Long Distance Love: Keeping it HOT

Whether you are apart for a few weeks, a few months, or even years; keep it hot and heavy!

 Snail Mail

It is exciting to receive things in the mail.  You know your partner has picked out something meaningful for you.  It can be something as simple as a card, personalized letter, or a package with a small reminder of something sentimental like their favorite snack or a CD with memorable songs.  Receiving something in the mail is so much more exciting than emails and tells the person on the other end you are putting time and consideration into the relationship.  The Hug ‘n Kisses Couples Coupon Book … or X-rated is a great way to send a love token in the mail.  Filled with romantic and racy rendezvous to be redeemed when you meet up, it will be sure to keep conversations hot and imaginations revving.  Receiving this in the mail will be sure to put a smile on your partners face!

If you are unable to see each other for longer stretches of time then send something a little more daring once a month or once even a week. Gentlemen if you are gone why not send her a luxurious toy like the Lelo Ina, or for a pleasurable and fulfilling reminder of yourself, the Clone-a-Willy Kit; this kit creates an exact replica of your manhood and makes it into a vibrating sex toy.  Ladies, don’t forget that men don’t often get treated to sexy underwear and they love it when they do!  Mansilk Trunks are sexy and comfortable, made of 100% silk knit and slightly sheer for high sex appeal.  A fun toy for him would be the Intimate Grip Stroker for his solo playtime but can be used together during fellatio when you are together. 

Many of Honey’s sex toys or sexy lingerie would be thrilling to send/or receive…combined with some hot and heavy telephone or web cam time and you can be assured the flames will be blazing.

Telephone and Cell phones

Our telephones can do so much for us these days so between your computer and cell you can keep in constant contact.  Sexting has gotten such a bad rap these days but sending naughty and explicit texts can be a fun and arousing way to play with your partner throughout the day.

Phone sex is an obvious option but make the most of it by improving your dirty talk.  The Fine Art of Erotic Talk is well written and one of the top rated books for refining your erotic speech whether in bed, web cam or on the phone.  Reading erotic books to each other such as Sweet Life or Best Women’s Erotica 2010 can get the imagination going and fantasies alive.

 Connecting through the computer

Set up a sexy evening using some sexy lingerie that your partner sent you or you picked out together online, erotic movie that you can watch together, and/or sex toys in front of the web cam.  It’s daring and risqué but doing this with a partner you have full trust in is important.  

Being physically far apart can be difficult in a relationship but with some creative effort it can still include arousing and sensual experiences.

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