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Put A Ring On It

Saturday, December 24th, 2016

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Cockrings. Have you or your partner ever heard the word and thought “Huh?” Even if you’re familiar with the concept, there’s a lot more to those little rubber rings than first meets the eye.

Um… Don’t they just go around the penis to make it bigger? Not that complicated.
True, but that’s not the only reason men use cockrings. When placed around the base of the penis during an erection, the ring becomes tight and prevents blood from moving back to the body, hence prolonged erections. While some guys wear cockrings because they like the look and feel of the bigger penis, men also wear rings for the pleasurable feeling of tightness, to help prevent premature ejaculation, and the potential for delayed and therefore more intense orgasms.

But doesn’t it hurt?
The cockring should never be tight enough to cause pain, just an overall feeling of tightness and pressure. That’s why it’s always a good idea to start off with a stretchy or adjustable cockring to find the right fit.

Seriously, is it dangerous? It sounds dangerous.
If worn correctly and at the right size, there’s no reason for the cockring to cause any damage to the penis. The wearer should take care to wear it for no more than 20 minutes at a time (or 5-10 minutes for a beginner).

How many types of cockrings are there?
Lots! The simplest and most popular style of cockring is the stretchy silicone or rubber. They’re inexpensive, easy to get on and off and there’s no need to fuss over the correct size. You can even find packs of multiple sizes, like the Island Cockrings.

Adjustable cockrings (the ones that look like a lasso, like the Adjustable Erection Holder) are great for beginners. The wearer can adjust the size to be bigger or smaller as needed. This style is great because it can be worn at the base or the penis or behind the testicles for added pressure.

Solid cockrings like the Black Metal Cockring are for more experienced wearers. Knowing your erect size is the way to go (use a measuring tape to check the girth). The upside to using a solid cockring is that they are more durable and can be reused more times than a simple rubber cockring.

Want a little something extra? The Falcon Cockring has a built in tail to massage the perineum while in use. It’s also easy to add a little anal play with the Hawk Plug with Cockring (yes, a butt plug and cockring all in one!)

Finally, vibrating cockrings are the next best thing when it comes to adult sex toys. Made from soft materials like silicone, vibrating rings like the Je Joue Mio are designed with couples in mind. Women enjoy the hands free stimulation of the clitoral vibrations while the man enjoys the vibrations, plus all the other benefits the cockring provides.

Okay, all that sounds pretty good. Any recommendations for the perfect cockring?
Check out some of our favourites below:

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Classic Silicone

Merlin 3 Ring Set

Fifty Shades “A Perfect O” Love Ring

 

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An Adjustable Fit

Spank Leather Cockring

Fifty Shades “Again and Again” Adjustable Love Ring

 

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Something Different

8-Ball Cockring

Eagle Plug and Cockring

 

 

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Vibrating Fun

Luxe Elegant Vibrating Cockring

Bwish Charmed Vibrating Cockring

 

 

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Ultimate in Luxury

Lelo Tor II Rechargeable Vibrating Cockring

Lelo Oden 2 Remote Control Cockring

 

 

 

 

Sylvie Monthule: Erotic jewelry from Paris, France

Monday, May 25th, 2015

From the award winning artist Sylvie Monthulé comes an entire line of non-piercing erotic jewellery for men and women designed to increase stimulation and pleasure. The Sylvie Monthule collection is comprised of original, elegant works of erotic body jewelry in the finest materials, including lustrous gold, gleaming silver, sparkling Swarovski crystals, and polished Hematite stones. Each piece of non-piercing erotic jewelry is designed and handmade in Paris, France with the utmost attention to detail.

As an artist, Sylvie Monthule vision was to create pieces of erotic fine art to wear on the body to enhance the sexual experience. Sylvie Monthule’s collection can be enjoyed for their style, function, and pleasure enhancing properties. One of the most popular items in the Sylvie Monthule collection, the Boules Geisha Intimate Pleasure Beads, is designed to be worn vaginally for pleasure as well as strengthening the kegal muscles. This stylish take on traditional geisha beads may be worn underneath clothing for discrete pleasure.

Sylvie Monthule has created many pieces of intimate jewelry for women that are worn as one would wear a g-string. The Muse des Plaisirs G-String features a smooth, rounded drop pendant is designed to rest against the clitoris, providing exquisite sensations as you move. The Caresses Du Nil Jewelled G-String is designed to heighten sensations during sex with a partner, as the petite strands of hematite beads caress your most intimate parts and bring you closer together. For those seeking adventure without the permanence of a traditional piercing, the Hematite Non-piercing Labia Jewels attach gently to the labia, giving the appearance of a piercing on a woman’s most intimate parts.

While many of the pieces in this exquisite line of erotic jewellry are designed for women, Sylvie Monthule’s non-piercing nipple jewelry may be enjoyed by both men and women. The delicate silver filigree designs on Feuille D’Argent Nipple Jewels will add an elegant flourish of style, while the beautiful dragonfly motif on the Libellules Nipple Jewels presents a touch of whimsical charm.

Several of the pieces in this line of erotic wearable art are designed specifically to enhance the sexual experience for men, such as the Serpent Cock Ring and the Verge Lion Or Cock Ring along with the matching Bijou Or Cock Leash. These attractive and stylish cock rings serve an additional purpose in enhancing the sexual experience by assisting the wearer to maintain a stronger erection for longer.

Honey Gifts is proud to present this luxurious collection of non-piercing erotic body jewellry from European designer Sylvie Monthulé at our two boutique locations in Vancouver, Canada, and on our website. Wear only the finest in erotic, non-permanent body jewelry – Sylvie Monthule.

New Year’s Resolutions with a Twist of Honey

Monday, January 6th, 2014

Make this year’s resolution something fun and arousing!  Here is a list of sexy resolution suggestions that will make 2014 orgasmic!

For men, we suggest you resolve to experience prostate stimulation. Stimulation of the prostate has a host of health benefits such as reducing the risk of prostatitis, prostate cancer, genital pain, symptoms of erectile dysfunction and frequent night-time urination. But aside from all these wonderful benefits is the fact that stimulation of the prostate can result in an orgasm without any stimulation of the penis.  Quality toys designed to work with the male anatomy such as the Lelo Billy Vibrating Prostate Massager, the Naughty Boy P-Spot Vibrator, Aneros Helix Syn Prostate Massager, and the Pandora P-spot toy work to stimulate the prostate with simple clenching and releasing of the muscles to result in a “P-spot” orgasm very similar to a female G-spot orgasm.

For women, we suggest strengthening your pelvic floor muscles while enjoying the stimulating effects of Kegal balls! Pelvic floor exercises; which are also known as Kegel’s have been shown to reduce and prevent urinary incontinence, make recovering from childbirth easier, tighten the vagina and increase sexual pleasure.   Orgasms often become more intense as the muscles that contract are stronger.  The added bonus is that doing these exercises is also fun and easy with tools such as Lelo’s Luna Luxury Pleasure Balls or the smaller Lelo Luna Mini’s, and Cherry Love Geisha Balls. The Luna balls also come in a sleek black version.  These balls have a smaller ball tumbling within it causing the muscles to contract resulting in stronger muscles without the need to clench and release.  Other fantastic products include the Little Gold Balls and the Fifty Shades of Grey balls.

For couples, we suggest learning to give each other erotic massages.  Learning the technique to properly massage the genitals, breast, and backside is not only arousing but primes the body for sex by bringing lots of blood flow to these areas.  Get started with books dedicated to the subject such as Ultimate Erotic Massage and Pure Erotic Massage.  They contain detailed instructions and images to guide you on proper stroke and body placement techniques.   Select a quality massage product such as Barefoot Venus’ Natural Massage OilKama Sutra Massage Oil, massage bar or Intimate Organics Aromatherapy Massage Oil.   For something new, massage candles not only provide a warm oil to massage your partner but also sets the mood with candlelight,  try the Sun-touched Body Massage CandleShunga Caress by Candlelight Massage Candle or the Jimmy Jane Afterglow Massage Candle.  Other massage tools to alternate with are Jimmy Jane Contour M Ceramic Massage Stone or the Hitachi Magic Wand.

We hope we inspired you to add a sexy resolution to your list!

We hope to see you all in 2014 and wish you a sexy, romantic and playful New Year.

The Best Sex Toys for Couples

Thursday, October 31st, 2013

Sex Toys for Couples in Vancouver

Are you and your partner looking to try something new in the bedroom?

There are some amazing toys on the market that are designed to be used as for dual stimulation and this month we are bringing you a list of all the greatest toys available for play time as a couple.

The number of studies that indicate a trend in diminished sexual satisfaction in relationships over time are piling up and many people are starting to feel a sense of defeat in the face of human nature.

What can we do if as a species we simply aren’t built to enjoy sex with the same partner forever?

Should we just give up now?

Well we have good news for you! Studies also show that couples who experience new things together and couples that are sexually adventurous and creative experience increased sexual satisfaction and an overall increase in relationship satisfaction. That’s right folks, rather than sexual experimentation being the last resort of desperate people studies are now proving that sexual experimentation is actually the front line for happy couples.

A great place to start is with the all-time bestselling couples toy, the incredible We-Vibe! Two versions are available, the We-Vibe II and the We-Vibe III, both are amazing products with the We-Vibe III being the deluxe version that is fully waterproof, more powerful, and operated by remote control. The We-Vibe is actually worn by the woman during intercourse and is extremely versatile in terms of sexual positions. The internal section is designed to stimulate the G-spot while the external section is perfectly positioned to stimulate the clitoris. Both sections, internal and external, vibrate with a number of different intensities and patterns providing stimulation to both partners.

The success of the We-Vibe spawned a lot of innovation in the sex toy industry and Lelo soon followed with their response; the Tiani, Ida and Tara. The new to market Tara and Ida are getting a lot of great feedback and offer unique stimulation in the form of rotations to massage the g-spot and the shaft of the penis simultaneously whilst combining vibrations. The We-Vibe and the Ida and Tara are worn during intercourse and stimulate internally and externally but the Ida and Tara add a new dimension to pleasure; the internal section not only vibrates, it rotates and can be used as a remote controlled toy up to 39 feet  as well. The Tiani is a great alternative for people who still want fantastic sensations but maybe aren’t as much a fan of strong internal vibration. The Tiani, just like the We-Vibe, is remote controlled, and differs in the fact it only has a single external motor that offers concentrated clitoral stimulation and diffused internal vibration at a gentler level.

If you are looking to add a little bit of risqué adventure to your life you should try out a remote controlled bullet. Popularized in the 2009 movie The Ugly Truth with Katherine Heigl and Gerard Butler, remote controlled vibrating panties, bullets, and butt plugs have become a hot ticket item for couples looking to get a little discrete public excitement. Simply place the vibrating device in the gusset of a panty or internally, hand the remote control to your partner and go out to dinner, a party, or even the grocery store. With your partner in control you’ll never know when you’re going to feel the stimulation and you’ll both get a thrill out of your own private secret. Some great remote vibrating devices to try are the Secret Panty, the Waterproof 7-Function Remote G-Spot Vibe, the Lyla 2, the Genius Secret Remote Control Vibrating Plug, and the Cry Baby 2.

Finger Vibrators are a great way to turn your hand into a powerful vibrating stimulator. Products like the Finger Bunny Vibrator, the Ipo Finger Vibrator, the Five Function Finger Vibrator, the Finger Fun Vibrator, the Pyxis Finger Vibrator, and the Jimmy Jane Hello Touch Massager offer vibration at the tips of your fingers, perfect for massages or stimulation of all the erogenous zones.

Another great innovation in the world of sex toys for couples is the fantastic variety of vibrating cock rings. Whether you use cock rings to help maintain an erection or if you’ve never even thought about it, one of the many available models with vibration is a great addition to the pleasure of both partners.  From the high end Lelo Tor II and Lelo Oden II that are rechargeable and come with a warranty to the one time use Disposable Ring there is something for every couple. Try out the Wonder Ring for intense stimulation or the Deep Vibe Sleeve for deep internal stimulation. The Power Clit is designed to reach her most sensitive zone while the Duet has two motors for his and her pleasure. The Tri-o is another dual motored ring that also has a second ring for the testicles while the Bong-o has a dangling weight for gentle stimulating percussion for him. The standard and most basic cock ring that is reusable is the Big O, nice and stretchy with a significant vibration this inexpensive option is great for those just looking to experiment.

Finally, if you are looking for a little role reversal, you can try anyone of a number of strap-ons and harnesses. The Bend-Over Beginner Kit is a great place to start or if you have experimented before and are looking to take things up a notch you can try the Bend-Over Intermediate Kit, the Ooh Harness, the Joque harness or any one of a number of other harnesses including harnesses for men such as the Ménage-a-trois which allows for double penetration with one partner. Another great option are dual-share dildo’s that are held by the female internally, offering stimulation to both partners.

Whether you simply want to add a little vibration to your fun times or take your sex life to a whole new level, there is something available for every couple.

Stamina Training

Saturday, July 27th, 2013

Men and women often have different pleasure cycles when engaging in sexual activity so a common problem for men is finishing before their partner is finished. This difference between the genders often leaves men feeling embarrassed and women feeling dissatisfied but as sexual partners we need to understand these inherent sexual differences and find ways to overcome our natural biological differences.

These natural differences are one of the reasons foreplay is so important, it gets women aroused to a level equal to their lover which increases the chance of simultaneous orgasms during intercourse. Often this still is not long enough and for many men this prospect can create some anxiety. Sexual stamina training and the many different products on the market can help prolong sexual activity and increase satisfaction for both partners.

One of the best ways to delay orgasm is stamina training which is just what it sounds like, for a marathon you run longer everyday and for sex you masturbate longer everyday. One of the best ways to do this is to use Fleshlights Stamina Training Unit. The way this unit works is by creating a texture on the inside that is extra stimulating and will bring a man to orgasm rapidly; therefore, if you can last 15 minutes in the stamina trainer you can last 25 during intercourse. To increase stamina use the device until you are near orgasm and then stop until the feeling subsides (also known as edging), then resume masturbation until close to orgasm again. Repeat this process as many times as you feel comfortable and then either stop without an orgasm or continue to fruition. Any Fleshlight can be used for this purpose and the process will create lasting increases in stamina.

If stamina training doesn’t work for you or if you need more immediate results try one of the many prolonging products such as Stud 100, Kama Sutra Desensitizer Gel, Shunga Sensations Desensitizing Balm or Shunga Male Desensitizer, all of which decrease sensation by using an anaesthetic type ingredient. Condoms can also help prolong intercourse by decreasing sensation; speciality condoms like Performax include a climax control lubricant on the inside. Cock Rings can also be used around the base of the penis or around both the testicles and penis to prolong intercourse.

Another way to sync sexual release with your partner is to enhance their stimulation. This can be achieved by using any number of stimulating products such as ON Natural Arousal Oil, Shunga Secret Garden Cream, Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel, O Clitoral Stimulating Gel, Flower Balm or Love Button Arousal Balm. These products help arousal in a female by increasing the blood flow to the clitoral area. Kama Sutra has packaged a desensitizer and a stimulating gel in one kit called the Kama Sutra As One Pleasure Kit that is fantastic for combining both synchronization tactics.

These techniques can become part of a training routine that can include stamina training, desensitizers, and even herbal supplements designed for male virility such as Forta that have similar effects to prescription sexual drugs like Viagra.

If you still find yourself finishing before your partner there are also ways to continue her pleasure after you are finished. Extenders are a good way to maintain the intimacy of lovemaking even after the male resources have been exhausted; these include the real feel Vixen Ride On Extender and the VixSkin Colossus Extender,both of which allow you to continue intercourse with your partner. A standard vibrator, strap-on or dildo can also pick up where one partner has left off.

With all the options available to maximize sexual synchronization there is no need to be frustrated with your sexual experience; simply be willing to discuss the issues openly and explore all your options to find a way to leave both partners happy and sexually fulfilled.

Safe Sex is SEXY!

Wednesday, August 5th, 2009

When we think about exciting sex, spontaneity comes to mind. Practicing safe sex requires some advance planning which seems to go against the possibility of an exciting rendezvous but here are some fun ideas to bring into the boudoir…that is safe and sexy!

1. Educate you and set boundaries. It is a good idea to have a basic understanding of the possible sexually transmitted diseases that can be contracted from having unsafe sex. With a good understanding of how these can be transmitted and what the risks are you will have a better ability to set your boundaries for how much you are willing to risk. Masturbation is about the only 100% safe sex you can have so unless you want to only play with yourself you need to decide what risks you are willing to take with your health and safety. Once you’ve set your boundaries you will know what you are comfortable with and can proceed to having fun.

2. Safe Sex Tools. It is a good idea to have a fun arsenal of safe sex supplies easily available and within reach of your play area.

-Condoms: There are plenty of choices now when it comes to condoms from size, texture and flavor as well as material. Have a variety of condoms to choose from can add to the excitement. People with latex allergies can use condoms like Avanti that are made from polyurethane. Extra thin condoms such as Kimono Microthin or Contempo Bareback are very thin providing extra sensation while maintaining strength and effectiveness. Kimono Type E and Contempo Erotica have texture such as studs and ribbing to provide more sensation for your partner during intercourse. Flavored condoms are especially popular for oral sex. There are also condoms with different shapes like Pleasure Plus and sizes like Kimono Large for even more choice.

-Dams: Dams are very effective for oral stimulation of the vagina or anus. They protect while providing a barrier between the your mouth and your lovers body while still being thin enough to feel all the wonderful sensations. Sheer Glyde Dams are available in yummy strawberry and vanilla. Dams also provide an extra sensory awareness because they do not absorb the lubricant allowing it to maintain slippery and wet. They slide and glide along the intimate body part providing a very pleasurable feeling. As well, as they can be gently snapped or nibbled on for a variety of sensations.

-Latex Gloves: Latex gloves and finger condoms can be found in most drug stores and are perfect to use when playing with your hands against intimate areas. They can be turned easily into a dam if you don’t have any on hand.

3. Sex Tricks. A few fun tricks to try to make safe sex even more satisfying!

-Try putting the condom on with your mouth, it’s easy – just tuck the tip behind your front teeth and hold in place with your tongue. Then roll down with your lips until it’s on snug, we recommend practicing a few times on a banana or sex toy to get the hang of it.

-Use a cock ring that vibrates such as the Big O or Disposable Vibe Ring.

Vibrating cock rings will hold a condom snug in place while providing vibrations for both you and your partner.

-When using a dam try gently snapping the dam against the body, nibbling and sucking. These sensations will feel completely new and exciting through a dam and very invigorating.

-Creating a dam from latex gloves is easy! Just snip the fingers off the glove and make a vertical slip up the side for a flat dam. You can also keep the thumb part intact and make the slit up the opposite side, this gives you a pouch to add a toy or for insertion with your finger.

Lubricant: Using a lubricant can help enhance your sex play in so many ways. The lubrication will help you slip and slide and when applied into the tip of the condom before slipping it on, you can add extra sensation and feeling for him. Adding flavored lubricants such as the Jo Flavored or O’My Flavored Lubricants help during oral stimulation especially if you do not care for the taste of latex. Tingling and warming lubricants such as the Climax Bursts Tingling or Pink Warming lubricants add wonderful new sensations and pleasure for both partners. They can be added to a condom or beneath a dam. They can also be added for manual hand stimulation. There are also cooling lubricants such as the Climax Bursts Cooling for even more variety in sensations. These lubricants can also be used on your nipples and lips for exciting kisses.

4. Toys and Safe Sex. When adding adult toys to your sex play, always cover them up with a condom. This will help to prevent transfer and also helps to make clean up easier. For toys without a motor, sterilizing your toy by boiling in water will keep them clean and fresh. Remember when switching between vaginal and anal play to either use a completely different toy for each area or change condoms between each use so that you do not get an infection.

You can be smart by practicing safe sex to prevent sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies… but still maintain a fun and adventurous sexual lifestyle. With a little creativity and imagination safe sex practices become a whole new experience and you’ll be enjoying yourself immensely while playing it safe!

How to Use a Cock Ring

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

Cock rings provide are a fun and inexpensive way to try something new. They are designed to help the male enjoy stronger orgasms and longer lasting sessions. Many cock rings also hold a bullet for dual stimulation. These popular toys come in a range of materials and styles and are an enjoyable way of introducing more toys into your repertoire.

Traditional Cock Rings: Cock rings can become as elaborate or simple as you choose. The traditional silicone or leather cock rings are designed to slip around the base of the penis, or around the base of the penis and testicles to help maintain a harder and longer lasting erection. The snug fit also helps to give men a stronger and more intense orgasm. Rings made of silicone or rubber such as the Mega Stretch Silicone Ring or Erection Lasso have a large amount of stretch to them allowing them to easily accommodate most sizes comfortably while still providing enough tension. Leather cock rings such as the Spank Cock Ring has less elasticity to them so you need to use the various snaps to adjust the fit and comfort of the ring. As an added tip if you put the cock ring mid-way down your shaft you can give her the added benefit of sensation during intercourse, or you could even try multiple rings for a bumpy ride.

Vibrating Cock Rings: Vibrating cock rings are a fabulous invention; it turns your penis into a real live vibrator. The effect of the vibration is electrifying for both you and your partner, with the Big “O” or Disposable Vibe Ring you can place it so the is bullet above your shaft for optimal clitoral stimulation for her, or turn downwards with the bullet against your testicles for your benefit. The Bong “O” has an added pleasure ball which when the ring is tucked around your shaft and testicles the ball bounces against the sensitive perineum for added pleasure. And for the ultimate in duo pleasure cock ring, you can try the Tri-O, this inventive cock ring sits around the base of your penis with a bullet on top of the shaft for her and another bullet underneath the shaft for him…and with a perineum tickler too! The added bonus of the vibrating cock rings is that they provide more intense stimulation for both partners.

Remember: Safety First. Cock rings do have a time limit, we recommend removing them after 30 minutes of use to make sure you are not reducing blood flow to the penile tissue for an extended period of time. Also make sure to clean your cock rings with warm water and soap to make sure it’s all clean and ready for you next go round.

Other toys such as the Betty Jo Dual Vibrator slip around the penis with an area for two bullets- one above and one below with a larger silicone cock ring to give your partner a strong clitoral stimulator. Also toys such as the Utopia Dual Action and Triple Action rings have a longer sleeve for the penis providing more girth.

So for your next new toy experience try the wonderful world of cock rings to help provide dual pleasure, longer lasting erections and stronger orgasms, you may be wondering why you waited so long!

How to Give a World-Class Blowjob

Wednesday, March 4th, 2009

1. Choose your position carefully. The classic porn move that he’ll be sure to love is him standing, leaning against a wall and you on your knees before him, it not only looks good but it also looks as if you are worshiping his body. Make sure you are comfortable, with pillows under your knees or if he is sitting or lying on the bed be sure you have enough support so that you are not putting all your weight on your elbows or arms. Being comfortable is important so that you can enjoy yourself without having to stop and think about any pain or discomfort.

2. Toys. Make sure to have any toys or plaything you wish to use on hand and within easy reach. The Blow Him Away Honeycomb Kit has a lot of fun items to help stimulate his sensitive spots, the finger toy can easily be slipped onto your finger or put on the popular Tongue Teaser so that you don’t have to look for them later. Cock rings are also a fun addition to your play, it helps him last longer and makes the orgasm more intense, this is especially helpful if he gets a little too excited by your sexy mouth. The Spank Cock Ring and Erection Lasso are sexy options.

3. Techniques. Every guy likes to be touched differently. The best way to find out what he likes best is to ask. Or if you wish to be sneakier put your fingers in his mouth while you are playing with him, he’ll most likely suck your finger the way he wants to be sucked, sneaky and you’ll learn a thing or two about what he likes. Licking is often a great way to get started, using the flat side of your tongue you can go from tip to end like licking an ice cream cone. Spend some time enjoying this, pay attention to his tip as it is the most sensitive area but also to the entire length of the penis and the testicles. Make sure to be gentle when applying the teeth and watch to be sure you don’t hurt him.

4. Tricks. Some interesting ways to spice things up and keep him guessing is to take a drink before hand of something slightly warm or cool, hold it in your mouth for a moment, swallow then slide your mouth over him. The coolness or added warmth to your mouth is an added bonus of sensation. Nipple Nibbler applied to your lips will have him tingling and tasting yummy. Other products designed for stimulating this erogenous area are Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm and Rocket Balm. The heating and tingling sensation will drive him wild! Also while you are using your mouth you can also involve your hands to the fun, using the finger vibes you can vibrate his perineum or anus for added pleasure, and wrapping your hand firmly around the base of the shaft and giving a hand-job while using your mouth is especially sexy.

**Make eye contact, it’s sexy and will turn him on!**

5. Lubrication. Making the penis slick and slippery will also be very pleasurable. There are some fun choices available like flavored lubricants, warming lubricants, or others with a tingling or cooling sensations.

6. To swallow or not to swallow. It’s your choice whether you want to swallow or not, but try to make the choice before hand so you know what you want to do as you near the end of your play. This avoids any awkwardness at the end. If you decide to swallow try to push him farther into your mouth so that you can bypass the tip of the tongue where most of the taste buds are or put him near you cheek and swallow in one gulp. Also you can hold onto his penis and rock him gently towards you to push him deeper into your mouth, sexy and effective. You can also pretend to swallow, by pushing your tongue against him while he’s coming which allows you to push to the semen back out of your mouth and have it slide down his penis making him warm and slippery. This feels good for him and is a nice
compromise. Or you can always allow him to ejaculate someplace else, pearl necklace perhaps?

7. Lastly; but VERY importantly, one of the key secrets to giving him a blowjob that will take his breath away and leave him your willing slave is simply enthusiasm. Honest enthusiasm to please and play with him is an aphrodisiac often ignored. Even the most skilled techniques are nothing if you are not really into what you are doing. So get ready to learn some easy ways to blow his mind and turn up the heat.

To learn more about giving a great blowjob, check out some very informative and fun books like Tickle His Pickle, Blow Him Away, or How to Be a Great Lover. If you learn better with visuals like a DVD, try Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Fellatio Sex Ed for a New Generation or How to Give a World-Class Blowjob DVD.

Couples Sex Toys: Twice as Nice!

Wednesday, February 4th, 2009

Couples Sex Toys are a fantastic way to invite more play into the bedroom. There are a whole variety of toys designed for couples to help keep the bedroom play fun and exciting.

Couples Kits: Introductory couple’s kits are a great way to try new and exciting toys together. The Silky Finish Couples Kit and Chocolate Couples Kit both contain a variety of toys to try together, giving you an opportunity to broaden your horizons and find out what you both enjoy.

Hands Free Toys: New products such as the We-Vibe and Impulse Butterfly Hands-Free Vibrator are a great way to enjoy intercourse with the added bonus of vibrations for both partners. The We-Vibe is designed to be worn during lovemaking. One part is inserted vaginally and slightly curved to hit the G-spot, the other end wraps around to massage the clitoris but small enough to still have intercourse. Delicious vibrations are felt by both partners! The Butterfly is an external toy that is strapped to the hips providing vibration for her clitorally as well as providing him with some external vibration during your sex play. Using the O Clitoral Pleasure Gel can also help enhance the fun by providing you with increased sensitivity and blood flow to the clitoris.

Remote Controlled Toys: Remote Bullets add a fun and naughty twist to your play time. The Silky Touch Remote Controlled Egg can be inserted on your way out the door to a party. Hand the remote off to your partner and allow him to provide you with a secret tease throughout the night. Then hurry home to finish what you’ve started. For an external remote vibrator the Astrea II is another option, simply slip the vibe into the front of your undergarment and your partner can send you secret “love touches”.

Vibrating Cock Rings: Many women need a little extra vibration help to take them over the edge to orgasm during intercourse. Vibrating cock rings are an easy way to add vibration to your play. The Vibrating Disposable Ring or Big “O” ring can be easily slipped on and the vibration is exciting for both partners, the vibrator massages her clitoris during intercourse but delightful vibrations are sent down into his shaft as well providing intense orgasms for both! The Bong “O” Vibrating Cockring is another fun toy with an attached pleasure ball for extra excitement. Keep in mind when using a cockring that the ring can rest at the bottom of the shaft or behind the testicles.

Harnesses and Dual Toys: Anal play is an exciting and pleasurable addition to your routine. There are many harnesses available for her to slip on and use. The Bend Over Beginner Kit is a great kit to introduce the enjoyment of anal play for him. Another fun option is the Fun Factory Share Dildo.

Wish you a romantic, playful and sexy Valentines Day!