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How to Kiss Your Lover

Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

The kiss can be a sign of simple affection or an intense moment of intimacy between two lovers. Whether it’s the first time or the five millionth time, kissing is a great way to show affection, intimacy, passion, and desire this Valentine’s day. Here are some things to consider before puckering up for your current or potential lover.

Kisses gain much of their power from the mouth and what it can do. Before you begin kissing, you want to make sure your mouth is in top shape. Good oral hygiene can go a long way. Floss and brush your teeth at least twice a day, being sure to brush the roof of your mouth and your tongue. To get kissable lips, brush them with a clean toothbrush and a little petroleum jelly every day and use a moisturizing lip balm throughout the day. Drinking water also helps prevent chapped or cracked lips, which is more prevalent this time of year.

Before the Kiss
Now that your mouth is looking and feeling sexy, it’s time to make some moves. When it comes to kissing, use the most effective weapons you have, which are your eyes, your hands, and your mouth. Use your eyes to catch and maintain eye contact, flirt, and focus on the pair of lips you want to kiss. Use your hands to draw attention to your lips by gently running your fingers across your bottom lip, or reach out and touch the arm of the person you want to kiss.

Your mouth is your most important tool for kissing. Use it to flirt with your potential kissing partner by talking in a soft whisper or biting your lower lip. When desiring a kiss, try to keep your lips soft and parted. This body language shows interest and relaxation while making your lips look fuller. You can also use your mouth to verbally ask for a kiss or ask your partner if he or she wants to kiss you.

For women, a little lip enhancement can go a long way. Blood flows to the lips when they are aroused, making them plump-up and turn deeper shades of reds and pinks. To mimic this natural sign of arousal, use a lip plumper like Cake Delicious Kisser Lip Plumper to make lips looks bigger and smoother. You can also pinch your lips for a quick hit of color, or use a red lollipop for a light tint and delicious taste.

During the Kiss
There is much more to kissing than just pressing two pairs of lips together. Kissing involves different types of messages, movements, and body parts depending on the situation. A light, full-mouthed kiss can be used to show someone you desire them while a long kiss on the forehead can show someone you care about them. Some kisses are immediately intimate and deep, while some begin as soft, open-mouthed kisses and progress to full-on French kissing marathons. Whatever the kiss, be sure to enjoy the moment, because a kiss means that somebody cares about you.

You can experiment with different techniques using the various parts of your mouth. Use your lips to nibble softly on your partner’s lips or earlobes, or apply light suction to their tongue or nipples. Use your tongue to trace your partner’s lips or massage their tongue. When your lips are interlocked, pull away slightly and whisper into your partner’s mouth, or slowly breathe back and forth into each others’ mouth for a strong experience of each other.

You can also enhance your kiss with different sensations and different smells. Eating herbs, candy, mints, or honey before kissing can make your kisses sweet and memorable, while applying some Ice Queen Gel to you gums beforehand will make your kisses cool and minty. For a more fruity taste, try licking candy like skittles and running them across your lips or apply some Nipple Nibblers for delicious taste and tingling sensation. And kissing is not limited to lips. Try these different techniques and different sensations on other sensitive parts of the body, including ears, neck, shoulders, hands, feet, nipples, and genitals.

After the Kiss
Whether or not the kiss lasted one second or was an all-nighter, be sure to show the person or people you’ve been kissing that you enjoyed it. This can be verbally through words or gentle moans or through a smile. If you don’t like the person’s kissing style, you can encourage the things you do like or ask that they do it a certain way. Kissing styles vary from individual to individual, and there are exciting things about all types. Regardless of the type, kisses are a great way to show lovers, friends, and family that you care about them.

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The Art of a Great Kiss

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

A kiss can convey flirtatiousness, sensuality and seduction. It gets your endorphins flowing whether it be your first or 100th kiss. Kissing is an art form that needs to be practiced, it’s much more than the meshing of two pairs of lips together. It is about beginning the sensual experience with someone new or continuing your passion with your partner. Here are some kissing tips and techniques to practice!

Tips:

Your lips are a very sensitive erogenous zone and can help convey your desire for a kiss. When out on a date you can lick and nibble on your lip to convey your interest in a kiss, or gently tease your partner with a slow lick of the lips. As you become more aroused your lips will flush and plump up naturally. Keep your lips and mouth healthy by brushing your teeth and mouth often, and exfoliate your lips when you shower to keep chapped lips at bay. The prettier your pucker the more you can entice your partner.

Use your tongue. Your tongue is a sexy wet and lovely body part that is perfect for enhancing any kiss.  Your mouth, lips and tongue use many muscles through you head and jaw and you have the power to create suction, lick, smooth and poke with the soft muscle. Your oral arsenal can be overwhelmingly naughty with a sexy suckle at just the right moment. Just remember, your tongue is wet and sexy, but don’t slobber all over your partner, keep it wet but no doggy kisses needed tonight.

Remember to use your hands. Couples polled said use of the hands were the most important part of kissing.  Cup their face in your hands to bring them closer, run your hands in their hair, along the neck and down the back.
You can move between light, intermediate and intense kisses. Nibbling with your teeth or your lips intermingled with grazing your lips across the body, sharing a light lick or smooth open mouthed tongue to tongue darting movements. These are all sexy tricks to try and practice when kissing. Keeping things exciting and not sticking to the same old technique is a fun way to ramp up the excitement. Remember, kissing is the best foreplay, remember back when you were a teenager and kissing for hours was the sexiest most satisfying moment? Well try that again with your long time sweetie, spend 15 or 20 minutes just kissing each others lips, face, ears, shoulders, and neck. After spending so much time lavishing attention on one another you will be ready to keep the evening going all night long!

Techniques:

Sweetheart Kiss: This lightly sweet kiss packs a powerful punch. Push your lips forward slightly with your mouth closed and soft. Purse your lips then press evenly with both the upper and lower lip at the same time. You should linger for a moment or two with this kiss and it can be used on any part of your partner’s body.

Kama Sutra Kiss: This is a simply sexy kiss that can last from seconds to several minutes and is very intimate. Begin by moving your lips close to your target (for example behind the ears, under the jaw, or shoulders.) Purse your lips for a kiss but right when you make contact move your head back and forth slightly to rub your face against the spot. Give gentle sweetheart kisses as you nuzzle. This kiss is great for slowing down the bedroom action and providing seduction and intimacy.

Lusty Kiss: Much like the Sweetheart Kiss but with more pressure and you can linger as long as you want. Make it last long and lusty; include your hands on each other’s face, neck and hair and subtle movements of the head, but no tongue yet. This is a great transitional kiss between the light hearted Sweet Heart and the Sexy French Kiss.

French Kiss: This famous kiss is a full, open-mouthed kiss using your tongue and lips in tandem. The kiss begins with a meeting of slightly parted lips, then as the lips open your tongues should begin to play and slide along one another’s teeth and tongues with a mix of gentle and firm strokes.  Careful not the stick your tongue to far back.  Be aware that French Kissing can get a little wet so it can be good to alternate French Kissing with a Sweetheart or Kama Sutra Kiss for variety.

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Kissing is good for your health

Monday, June 26th, 2006


It seems like everyone’s more health-conscious these days. Eight glasses of water? Check. Slap on the sunscreen? You bet. Double dose of veggies? Yup. Hot-and-heavy make-out session? Huh?

Yep, that’s right. Recent scientific research has uncovered some amazing health benefits of smooching. For example did you know that…?

  • When you give some sugar, you burn some sugar. Making out with your lover burns more than six calories per minute. Of course, to achieve significant weight loss, you’d have to kiss often and for extended periods. Oh, the price we pay for thinner thighs!
  • Kissing helps to slow aging by toning your jaw and cheek muscles. Forget those overpriced face creams. A serious, tongue tangling exercises the underlying muscles in the face, which will keep you looking younger – and happier!
  • Kissing is a natural high. Like exercise, it stimulates the production of chemicals similar to those in amphetamine drugs and generates moods of elation and euphoria.
  • Kissing is good for your dental health. It stimulates extra saliva flow, washes bacteria from your teeth and reduces plaque.
  • Psychologists suggest kissing may be a useful relaxation technique. The muscular activity of a kiss is similar to that of a smile and the act of smiling is known to improve the mood.
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Before you pucker up…

  • Set the stage for super smooching. Ensure your breath is minty-fresh and your lips are moisturized.
  • Kissing’s not for lips only. Rev up the romance by kissing your partner’s cheeks, chin, ears and even eyelids.
  • Add an extra-tasty tingle by applying Nipple Nibbler to your lips before laying a lip lock on your lover.

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