Posts Tagged ‘lubricants’

Tips on what lubricant to use

Tuesday, June 20th, 2006


A Splash of Liquid Love.

Whether you’re playing with toys, pleasuring yourself, or getting down and dirty with your partner, a sexual lubricant (a.k.a. lube) can enhance your experience. Even if you lubricate naturally, extra lube’s a good idea — better slippery and safe than sorry and sore! And, since the number one reason for condom breakage is lack of lubrication, a little lube helps to avoid those spoil-the-mood surprises.

  • Safe for use with condoms or toys, water-based lubricants such as ID Glide, O’My or Liquid Silk are the most common and versatile. Their greatest advantage? Quick and easy clean up – just rinse with warm water or wipe with a damp washcloth.
  • Silicone-based lubricants like ID Millennium are waterproof, making them ideal for “water sports”. They’re fine for use with condoms and non-silicone toys, and there’s no need to reapply during long lovemaking sessions. They’re super-slippery, though, so watch your step in the tub or shower. And cleaning up’s as easy as a quick, soapy wash.
  • Oil-based lubes like Stroke it and Super Stroke It are thicker and longer-lasting, making them ideal for intercourse and anal play. They’re great for hand-jobs, too, but shouldn’t be used with latex condoms or toys.
  • Prefer a glycerine-free lubricant that’s toy and condom compatible? Check out Slippery Stuff or Hathor Aphrodisia (made with horny goat weed for extra enjoyment).
  • Fun, flavoured water-based lubes are safe for condoms and toys and add a little extra sweetness to lovemaking.
  • Want to heat things up even more? Warming lubricants, like ID Sensation Warming Lubricant, create a warm and sensual effect when applied. They’re safe to ingest, so add a splash to your favourite flavoured lube.

Okay, so they’re not technically lubes, but here are some other pleasurable potions…

  • Increase her blood flow and sensitivity with all-natural “O” Clitoral Pleasure Gel. A little goes a long way!
  • Yummy-tasting and versatile, Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm has many uses. A small amount helps preserve his powers long into the night, and a teeny-tiny dab on nipples or clit will add a tantalizing tingle. It’s available in several fruity flavours, though the original Mint flavour provides the most powerful kick.
  • Perk things up with cool, stimulating Ice Queen Nipple Gel or tasty, travel-sized Nipple Nibblers, available in four delectable flavours. For spine-tingling kisses, apply Nipple Nibblers to your lips before planting a big, fat smooch on your sweetie.

How to give great head for your lover

Monday, May 15th, 2006


You’re now into the faster, rhythmical phase he’s been aching for. So get comfortable-it’s going to get wild! Try the tips techniques from Sadie Allisons book “Tickle his Pickle” as your starting point and improvise from there.

Here are some of the many suggestions from her book – Be sure to include these Bj-boosters in your bedroom next time you are in the mood!:

  • You only need to put his penis into your mouth as far as you feel comfortable. You can start shallow, and increase the depth slowly.
  • No need to limit yourself to one technique – try three or more in the same session, along with different speeds, pressures, grips and motions. Slow down, speed up. Keep him guessing what’s next.
  • Pay attention to what’s going on inside your mouth. Make sure it’s always nice n’ slipery, keep your teeth out of the way, run his head along the roof of your mouth for a bumpy ridge effect, lick the tip of his head whiles it’s inside and swirl on it with your tongue.
  • Look at him seductively through your hanging hair. Later, tie it back so he can see you. Or ask him to hold it for you. Look up into his eyes while you’re pleasing him, grin seductively and whisper, “Do you like that baby?”
  • If you get dry, sip more water or just drizzle on more flavoured lube. Don’t be shy-make a sexy production out of it.
  • Be noisy. He loves the sounds of sucking, oohing and aah-ing, as well as the vibrations of you humming.
  • Now break out the vibrators! Give him the wonderful sensation of vibrations along with the soft warm feel of your mouth.