necessary. But a little knowledge helps.” (The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-spot Book)

Even with our modern sex education the G-spot has often been misunderstood and thought to be a myth of unreal proportions. We at Honey wish to state that this is untrue and the G-spot is very real and a great way to enhance your sexual experience and keep the orgasms coming.

What is the G-spot?

Around the urethra is a ring of spongy erectile tissue that both men and women have and it is essential for your orgasm pleasures. It is connected to your clitoris and the nerve ending are packed with pleasurable sensations when stimulated.

Where is the G-spot?

Your G-spot is located about 2” inside your body on the upper wall of your vagina towards your belly button. Remember that everyone is created differently so your g-spot could be slightly further or closer than the average 2”. When you become aroused the tissue of the G-spot begins to have a different sensation, it can feel slightly ridged and firmer to the touch and often described in books as being similar to an almond. This is your G-spot, and once you’ve found it you can begin to enjoy a whole variety of new sensations! Some great books for learning more about your G-spot are The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-spot and Female Ejaculation and the G-spot and if you learn better with visuals the Expert Guide to the G-Spot by Tristan Taormino DVD or Maximizing G-Spot Pleasures DVD are great options.

Stimulating the G-Spot

Stimulating the G-spot is not like stimulating the clitoris, to fully enjoy the sensation of G-spot orgasm you need to press more firmly then you would for clitoral play and that can take some getting used to. Sometime when you are playing with your G-spot you can begin to feel like you need to go to the bathroom, this is not usually the case but to relieve your mind we recommend going to the bathroom before playtime. Begin by getting yourself aroused so the G-spot swells and then gently insert your fingers or a toy, curving upward and pushing firmly. Try stroking firmly with the “come hither” motion. Using firm toys such as the Tulip G, Chubby G or Lelo Gigi are fantastic for G-spot play because they allow you to press more firmly without much effort. Once you have become more familiar with your G-spot you may want to try a toy with a bit more flexibility such as the Fun Factory G-swirl, or Worm Vibrator that will provide you with a softer and more flexible G-spot stimulation.

Play and Experiment

With your G-spot stimulation you may find that you prefer different sensations over others, you may prefer a very firm solid sensation that can be achieved with the Masagi Glass Toy or to have it rhythmically stroked with a swooping sensation with a toy like the Rabbit Habit or Thrusting Hummingbird. You may enjoy having your clitoris stimulated at the same time, which can be achieved with dual action toys like the G-spot Rabbit or Fun Factory Paul and Paulina. Experimenting with different toys and sensations is a great way to learn your body and discover what is most enjoyable to achieving an internal G-spot orgasm for years to come.

Sharing your G-spot

G-spot stimulation does not need to only be a solo exercise, your partner would probably love to join in the fun and they can use their fingers or control a toy to help you achieve orgasmic bliss. Certain positions such as being penetrated by the rear or her on top can also help to achieve maximum G-spot sensation during intercourse. Using sex positions tools such as the Liberator Wedge and Ramp combo can help you to maintain certain G-spot friendly positions with ease. Great options to discovering positions to stimulate the G-spot during intercourse are The Expert Guide to Positions DVD and The Art of Sexual Positions DVD.
A new dual action toy called the We-vibe can be used during intercourse to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously while also providing him with some well-deserved vibration sensation. Sharing this orgasm can help teach your partner more about your body and how you enjoy being touched and caressed.

Female Ejaculation

Many women ejaculate when their muscles contract during a G-spot orgasm. Firstly congratulations, you have found a new avenue of sexual pleasure, secondly do not freak out, this is a different fluid from urine and a completely natural and common occurrence amongst women. If you do not ejaculate there is nothing wrong either, sometimes having an object such as a toy can block the ejaculation from happening and you can do so after it has been removed, and sometimes women do not ejaculate. If you are one that ejaculates, using the Sex Blanket that is completely waterproof but soft and sumptuous, can keep you sheets
clean and dry especially if you produce copious amounts of fluids.

Remember there is no right or wrong when exploring your body, what feels right is usually right!

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Exploring Nipple Clamps

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009

Sometimes we can get so caught up with the major erogenous zones that we forget about the small pleasures in life. Nipples are a pleasure zone for both men and women and there are many toys out there specifically designed to pleasure them.

Adding a little pinch to your pleasure can add new heights of sensation and exploration. Nipple clamps such as the beaded nipple clamps, clover clamps or alligator clamps are designed to add an adjustable pinch of pleasure and pain to your bedroom adventures. Clamps such as the Nipplette have a vibrating bullet attached for added sensation against this sensitive zone. These clamps can be used on both men and women and are fun and very erotic to use.

How to Use Nipple Clamps:

Before jumping right into the fun it is a good idea to test the pressure on the clamps. You can do this easily by placing the clamp on the web of skin between the thumb and forefinger. Adjust the pressure to suit your level of sensation.

Make sure to prepare the nipple by getting it erect and firm before putting on the clamp. Tease and stimulate them with your fingers and tongue to get them firm, this is also a fun prelude to the main event so enjoy yourself. Potions and balms designed to stimulate the nipples are great foreplay ideas to get the nipples hard and erect. Ice Queen Nipple Gel, Nipple Nibbler, and Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm are all designed to stimulate the area and deliciously flavored.

Begin by clamping as much skin as possible, pressure on a small area provides a more intense sensation so started with a larger area first and then experiment with a smaller area. Progressing slowly will be more fun and enjoyable. Be careful not to pinch the very tip as this is the most sensitive part of the nipple and can be more uncomfortable than erotic. A note of Caution: When using nipple clamps we recommend not leaving them on for longer than 10 – 15 minutes at a time. Why? Because you are reducing blood flow to the area and constricting the skin, and the rush of blood flow back to the area can be quite uncomfortable the longer you leave on the clamps on.

How to Choose a Nipple Clamp:

Depending on your sensitivity range you will want to make sure to choose the right nipple clamp for you.

Adjustability: Clamps such as the Nipplettes clamps and the Adjustable Wide Alligator clamps have an easily adjustable screw that allows you to make the clamp as tight or as loose as you wish. This is good if you are new to clamps or have a low tolerance for pain. The tweezer style clamps have a ring around the two prongs of the nipple clamp which you can move up and down for a tighter or looser sensation, this is good if you still want adjustability but without the screw. The pressure on the Clover Clamps cannot be adjusted and their pressure is medium to hard. They are comfortable on the skin but should be only be used if you are more tolerant to pain and wish for a slightly rougher sensation.

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Safe Sex is SEXY!

Wednesday, August 5th, 2009

When we think about exciting sex, spontaneity comes to mind. Practicing safe sex requires some advance planning which seems to go against the possibility of an exciting rendezvous but here are some fun ideas to bring into the boudoir…that is safe and sexy!

1. Educate you and set boundaries. It is a good idea to have a basic understanding of the possible sexually transmitted diseases that can be contracted from having unsafe sex. With a good understanding of how these can be transmitted and what the risks are you will have a better ability to set your boundaries for how much you are willing to risk. Masturbation is about the only 100% safe sex you can have so unless you want to only play with yourself you need to decide what risks you are willing to take with your health and safety. Once you’ve set your boundaries you will know what you are comfortable with and can proceed to having fun.

2. Safe Sex Tools. It is a good idea to have a fun arsenal of safe sex supplies easily available and within reach of your play area.

-Condoms: There are plenty of choices now when it comes to condoms from size, texture and flavor as well as material. Have a variety of condoms to choose from can add to the excitement. People with latex allergies can use condoms like Avanti that are made from polyurethane. Extra thin condoms such as Kimono Microthin or Contempo Bareback are very thin providing extra sensation while maintaining strength and effectiveness. Kimono Type E and Contempo Erotica have texture such as studs and ribbing to provide more sensation for your partner during intercourse. Flavored condoms are especially popular for oral sex. There are also condoms with different shapes like Pleasure Plus and sizes like Kimono Large for even more choice.

-Dams: Dams are very effective for oral stimulation of the vagina or anus. They protect while providing a barrier between the your mouth and your lovers body while still being thin enough to feel all the wonderful sensations. Sheer Glyde Dams are available in yummy strawberry and vanilla. Dams also provide an extra sensory awareness because they do not absorb the lubricant allowing it to maintain slippery and wet. They slide and glide along the intimate body part providing a very pleasurable feeling. As well, as they can be gently snapped or nibbled on for a variety of sensations.

-Latex Gloves: Latex gloves and finger condoms can be found in most drug stores and are perfect to use when playing with your hands against intimate areas. They can be turned easily into a dam if you don’t have any on hand.

3. Sex Tricks. A few fun tricks to try to make safe sex even more satisfying!

-Try putting the condom on with your mouth, it’s easy – just tuck the tip behind your front teeth and hold in place with your tongue. Then roll down with your lips until it’s on snug, we recommend practicing a few times on a banana or sex toy to get the hang of it.

-Use a cock ring that vibrates such as the Big O or Disposable Vibe Ring.

Vibrating cock rings will hold a condom snug in place while providing vibrations for both you and your partner.

-When using a dam try gently snapping the dam against the body, nibbling and sucking. These sensations will feel completely new and exciting through a dam and very invigorating.

-Creating a dam from latex gloves is easy! Just snip the fingers off the glove and make a vertical slip up the side for a flat dam. You can also keep the thumb part intact and make the slit up the opposite side, this gives you a pouch to add a toy or for insertion with your finger.

-Lubricant: Using a lubricant can help enhance your sex play in so many ways. The lubrication will help you slip and slide and when applied into the tip of the condom before slipping it on, you can add extra sensation and feeling for him. Adding flavored lubricants such as the Jo Flavored or O’My Flavored Lubricants help during oral stimulation especially if you do not care for the taste of latex. Tingling and warming lubricants such as the Climax Bursts Tingling or Pink Warming lubricants add wonderful new sensations and pleasure for both partners. They can be added to a condom or beneath a dam. They can also be added for manual hand stimulation. There are also cooling lubricants such as the Climax Bursts Cooling for even more variety in sensations. These lubricants can also be used on your nipples and lips for exciting kisses.

4. Toys and Safe Sex. When adding adult toys to your sex play, always cover them up with a condom. This will help to prevent transfer and also helps to make clean up easier. For toys without a motor, sterilizing your toy by boiling in water will keep them clean and fresh. Remember when switching between vaginal and anal play to either use a completely different toy for each area or change condoms between each use so that you do not get an infection.

You can be smart by practicing safe sex to prevent sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies… but still maintain a fun and adventurous sexual lifestyle. With a little creativity and imagination safe sex practices become a whole new experience and you’ll be enjoying yourself immensely while playing it safe!

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Sex Furniture: Hitting all the Right Spots!

Wednesday, July 8th, 2009

Using furniture specifically designed for sex play is a fantastic way to comfortably and easily position both your bodies for optimal sensual play. Using furniture that is foam and shaped with sexual positions in mind creates angles to reach pleasure spots not experienced otherwise. They provide more support than your own pillows and enables you to try a multitude of fun positions.

Iceberg:

Sometimes there isn’t much difference between the right spot and a near-miss. The Iceberg is really versatile and ergonomically designed to decrease the stress on a women’s body.

- It is great to place under your neck when doing the “woman on top” position as it brings you closer to your partner.

- “Downward dog” with the hands free vibrator in place is a must. Improving the angle of penetration as well as helping your partner support the weight and stay in position.

- Elevate your partner’s hips during “missionary” style to improve the angle of the penis to rub against the G spot.
- Under your head and neck for a good “face sitting” which the face closer to the object of it’s affection.
- If you are a sufferer of back pain using a positioning device can be the difference between great sex or no sex. The Iceberg provides the perfect curve for the back allowing you to position yourself in a variety of poses. The curve can support your shoulders and neck to help position you for cunnilingus or fellatio, or support her lower back while you have her legs over your shoulders for deep penetration.
- The Iceberg has the advantage of a vibrator pocket, especially designed to fit a toy such as the Lelo Gigi. You can position yourself over the iceberg and have the vibration perfectly positioned at your clitoris …hands-free to explore other erotic areas!
- When the night is through, unzip the cover and throw it in the wash. The polysuede cover is soft, sensual and easy to clean.

Tilt:
Sometimes due to our bodies shape or size we need a little more support to make our bed play comfortable. The Tilt provides a soft rounded curve that will provide comfortable support for your body.

- When placed beneath your neck and shoulders with the woman on top for a “69” position you can easily and comfortably reach all of her body and help support her as well.
- The tilt easily supports her hips and chest for the deep penetration of the “doggy style” it can also help to support his knees when thrusting from behind. This also helps to position you easy for anal penetration.
- Easily elevate your partner’s hips during missionary position for ease of deep penetration.
- The tilt easily lifts her hips while supporting the lower back for deeper and more intimate missionary positions. Perfect if your partner suffers from back pain or discomfort.
- Support both of your hips and torsos for this snug fit of him on top and her laying beneath.

Love Lounge:

The love lounge is a combination unit providing you with a high and low end allowing you to support your whole body with ease.

- Easily support your entire body during missionary position, his knees and thighs are support for stronger thrusts and her body is fully cushioned and supported.
- For easy cunnilingus you can simply support the back of your thighs against the higher ridge of love lounge and position yourself over him. He will be comfortable and able to play longer.
- Using the higher ridge you can position her hips higher easy access for both deep penetration and anal simulation. Her entire torso is supported along the decline for comfort and saves her arms from straining to hold her weight up.
- With her on top she can easily support a stronger thrust with her knees being supported and raised, also because of the incline with him on his back he can easily lift her with his thighs for a deeper and harder thrust.
- Ride him cowgirl style and have your body easily supported in his lap and your knees higher off the g
round. Also with him reclining on the incline he can use his thighs to thrust harder and deeper.
- Using the length of this love lounge you can easily lay lengthwise along one another for a new and exciting position and sensations.

The Liberators:

The liberator provides you with the fun option of having a ramp, a wedge or a combination of the two together. The benefit of this is that you can choose to purchase the combo and have the options to play with them together or separately for a variety of positions.

The Wedge provide the perfect support for her lower back to lift her hips high, allowing him to penetrate deep while laying over her body for intimacy and sensation.

The Ramp lifts her back and hips supporting her body in a more upright position, allowing him to get up close and personal with ease. The ramp also helps to support and ease your upper body so that you do not need to have all your body weight supported on a flat surface.

Combined the Ramp and Wedge help to lift the body and support the back, thighs and torso for comfort and ease in positioning allowing for deeper, stronger thrusts and longer play time.

With him laying along the combo with his head supported by the wedge and her supported atop his both can easily reach each other’s erogenous zones while being supported for comfort.

With her atop him he can easily thrust deep with his hips supported by the larger ramp while his neck is supported by the wedge so there is less strain on the upper back and shoulder. With her knees raised over the ramp she can easily get more height with less effort.

Whether trying something small such as the iceberg or going for the full love lounge you will be sure to love experiencing the different positions with the support and comfort of the bedroom furniture, in fact, you’ll be wondering what you did before them!

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Ménage à trois? Honey’s Guide to a Happy and Successful Threesome

Tuesday, June 2nd, 2009

Communication, Communication, Communication Opening up a relationship to a third party can be an exciting fantasy come true, but in reality it can either be as fantastic as you imagined or a complete disaster. The most important thing is to make sure you and your partner have discussed and communicated your desires, wants and rules for opening your sensual playground to others. Throwing your inhibitions to the wind and just letting things happen can be exciting but the unfortunate result of a lack of communication and forethought could be the beginning of the end of your relationship. So here are a few thoughts to discuss before entering the world of threesomes:
1. Jealousy: What is jealousy to you? Even the most open an honest of couples can feel jealous, and introducing a third party can often add fuel to the fire. Feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, fears of abandonment or of being rejected are all causes or reactions to the feeling of jealousy. Thus communication is important so you can discuss your feelings and try to resolve any issues that may arise beforehand so that you will be able to enjoy your threesome completely without unnecessary worry about your partner’s interest in the other person.
2. Rules: Setting ground rules before you actually participate in this fantasy is always a good idea. If you and your partner are otherwise monogamous and usually do use condoms then it is a good idea to make sure that when in the threesomes there are condoms and safety measures used. Setting up the rules beforehand can help stop any uncomfortable decisions during your play time. Also it is a good idea to communicate anything of which you would be uncomfortable sharing with the third person (kissing, penetration …etc), because you either want that to be special for just the two of you, or you’re concerned for heath reasons, whatever the case may be it is a good idea to know where to draw the line.
3. That Third Person: Depending on your comfort level with choosing a person you can decide to pick someone you know, or find someone through acquaintances or online.
With someone you know: Whether a close friend or someone who you are in communication with on a regular basis can be rewarding, it can prove to have its challenges too. You could find yourself jealous because your friendship with this person has shifted, or if the communication and friendship has been established it could be very rewarding to open up your two-some to a three-some with someone you know and love. It can be trickier so communication is even more important amongst you, your partner and friend.
Acquaintances or Online: Finding someone with whom you have not been intimately acquainted with through online sites or friends of friends can often be easier emotionally on you and your partner. There can be less emotional entanglements for everyone involved and can be easier to terminate the relationship if it is not working for you because you are not concerned about also loosing their friendship. One of the downsides to this arrangement is that sometimes you can find someone and they may not be compatible or other issues arise from not knowing them well. Make sure to have a good screening process in place and take tests for safety measures as well if you are planning in advance.
4. Safety: When leaving the relative safety of a monogamous relationship you must concern yourself with health issues such as STD testing and preventative measures. Always use a condom if you are sharing fluids with the third party, unless the three of you are monogamous only to each other and have all been tested for STD’s and HIV. Also, with HIV you must wait for usually 6 months and then get tested again because certain antibodies may not show up right away, so if you’re wishing to go the non-barrier method be sure to use a barrier for those 6 months before everyone gets tested again. Also barrier methods prevent unwanted pregnancies.

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How to Use a Cock Ring

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

Cock rings provide are a fun and inexpensive way to try something new. They are designed to help the male enjoy stronger orgasms and longer lasting sessions. Many cock rings also hold a bullet for dual stimulation. These popular toys come in a range of materials and styles and are an enjoyable way of introducing more toys into your repertoire.

Traditional Cock Rings: Cock rings can become as elaborate or simple as you choose. The traditional silicone or leather cock rings are designed to slip around the base of the penis, or around the base of the penis and testicles to help maintain a harder and longer lasting erection. The snug fit also helps to give men a stronger and more intense orgasm. Rings made of silicone or rubber such as the Mega Stretch Silicone Ring or Erection Lasso have a large amount of stretch to them allowing them to easily accommodate most sizes comfortably while still providing enough tension. Leather cock rings such as the Spank Cock Ring has less elasticity to them so you need to use the various snaps to adjust the fit and comfort of the ring. As an added tip if you put the cock ring mid-way down your shaft you can give her the added benefit of sensation during intercourse, or you could even try multiple rings for a bumpy ride.

Vibrating Cock Rings: Vibrating cock rings are a fabulous invention; it turns your penis into a real live vibrator. The effect of the vibration is electrifying for both you and your partner, with the Big “O” or Disposable Vibe Ring you can place it so the is bullet above your shaft for optimal clitoral stimulation for her, or turn downwards with the bullet against your testicles for your benefit. The Bong “O” has an added pleasure ball which when the ring is tucked around your shaft and testicles the ball bounces against the sensitive perineum for added pleasure. And for the ultimate in duo pleasure cock ring, you can try the Tri-O, this inventive cock ring sits around the base of your penis with a bullet on top of the shaft for her and another bullet underneath the shaft for him…and with a perineum tickler too! The added bonus of the vibrating cock rings is that they provide more intense stimulation for both partners.

Remember: Safety First. Cock rings do have a time limit, we recommend removing them after 30 minutes of use to make sure you are not reducing blood flow to the penile tissue for an extended period of time. Also make sure to clean your cock rings with warm water and soap to make sure it’s all clean and ready for you next go round.

Other toys such as the Betty Jo Dual Vibrator slip around the penis with an area for two bullets- one above and one below with a larger silicone cock ring to give your partner a strong clitoral stimulator. Also toys such as the Utopia Dual Action and Triple Action rings have a longer sleeve for the penis providing more girth.

So for your next new toy experience try the wonderful world of cock rings to help provide dual pleasure, longer lasting erections and stronger orgasms, you may be wondering why you waited so long!

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