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Erotic New Year’s Resolutions

Saturday, December 26th, 2015

Erotic New Year's Resolutions Vancouver Canada

Do you have a new year’s resolution yet? According to a recent study, the top three new year’s resolutions are to stick to a budget, exercise regularly, and eat healthier. While these are great new year’s resolutions that can help you live your best life, here at Honey Gifts we want you to consider making a few new year’s resolutions to improve your sexual health and happiness, too! Whether you are single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, there are lots of easy and fun ways you can improve your sex life.

Get To Know What You Like – For some women, masturbation is already a part of their sexual repertoire, and that’s great! Others may be exploring their body for the first time. Keep in mind that masturbation is part of a normal and healthy sex life, and can have lots of benefits for the body, too. Sexual health researchers have found that having an orgasm releases tension, relieves stress, and can help you get to sleep. Who knew! Masturbation can also improve your partnered sex life, too. Knowing how you like to be pleasured makes it easier to communicate with your partner what you enjoy. For women that are uncertain where to begin, we recommend trying a versatile and easy to use vibrator that you can use internally for g-spot stimulation and externally for clitoral pleasure, such as the Lelo Gigi 2.

Explore Your Sexual Fantasies – Getting the sex life you really want is about communicating your sexual desires and exploring your fantasies. Feeling a little shy? One way to easily bring up sexual fantasies with your partner is to read short erotic stories to each another, and then talk about what parts of the story that turned you on the most. The Sweet Life: Erotic Fantasies for Couples is a short story anthology for couples to inspire and arouse you. Another great way to share fantasies with your partner is to watch adult erotic films together. Erika Lust’s downloadable adult films are tastefully erotic and sensual movies that celebrate sexuality, intimacy, and genuine passion between couples. Watching an erotic film with your partner can easily and quickly get you in the mood for a night of intimacy, and bring you closer together through your shared sexual experience. If you are starting the new year solo, erotic stories and adult films are a great way to explore your own sexuality, too.

Try Something New – One of the great things about a new year is feeling like you get to start fresh. So why not try something new that you’ve been interested in for awhile now? Whether you are picking out your first sex toy or already have a few, trying out a new adult sex toy can bring a lot of sexual pleasure and enjoyment to your solo or partner sex life. The new Fun Factory G5 Tiger Deluxe Vibrator is a USB rechargeable vibe that has stimulating textured ridges and ultra-strong vibrations. Curious about bondage? The 50 Shades of Kink: Introduction to BDSM book and Beginner Bondage Fantasy Kit will get you started. Want to try a new sex position? The informative Sex Deck accompanied by the supportive Liberator Wedge make it easy to get into different sexual positions.

Have a safe and happy new year’s from Honey Gifts!

50 Shades of Grey

Monday, January 26th, 2015

50 Shades of Grey hits theatres this Valentines Day. Come check out Honey to find all your favourite things from the film, available from the official 50 Shades of Grey collection. Bring in your movie ticket stub for 50 Shades of Grey and receive 10% off anything from the 50 Shades of Grey Official Collection.

Liberator Sex Furniture

Tuesday, July 29th, 2014



Where is it written that sex has to be hard work? Where does it say that you have to be a contortionist or acrobat to experiment with new positions? Liberator has created a fantastic line of sex furniture that aids in sexual enjoyment as well as sexual adventure. This furniture not only lets you try positions you never thought you could try but also makes sex more enjoyable with less work for both partners.

Liberator Black Label
*note for Black Label items, the cuffs and mask appear leopard print in the images, they are in fact solid black

Black Label Ramp
The Black Label line from liberator is for adventurers who think bondage might be in the cards. The Black Label Ramp features ankle cuffs, a blindfold, cuff connector, two tethers, and a 10-page position guide allowing you to experiment in countless ways. The ramp elevates your lovemaking 12 inches for more options off the side of the bed or a superior doggie-style position. Standing is a man’s “power position” sexually, allowing for stronger thrusting, more varied strokes and greater longevity. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Black Label Ramp.

Black Label Ramp Video – Contains Explicit Sexual Activity (18+)

Black Label Wedge
The Black Label Wedge is great for ease of access. This product includes wrist cuffs, blindfold, cuff connector, two tethers, and a 10-page position guide. Bottoms can get buried in a squishy mattress, the wedge lifts and tilts for a better missionary position. A 27-degree angle presents her on a platter for oral sex that neither strains his neck nor drains his energy. Longer sessions yield stronger orgasms. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Black Label Wedge.

Black Label Wedge Video – Contains Explicit Sexual Activity (18+)

Black Label Ramp/Wedge Combo
The Black Label line also offers a Ramp/Wedge combo. This combination allows for all the possibilities of the pieces separately while adding possibilities when using the pieces combined.

Liberator Classic

Liberator Ramp
The Liberator Ramp lifts your lover 10 to 14 inches and tilts them 27 degrees letting you dive in deeper and reach further. Off the side of the bed, the elevation increases the sweet sexy sensations, sending you into a quivering love saturated oblivion. The Liberator Ramp is now even better; newly redesigned the ramp folds in half for more convenient transportation and storage while not affecting usability.

Liberator Wedge
The Liberator Wedge packs huge benefits into a small package. Fantastic for elevating or providing support the firm foam is comfortable yet maintains its stability. With numerous positions that can be done comfortably you are free to explore a whole new world of sexual pleasure. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Wedge.

Classic Wedge Video – Contains Explicit Sexual Activity (18+)

Liberator Ramp/Wedge Combo
Get the benefits of both the Ramp and the Wedge with the Ramp/Wedge combination. New and exciting possibilities are available when you combine the two. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Ramp/Wedge Combo.

Classic Ramp/Wedge Combo Video – Contains Explicit Sexual Activity (18+)

Liberator Flip Ramp
Looking for a versatile piece that can double as a foot stool or for seating? Look no further than the Liberator Flip Ramp. This item folds into a cube allowing it to be used in a multitude of ways and when folded out can be used like the Ramp. Check out the video below for more information on the Liberator Flip Ramp.

Flip Ramp Video – Contains Simulated Sexual Activity (18+)

Stimulate Your Largest Sex Organ

Tuesday, May 20th, 2014

Are looking for something to read that will titillate? Erotica can be a great way to explore your desires without actually having to attempt to create the fantasy. Erotica can also be a great way to discover things that excite you that you had no idea about. This guide can steer you in the right direction no matter what you are looking for.

Erotica comes in many different styles; from novels that follow a single story to collections that cover a wide range of topics and collections that focus on a single theme.

When thinking of erotic novels that follow a single story the 50 Shades trilogy immediately springs to mind. These novels by E.L. James follow the tumultuous relationship between wealthy businessman Christian Grey and literature student Anastasia Steele as she explores her desires and he learns that there are other routes to satisfying his own. These novels involve BDSM and have been instrumental in opening the door to men and women exploring some of their darker fantasies. The series includes the novels 50 Shades of Grey, 50 Shades Darker, and 50 Shades Freed.

If you are looking for something a little darker, the cornerstone of BDSM stories for years has been the Story of O. This novel by Pauline Reage follows the story of “O”, a photographer, as she submits completely to her lover Rene and explores the underground of the BDSM scene.

Most collections have a minor unifying theme, for example erotica for women, erotica for couples, erotica for lesbians, etc. If you are looking for a very general collection of erotica that will contain a wide variety of stories a great place to start is The Mammoth Book of Best New Erotica. Containing over 45 stories from a multitude of different authors there is sure to be something in this book that gets your engines revving. Some of the best erotica for women is written by Nancy Friday. In her collections she explores themes of female sexual awakening and exploration and provides a wide range of fantasies. Her novels include Women on Top, My Secret Garden, and Forbidden Flowers.

Erotica for couples is a great way to explore fantasies together by reading out loud to one another or both reading the story separately and coming together to discuss or explore. Couples erotica is also a great way to be able to share your fantasies with your partner, if it’s difficult for you to come out and say ‘I want to try (insert desire here)’ then it may be easier for you to say ‘I am really intrigued by what Sally and Joe did in the story we read’. Some great collections of couples erotica are Sweet Confessions, Sweet Life and Sweet Life 2, and Irresistible: Erotic Romance for Couples.

Lots of erotica comes in collections that explore specific themes. If you are looking for lesbian erotica a great collection is Best Lesbian Erotica, an annual collection of the years best lesbian themed erotica collected together in one volume. If you are looking for anal erotica a great collection is Luscious: Stories of Anal Eroticism. This volume collects together 27 unique stories celebrating anal sex. Another theme is aqua erotica, or erotic stories that involve water. A great collection is Wet: More Aqua Erotica, and as an added bonus the book is waterproof so you can take it into the water with you.

Another theme that is explored in erotica is BDSM. Many people are curious about bondage, or domination/submission, and some people are curious about exploring pain, either their own or others. This curiosity  isn’t always easy to explore, ones partner may not be interested, you may be single, or maybe you just aren’t ready to jump into the deep end. While many people are interested in reading an entire novel along these themes many other people find it more desirable to read a series of short stories that explore different situations and that can be read in a single session. Some great collections of BDSM themed erotica include Best Bondage Erotica, an annual collection of the years most celebrated short stories, or Anything for You: Erotica for Kinky Couples a collection falling in both the BDSM and couples categories.

Whatever your desire you are sure to find erotica that matches so explore some of these great stories today and satisfy not just your curiosity.

New Year’s Resolutions with a Twist of Honey

Monday, January 6th, 2014

Make this year’s resolution something fun and arousing!  Here is a list of sexy resolution suggestions that will make 2014 orgasmic!

For men, we suggest you resolve to experience prostate stimulation. Stimulation of the prostate has a host of health benefits such as reducing the risk of prostatitis, prostate cancer, genital pain, symptoms of erectile dysfunction and frequent night-time urination. But aside from all these wonderful benefits is the fact that stimulation of the prostate can result in an orgasm without any stimulation of the penis.  Quality toys designed to work with the male anatomy such as the Lelo Billy Vibrating Prostate Massager, the Naughty Boy P-Spot Vibrator, Aneros Helix Syn Prostate Massager, and the Pandora P-spot toy work to stimulate the prostate with simple clenching and releasing of the muscles to result in a “P-spot” orgasm very similar to a female G-spot orgasm.

For women, we suggest strengthening your pelvic floor muscles while enjoying the stimulating effects of Kegal balls! Pelvic floor exercises; which are also known as Kegel’s have been shown to reduce and prevent urinary incontinence, make recovering from childbirth easier, tighten the vagina and increase sexual pleasure.   Orgasms often become more intense as the muscles that contract are stronger.  The added bonus is that doing these exercises is also fun and easy with tools such as Lelo’s Luna Luxury Pleasure Balls or the smaller Lelo Luna Mini’s, and Cherry Love Geisha Balls. The Luna balls also come in a sleek black version.  These balls have a smaller ball tumbling within it causing the muscles to contract resulting in stronger muscles without the need to clench and release.  Other fantastic products include the Little Gold Balls and the Fifty Shades of Grey balls.

For couples, we suggest learning to give each other erotic massages.  Learning the technique to properly massage the genitals, breast, and backside is not only arousing but primes the body for sex by bringing lots of blood flow to these areas.  Get started with books dedicated to the subject such as Ultimate Erotic Massage and Pure Erotic Massage.  They contain detailed instructions and images to guide you on proper stroke and body placement techniques.   Select a quality massage product such as Barefoot Venus’ Natural Massage OilKama Sutra Massage Oil, massage bar or Intimate Organics Aromatherapy Massage Oil.   For something new, massage candles not only provide a warm oil to massage your partner but also sets the mood with candlelight,  try the Sun-touched Body Massage CandleShunga Caress by Candlelight Massage Candle or the Jimmy Jane Afterglow Massage Candle.  Other massage tools to alternate with are Jimmy Jane Contour M Ceramic Massage Stone or the Hitachi Magic Wand.

We hope we inspired you to add a sexy resolution to your list!

We hope to see you all in 2014 and wish you a sexy, romantic and playful New Year.

The Beauty of Shibari

Tuesday, June 4th, 2013


What is shibari? We get this question all the time at Honey.

Shibari, also known as Kinbaku, means ‘the beauty of tight binding’ and is an old Japanese art dating back to the beginning of the 1800’s. Shibari gained prominence in Japan in the 1950’s when it began to be featured in magazines and displayed at shows and soon after the western world became captivated by the elegance and beauty that can be expressed with a simple length of rope and two willing partners.
Japanese bondage is distinguished by the use of specific ties and aesthetic rules. Shibari is more about the way the rope is applied and the partner in control of the rope often uses it as an expression of communication, this makes it perfect for couples looking to explore new sexual avenues in a safe, trusting environment.

Getting started in shibari is a simple endeavour with access to today’s internet, simply type shibari into the YouTube search bar and plenty of instructional videos are available or enter the term into Google and plenty of sites show up with step by step walkthroughs for simple to complex knots.

Traditional shibari is done with course hemp or jute rope but as it gains prominence in North America people are branching out to try new materials. One of the new materials that is becoming especially popular is Japanese silk rope. Some companies are even coming out with pre-tied simple restraints for the wrists and ankles.

Now what to do with your partner when they are all tied up? There are plenty of different avenues you can take depending on the type of pleasure you and your partner are looking for. If you are looking for a sensual experience that indulges the senses try lighting a massage oil candle to fill the room with scent and then drip the oil onto your partner for an erotic massage. Play some sensual music to stimulate the sense of hearing and blindfold your partner to enhance their other senses such as touch which can be stimulated with different sensations such as feathering.

On the other hand if you are looking for a kinkier experience try using a whip or paddle on your bound partner. With harness ties that leave the chest exposed try a pair of nipple clamps or a nipple to clitoris clamp set.

If you are looking to tease your partner to the brink of orgasm try some clitoral stimulation with a powerful small vibrator or stimulate the g-spot with a specially designed g-spot toy. If your man is the one trussed up try a Tenga Egg for a mind blowing hand job or try some BJ Blast for a stimulating oral sex sensation.

If you or your partner is worried about comfort during the process you should experiment with some simple ties first to get a feel for how tight you enjoy it and which places the rope may feel uncomfortable. A few simple tricks can make the experience easier and more comfortable for both partners. One idea is to place a waterproof lined plush blanket beneath the partner being tied; this will make their experience lying still more comfortable and also protects your bedding, furniture, or flooring from oils if giving your bound partner a massage. Another idea is to use sex furniture to help position a partner when doing a tie that requires the bound partner to remain in a certain position for an extended period of time, this will make the experience more enjoyable for both partners and can also extend the amount of time you and your partner can play.

Shibari is a beautiful art form that is sexy and fun but be sure to watch for how tight the bindings are and if you are doing suspensions make sure to work your way up to it, do lots of research, and have the right equipment on hand.

For some beautiful images of shibari please check out our shibari pinterest board..

Fantasies-Get into Character

Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012

Puck Me

He had been looking forward to hockey season all summer long. So you can imagine how bummed he was when he tore his ACL in August. “You’re going to need reparative surgery. No hockey this season. No sports for at least 6 months.” the doctor said.

A couple months into winter, he started to become stir-crazy. So I decided to take action! Our next date night, I put on my sexy hockey player dress, slid my striped socks up to my thighs, and took off my underwear.

“I was wondering if you wanted to play some hockey tonight for our date?” I yell from the other room.

“That’s so mean! You know I can’t play!” he shouts, a little disheartened.

“I think you’ll be up for this game” I say as I walk over to him and grab his cock through his pants. He laughs, nervously, waiting to see what my next move is. I throw him a hockey stick and a puck. “If you can score a goal, then I’m all yours. If not, you have to watch me masturbate until I’m satisfied, but you don’t get to touch me.”

I could tell by his gaze that he was game. I turned around and spread my legs, bending slightly at the hips to reveal my pussy. “Take your best shot” I say, trying to distract him. And it’s working.

“Baby you know if turns me on when you expose yourself to me like that.”

“Really? I had no idea.” I say playfully as I start stroking my pussy. “I guess you’ll just have to focus harder. Because this feels good and I have no intention of stopping until you take that shot.”

I turn around to meet his gaze. His eyes are burning with desire as he watches me. I bend a little further, reaching around to touch my pussy from behind. I’m getting wet and starting to flush. I moan. Loudly.

“Getting distracted by your own distraction?” He says, with a smug smile on his face. Determined to prove him wrong, I make my finger disappears inside my pussy. “That’s right. You better get yourself ready for my cock,” he whispers, “because after I make this shot, you’re going to need it.”

I start fingering myself faster, aroused by his encouragement and thoughts of what’s to come. This time, it’s he who moans. I picture him watching me pleasure myself, and it turns me on more. My breath is getting shorter.

When is he going to take the shot? I can’t take much more. My hips begin to grind against my hand as I move my other hand down to my clit. “Just like that, Baby. I want you to get yourself close.” Both hands are now moving furiously, and I’ve gotten so lost in feeling good that I am completely taken by surprise when I see a puck fly through my legs.

“Game on.” He breathes in my ear, and before I know it I feel his cock thrust into me, deep and hard, as the orgasm takes over my body.

50 shades of Honey

There’s that look again. The one that makes my clit throb. I anticipate his words “get into position. Now.” I quickly stand and scurry to his room, anxiously awaiting the things he’s going to do to me. I kneel to the ground with my hands on my thighs and my eyes on the floor. Soon I’m looking at his feet as he stands in front of me. “Get up” he says, and I eagerly jump to my feet. As I stand, I notice the array of toys he’s laid out for us; for me.

My thighs flush as he pushes me face down into the bed. I smell the leather cuffs as he puts one around each wrist, followed by each ankle. As he brings them back to hogtie me, I let out a breath of excitement. “What did I tell you last time about making noise?” he says as his gaze burns deep into mine. “Not until I say you can.” His voice is deep and passionate as he thrusts the ball gag in my mouth. Bound, gagged, and helpless, just a naked body ready to be used for his pleasure. And I want it so badly.

I follow his glance to the tables of toys, wondering where it will land. He smirks and grabs the nipple gel. As he rubs some into each nipple, I squirm underneath him from the sudden rush of cold and excitement. “I love getting your nipples hard like that. Next we’ll get your clit” He grabs the O’my gel. Immediately I am writhing under the sensation, wanting to cry out for him to touch me deeper. But my moans are muffled by the ball gag.

He reaches out again. This time I see the glimmer of the pure wand dildo before it slides out of my sight. I feel my pussy slowly being spread followed by the warm steel of the dildo inside of me. As he rocks it back and forth, my pussy fills with the burning desire to come. I start to thrust my hips harder against the rhythm of the dildo, trying desperately to come in my restrained position. Just as I am about to explode, he takes the dildo out. “You didn’t think it would be that easy, did you?”

Feeling helpless and stimulated, my body begins to move against the bed in a desperate attempt to stimulate itself. He laughs at me, knowing I want to come so badly. My face is red and my breath is amplified. The ball gag has gotten wet from my desperate breathing, but not nearly as wet as my pussy. I hear the buzz of the  Hitachi magic wand and know it won’t be long now. I feel the vibration on my inner thighs, my pussy lips, and finally on my clit. “That’s right. Come for me baby” is all I hear as the vibrations take over my pussy and radiate throughout my body. As my body crashes and I come back to reality, I open my eyes and see him smiling at me. “Oh baby, that’s only that beginning” he says, as he unzips his pants.

Bad Cop

My husband has been asking me for years to dominate him. You know, with handcuffs and crops and things I don’t have any idea how to use. I have always been hesitant, but last week he bought me sexy police officer costume. And asked me to pick out the rest.

When I took it out of the package I could feel my flesh starting to tingle. Do I really have it in me to take full seductive and aggressive control over my husband? I slip into the dark blue gartered dress and am immediately hit with a sense of empowerment. Looking at the mirror, I see how the dress hugs my breasts and shows a glimpse of my ass when I bend over. My sense of empowerment begins to grow as I pull up my fishnet stockings. By the time I’m zipping up my black boots, I am ready to take control. I begin to strut, letting my boots fall heavy on my floor. With each step, my police persona takes over a little more and before long I am walking and talking with the confidence of the sexiest cop on the force.

I take the handcuffs I bought yesterday out of the package. The metal feels cold as I twirl them around my finger. Oh yeah, these will be perfect. I reach for my new blindfold and place it next to the bed. I can see him now – sprawled on the bed, handcuffed with his arms behind him, blindfolded, defenseless, and anticipating my next move. I picture myself arresting him and throwing him against the wall for his mandatory strip search. I rip of his clothes and begin to run my new riding crop up and down his naked body, watching as his cock gets bigger with anticipation. I tell him he’s going away for a very long time, unless, of course, he and I can work something out. With his face in my hand, I tell him how he can pay for his crimes, and all it takes is for him to listen and obey everything I say. His eyes widen in excitement as I grab the riding crop again. I am in control, and he is all mine…

The sound of the front door opening quickly snaps me out of my fantasy. “Honey, are you upstairs?” I hear him say. “Yes”, I respond, “And you better get up here. There’s a police officer here and she has some questions for you.”

Extra Credit

Role-playing is hot. My wife and I have tried it a few times before. I love getting lost in our character’s dirty ideas. So when she said she wanted to try something new, I wasn’t surprised. I was just eager to find out what it was. After a few months had past and I had finished my first semester as a high school teacher, I came home one day to find a desk sitting in the middle of my living room.

“Mr. Davis?” she calls as she crosses her legs, showing me a glimpse of her thighs under her plaid skirt.

“Y-yes?” I stammer, trying to avert my eyes quickly so she doesn’t catch me.

“I had a question about number 5. Could you please come over here and help me?”

Trying to hide my growing erection, I walk up next to her and look over her shoulder. She smells like vanilla and looks like a teen boys wet dream.  Her shirt is open one button more than usual, I can’t help but look and when I do she locks her eyes on mine and pushes her breasts together. Her fullness pushes against her blouse, showing me a peek of her red bra underneath.

“What were you having trouble with?” I ask, as I move in closer. She smells so good.

“I feel the answer I gave was correct and should not have been marked down as much as I was.”

Lisa has never been a student who cares about her grades, and so I am surprised she is readily combative about a 2 point test question. I reach down to read why she lost points, but her original answer is crossed out. Underneath it, all it says is “I turned 18 yesterday.”

Startled, I glance over at her. “And my panties match my bra” she says. “I would love for you to take them off with your mouth.”

My pants are quickly tightening as she parts her perfectly glossed mouth.

“When?” is all I can manage to utter.

She’s looking at me and stroking her thighs and all I can think about is pulling up her skirt, pushing her panties to the side and tasting her until she begs me to stop.

“If we’re going to do this, then you better wear that uniform.”  is all I can say as I walk back to my desk before anybody notices my excitement.

“I love our sex together” she whispers, breaking character for one second to reconnect with me. “Me too, Mrs. Davis” I say to my wife of 7 years. “Now, let’s talk about how you can make up those points you lost.”   

Fun and Light Techniques for Whips and Paddles

Friday, November 14th, 2008

Spanking and light whips are some of the most popular types of sensation play. It can be done in combination with oral sex with your partner standing or on its own as the primary focus.

* Role play is a great way to begin adding slapping into your games; you can spank your school girl with the wooden Naughty Ruler for being “bad” and gently whip your maid for not cleaning the room just right. Role-playing can let you step outside of your everyday roles and experience more freedom in expressing yourself.
Create the role-play scenario for your night of spanking bliss. Get creative and set up a situation that creates intensity for both partners.

* Picking your pleasure items is part of the fun and anticipation. You can choose from a variety of whips, paddles and crops for your foray into this erotic pleasure. Each provides a different aural and physical sensation. Whips have many tails which can be used to stroke and tap your partner. Our leather Flogerella whips and rubber whips are good for beginner and intermediates. They can create very soft taps or more stingy strokes but the mid-length allows more control. Paddles and crops provide a slappier sound; which can be very arousing, and the length allows you to be up close or further away from your lover. Often it is the sound of the paddle hitting your bottom or thigh that is just as sexy as the sensation.

* Warming up. Start with light touches like feathers and finger nails, slowly running along from the lower back to the back of the thigh area but focusing on the buttocks. Or try applying some edible warming oil and licking the area. Then move up by using a whip, paddle or your hand with gentle taps and flicks over the entire buttock or thigh area. Warming up the area sends happy endorphins to the brain and starts the juices flowing. Mix up your spanking by switching between gentle love taps, massage and harder smacks. Be sure to switch from one cheek or thigh to the next. The body becomes accustomed to any sensation after about twenty minutes so you need to keep changing the sensation to make the pleasure last.

* Get your swing on. When using the whip or flogger you need to first practice your swing. You wouldn’t walk out onto the badminton court without trying your racket for the first time; neither should you try a whip on a partner until you have learnt to control the feel of your whip and floggers.
You can begin creating a steady and rhythmic motion with forehand/backhand action. Adding flicks of your wrist or a slight heavy handedness to change the rhythm or motion of your stroke.
The “towel” stroke is a quick flick of the wrist and snap of your whip. The “windmill” stroke is a counterclockwise or clockwise motion of your wrist that has a quick flick across the bottom. Also the “figure 8” pattern can be created with the use of two whips used simultaneously.
Any and all of these movements can be used in combination with each other and spanking. Changing your rhythm and motion creates a more erotic sensation and you can heighten the sensation by using a blindfold, it will create anticipation and suspense.

* Communication. Find out what your partner is enjoying by asking questions such as ‘harder’, ‘softer’, ‘faster’, ‘slower’…etc. Or vise versa, if you are the person being flogged or spanked. Use this occasion to talk dirty and arouse your partner more. Tell them how you love seeing their butt cheeks turn red or how bad you’ve been to deserve this spanking.

* Positions. The most popular position is over the knee. But you can prop your partner on all fours with their rump in the air or over furniture like a bed, chair, or sex furniture like the Liberator Ramp or Wedge. Experiment with different locations and positions.

* Safety First. There are areas where it is safe for spanking and flogging and other areas that should be avoided. Fleshy areas such as the buttocks, shoulder, calves and thighs are a safe and fun area for whipping and spanking. DO NOT whip the abdomen area below the ribcage, head, neck, spine or behind the knees and ankles. The abdomen especially has vital organs such as the kidneys and a rough hit could cause damage.
Be careful not to wrap the tip of the whip around these sensitive areas during whip play.
Always have a safe word which when uttered stops the play immediately. This is your partner’s way of saying “I have had enough.”

After your playful session, rub down the area with a cooling cream like the Kama Sutra body soufflé in Cool Mint or Soaring Spirit massage oil. Talk about how the experience was for each of you and make a date for the next play session!

Sexy Costumes for Bedroom Role-Playing

Tuesday, September 2nd, 2008

Role playing has long been a part of our sex games and fantasies; it allows us the freedom and liberation of being someone else for a few hours to play out the fantasies and try out the persona of the role you are playing. Three of the most popular fantasy costumes include:

Naughty School Girl: The cute and flouncy plaid skirt, pigtails, white button down top and white knee high stockings. The fantasy usually includes a teacher who needs to discipline the naughty school girl. This fantasy is popular because it allows the teacher to be in control and for the student to give up control. Over the years at our retail store we have had customers question the meaning behind the school girl fantasy. A fantasy played out between two adults is just that- a fantasy come true! It is about dominance and submissiveness. And of course Britney Spears probably made it even more popular! Check out some the cute School Girl, and Private School Girl costumes. Combine this fantasy with accessories like the Naughty Ruler.

Naughty Nurse: The Naughty Nurse is still one of the top fantasy costumes! We all know nurses don’t go to work wearing anything that even slightly resembles any of the sexy nurse costumes but that won’t stop this classic fantasy. This scenario usually involves the nurse attending to the patients every sexual whim to bring them back to ‘health’. The nurse in this situation can be the one in control with the ‘sex prescription’ to sexually satisfy the patient or she can give orders for the patient to sexually satisfy her. And of course this costume can also be used for the doctor and nurse fantasy! There are plenty of sexy nurse costumes to choose from, check out the Naughty Nurse, Night Nurse, Vinyl Nurse, Day Nurse, and the Darque Nurse. Accessories are also key to completing a role-playing fantasy. Complete the outfit with Naughty Nurse Opaque thigh highs, leather crop, Jo Flavored Lubricant and the Roughneck Realistic Vibrator.

French Maid: We are not sure why this fantasy came about…except if a stranger comes into a room with practically just a bed and dressed in a sexy outfit with fishnets, a sexual fantasy is sure to arise! At Honey we carry two sexy French maid costumes, the Upstairs Maid and the Chamber Maid. And don’t forget the accessories to complete the outfit like the Fishnet Thigh High Stay-ups and the Pleasure Feather!

There are many role-playing costumes to have fun with like the Policewomen, Little Bo Peep, Pussy Cat, Fire Women, Cheerleader, Prisoner of Love, Sweet Fairy, Geisha Girl, Sexy Mountie Girl … etc. Take a look at all the Sexy Costumes!

Some General Guidelines for Sex Games and Role-play:

1. Agree to the basics of the fantasies rules; for example, if using bondage or spanking in your game agree to how far you wish the fantasy to play out. I.e.: if you wish to see marks or no marks etc.

2. Designate your roles, this helps make the role playing more realistic as you will know which role you are playing.

3. Have a “safe word”. A word you both know and understand to absolutely mean STOP! Choose a word that is not easy misunderstood or misheard, some examples are “Roses” or “Peanut Butter.” These words should tell your partner that it is time to stop.

Have fun and indulge in as much play as you can with your partner! Your bedroom should not only be a place of sleep but an adult play zone. As they say…couples that play together stay together!

A Sexy Easter Pleasure Hunt

Thursday, February 28th, 2008

Celebrating the Easter season with chocolates and rabbits is always fun, but this year why not try something a little more daring with your partner for the Easter weekend. A fun way to spice things up is by sending your partner off on a sexy pleasure hunt, with you as the grand prize!

You can make your hunt as simple or complex as you wish, but here are some fun tips and tricks to make the wait worth the rewards.

1) To get your partner following your trail try taking some sexy photos of yourself using a digital or Polaroid camera. You could start off tame and show each photo with a little less clothing and a naughty pose, be adventurous and make a combination of naughty, risqué and sexy poses to lead them along the way.

2) Start off by putting your tamest picture someplace easy to find. Be creative and put the picture in a box of Easter chocolates or candies, and maybe a hint or clue as to what you wish them to do or where you will be.

3) Create a path throughout your home with each picture becoming racier; leave a few sexy treats like the furry cuffs, or Belgian Chocolate Body Paint along the way to spark some sensual ideas.

4) For yourself as the grand finale you had best take a good sip of wine and set yourself up in your sexiest duds. Whether you choose from racy lingerie or your birthday suit and a pair of heels, you should feel sexy and empowered!

5) Now here comes the fun part: you’re all sexy and fine and you’ve got your partner looking for you in anticipation, but how do you want to be found? Slinky in the bed with a feast of delights beside you? Or already restrained with the under the bed restraint system and ready for them to make a meal of you with the deserts you’ve left along the way. However you desire your treasure hunt to end from being tied up in bed to having a fun bath together with some passion bath salts you know that this will be a pleasure hunt you both will never forget.

If doing the full Easter hunt is too difficult due to little children running wild, perhaps a mini hunt is the way to go. Slip a sexy note or picture into your partner’s pocket during the morning and even a couple more throughout the day. This provides some stimulating anticipation for a fun night ahead. Slip them a designated time with the last sexy note and then be sure to have the little ones off to bed or with a sitter so that you can set yourself up as an Easter treat.