Archive for 2010

Delectable Holiday Cocktails

Tuesday, November 30th, 2010

Share to joy of holiday cocktails with  friends and family!  Guaranteed to make your holiday warm and very merry! 

 

 

Red Hot Chocolate

Ingredients

1 oz. Campari
2 oz. Brandy
3 oz. Milk
0.5 oz. (optional) Heavy Cream
2 tablespoons Chocolate Chip

 Directions

Put milk, cream & chocolate in a milk frothing cup used for espresso. Froth milk as you would for cappuccino. When milk is hot remove frothing wand and whisk or stir vigorously until chocolate is completely melted. Add Campari and Brandy. Pour into heat-resistant cup. Can be garnished with 1 large hand-cut marshmallow or a red peppermint stick.

 

The Caroling Cup

Ingredients

3 cloves
1 cinnamon stick
1 Orange
8 oz. Apple Cider

Directions

To a saucepan, add 3 cloves, 1 stick cinnamon and the peel of 1 whole orange. Add 8 oz apple cider. Heat almost to a boil. Remove cloves, cinnamon and orange and pour into a heatproof mug. Garnish with a fresh Clementine skewer.

 

 Candy Cane Swirl Martini

Ingredients

1 oz. SKYY® Infusions Raspberry
3 oz. Red Cranberry juice
0.5 oz. Grenadine
0.5 oz. Grenadine
Lemon Lime soda

Directions

Rim martini glass with crushed candy cane. Combine SKYY Vodka, Peppermint Schnapps, Cranberry Juice and Grenadine into a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake vigorously and strain into martini glass. Top with Lemon Lime Soda and garnish with small peppermint candy cane.

The Candy Cane Swirl is designed to add a simple, yet festive element to your larger holiday parties, utilizing familiar ingredients easily mixed in larger quantities. A vibrant red cocktail with a whimsical candy cane garnish, the Candy Cane Swirl is sure to be a crowd pleaser.

 

Cheers! 

Happy Holiday from us all at Honey

Recipes from “what to drink”.

Choosing the Right Condom

Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

Who wants to stop in the midst of a hot and heavy sexual rendezvous to slip on a condom?  Well, with the advancement of condom technology, it may now be part of the excitement.  Condoms have advanced enormously providing choice in material, thickness, size, lubrication, and sensation.

Read on to learn more about condoms and the pleasures it can provide when you find a great fit.

 Deciphering the size descriptors: Condoms that list as a “snugger” fit usually are smaller than the standard size condom but it may be shorter, not slimmer.  Condoms labeled large, magnum or XL are larger than the standard size but they may only be wider not longer so you may have to try a couple different ones to get the perfect fit for you. Different sized condoms allow you to fit the condom to you, which will allow for more pleasure and sensation. Too tight or too loose and the condom will not be as effective or enjoyable.

Lubricant: Almost all condoms come pre-lubricated unless otherwise stated but generally not enough for a full sexual session.  Do have your favorite water or silicone based lube close by (both water and silicone based lubricants are condom compatible) to keep things slippery for extended pleasure and play. Do not use oil-based products, as oil is not compatible with latex.  Some of Honey’s staff favorite lubricants are JO H20 Water based and Pjur Original Silicone.

Material: Most condoms are made from latex.  Latex is relatively inexpensive, but on the downside some people do have latex allergies. If you have sensitivity to latex there are now a variety of non-latex condoms on the market that are just as thin and very enjoyable to use.

Condoms:

Thin:           

- Contempo Bareback Condoms have been consistently rated as one of the most pleasurable to use. Light, strong, and thin.

- Consistently rated second to none!  Crown Skinless Condoms are Japanese made and the thinnest latex condoms available. They have a soft pink tint that makes them look invisible when on. Made famous by their consistent use in adult movies.

- Kimono Microthin Condoms are another Japanese engineered brand with special natural latex and considered the thinnest in North America.

- Beyond 7 is made with patented Sheerlon latex, which has a silkier, more natural feel, much like skin itself. 38% thinner than ordinary condoms. Made with advanced Japanese condom technology.

Larger Fit:

- Kimono Microthin Large Condoms are Japanese made, ultra thin and are 15% longer in length and have 25% more head room.

- Durexx XXL Condoms is the world’s longest condom!

- Lifestyles King Size is extra long and extra wide for king sized penises.

Added Sensation:

- Kimono Microthin Type E Condoms have sensi studs on the inside for him and ribs on the outside for her maximum pleasure.  With a form fit shape and 20% thinner for maximum sensation.

- Contempo Rough Rider is studded for her pleasure from tip to end.

Contempo Erotica Vibra-Ribbed contain row after row of raised latex ribs that cover the entire length from tip to end.

- Pleasure Plus Condoms are ribbed in a small pouch on the underside of the penis. This pouch is ribbed inside and out for maximum sensation for both.

- Beyond 7 Studded Condom is made with patented Sheerlon latex, which has a silkier, more natural feel, much like skin itself. 38% thinner than ordinary condoms and features hundreds of raised bumps.  Made with advanced Japanese technology.

Non-Latex:

Avanti Bare Condoms are thin, lubricated and made from polyurethane which is a great alternative for those with latex allergies. This condom is compatible with oil based lubricants as an added bonus.

- Life Style Skyn Condoms are made from polyisoprene which is a great alternative for people with sensitivities and allergies to latex. This condom is the thinnest, silkiest, non-latex condom and stretches to accommodate different sizes. Feels close to nothing at all.  Lot of great feedback for this relatively new product as it transfer heat unlike latex condoms. 

- Trojan NaturaLamb Condoms are made of a natural lambskin membrane.  They are generally quite thick but they offer their own unique pleasure sensation.  Lambskin condoms do not provide protection against sexually transmitted diseases.  They only provide protection against unwanted pregnancies.

Good For Oral Sex:

- Durex Tropical Condoms come in assorted colors with exciting flavors and scents. Orange, Strawberry, Banana and Mint.  Another great option is to combine your favorite condom with a flavored lubricant for some fun oral pleasure.

Sexy Costumes and Making Your Own

Tuesday, October 5th, 2010

Get ready for the sexiest Halloween ever!  Reveal your inner vixen, sweetheart or ‘bad girl’ personae. Ready made costumes take the pressure off creating the perfect costume and finding all the right accessories to complete the outfit but crafting your own costume from individual pieces keeps the outfit unique.  Here are some popular themed costumes and ideas for creating your own.

Pirates and Sailors – The pirate is a halloween classic; mysterious, adventurous, and dangerous. We have the Shipwreck Pirate, Sexy Pirate, and the Swashbuckler Pirate costume so you will find the right fit and style for you. 

Make it your own! Using the Red Satin Corset or Black Burlesque Corset and combining it with pieces like fence net stockings, swashbuckler hat, pirate hair bows, and a petticoat can create a sexy outfit with the corset piece useable year round.

To anchor his heart away we have the Shipmate Cutie and Sweetheart Sailor

Make it your own! A navy blue dress, white gloves, white opaque stockings, shipmate hair bows, a white sailor sun hat, and anchor embellishments will craft an adorable sailor girl.

                                         

Policewomen and Gangster Girls – Who doesn’t love a bad girl?  Costumes that will them begging to be taken prisoner are Dirty Cop and Classic Cop

Make it your own! The Lady Anne black leather corset, vinyl cop hat, black petticoat, fence net pantyhose, furry handcuffs, and badge embellishments will fashion one bad ass policewomen!

If you would prefer to be on the wrong side of the law we have a classic mobster Suzy Silencer Costume.

Make it your own! Combine a pinstripe dress, fedora, necktie, and fence net pantyhose to assemble a gangster no one will mess with.

Fairytales – Discover your inner storybook character. The Regal Queen, Pretty Playing Card and Mad Hatter Tea Party costumes are Alice in Wonderland inspired. Fantasy Dorothy, Little Miss Muffet, Gretchen, Snow White or Robin Hood will have you reliving all your favorite childhood characters.

Make it your own!  Let your create spirit loose to put together a fantasy costume.  Combining fun, scary and sexy items, you can shape something out of your imagination.  Accessories make the costume so combining a variety of items together can often magically transform into a fantasy ensemble that is just your own. 

Using a corset as a base is a great way to start putting together your emsemble.  Using a black corset and adding accessories you can be a cop, gangster, dark angel, witch, bat…etc.  A basic red corset allows you to transform into a devil, Little Red Riding Hood, pirate …etc.  The list goes on, but you get the idea!

Halloween is the one time of year we can let loose and not be held back by our inhibitions. Trick ‘n Treat your way to a fun and memorable evening!

Georgia Straight Best of Vancouver

Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

Thank you to everyone who voted in the Georgia Straight Best of Vancouver! We are in the Top Three  Best Sex Shops Vancouver and we couldn’t have done it without you!

 

The Buzz on Vibrating Cock Rings

Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

This simultaneously satisfying couples toy is fun for clitoral and/or scrotum stimulation while giving him a thicker and fuller erection.  It will also intensify his orgasms to boot! 

How to Use a Vibrating Cock Ring:

Cock rings are fairly simple in design and easy to use. They usually have one to two stretchable rings and one or two vibrating bullets attached. To slip the ring onto the penis you should lubricate the inside of the ring as well as your penis so it stretches on comfortably. Pull the ring opening with your fingers until it is stretched to easily slide over your penis and testicles. It can also be worn just at the base of the penis but it tends to feel more supportive if worn over both penis and testicles.  If the vibrating ring you have has two rings, one will go over the penis and one will stretch over the testicles. The ring over the testicles puts pressure on a muscle behind the testicles creating a more intense orgasm for him. Carefully relax the ring back down to its former size and gently slip your fingers out. Once comfortably slipped on, all you have to do is press a button the vibrator!

Cock rings can be used with the bullets facing in any number of directions, with the bullet on top of the penis it will hit her clitoris, with the bullet beneath the testicles it will provide extra stimulation to the testicles and perineum.  Some vibrating rings have two bullets such as the Trio Vibrating Cock Ring so both partners can be stimulated at the same time.

How to Choose A Cock Ring?

Price: Cock rings come in a variety of styles and prices, so depending on your budget you can choose the perfect toy without breaking the bank. Some economical choices are the Disposable Vibrating Ring, which lasts between 30-40minutes, the Big O Ring or the Bong O.

Luxury: If you are looking for high end, high quality luxury products the Lelo Tor is 100% silicone, rechargeable, with a variety of functions and beautiful to behold. 

Double Bullets: For something more adventurous than your basic one bullet cock ring, you can choose a ring with two bullets, one for each partner to enjoy. Cock Rings such as the Trio, or Duet, are both powerful and stimulate both partners at the same time.

These bullets allow you to be hands free so you can easily try a variety of positions and allow your hands to stimulate other erogenous areas for maximum pleasure and excitement.

Corsets, Basques and Bustiers

Wednesday, August 4th, 2010

Corsets have been around for a very long time, most notably in the Victorian Era when corsets were used by both men and women to give a desirable shape for underneath elaborate clothing. Women would force their waists in as tiny as possible for the sake of fashion.  Back then, corsets were made with actual bones.  In todays world, corsets are still very popular for special occaisions like bridal wear, burlesque dancing and fashion, or just for fun bedroom seduction.

The wonderful thing about the form fitting quality of a corset, bustier, or basque is that no matter your size; from slim figured to plus size, they make you feel like a goddess accentuating your womenly curves.

What’s the difference between a Basque, Corset, and Bustier?

Basques: A basque is made of a lightweight material usually with plastic boning in the important areas around the waist and bust. The fit is usually snug emphasizing and accentuating your shape. Usually it features a hook and eye closure.  The Coquette Dot Mesh Teaser features burlesque styling and soft boning for a gorgeous fit.  The Satin and Lycra Set is a wonderful basic that can be worn easily under clothing right into the bedroom for an evening of seduction!  Sweet and sassy styles with vintage inspirations are the new Vintage Rose and Victorian Dreams sets.

Corsets: A corset is made from steel or plastic boning that will significantly bring in the waist and push up the breasts.  This greatly accentuates the womenly hour glass shape by cinching in the waist and widening towards the bust and hips. They can be worn as outerwear or underwear and features a lace up back for cinching the corset closed. The burlesque inspired Burlesque Corset, Skirt, and G-String set is stunning and can even be worn as outerwear, but if you preference is more demure and vintage the I’m Yours Vintage Corset brings out the inner Contessa with its old world styling.

The White Brocade Corset is lightweight and perfect for underneath bridal gowns. 

Bustiers: Bustiers are generally shorter, reaching just past the ribs or at the top of the waist. They are usually made from stretchy and sheer materials and do not feature boning but use under wiring and tailored fitting for a snug form fitting look. Some sexy sheer styles include the Embroidered Lace Lingerie Set and the Cupcakes Retro Cami and Thong Set.

Which Boning to Choose?

Plastic boning is nice because it is strong but still pliable, it will help you create the hourglass figure without significantly changing your bodies measurements. Plastic boning is great if you are wanting to wear the item out on the town or for performances such as burlesque or giving your partner a fun strip tease as you can still have ease of movement.

Metal boning is very strong and can reduce your waist measurements by up to 4 inches. Metal boning is very strong and supportive but it will reduce your ability to slouch or twist your body easily while wearing it.

Getting the Right Fit

For plastic boned corsets, basques or bustiers you want to fit it to your bra size. For example if you are a 32A,B or C cup you would choose the size 32. If you cup size is larger then a D you would want to choose to go up a size to a 34.  If the sizes run according to a small, medium, large; the measurements usually refer to the rib cage size. For example a small would fit a 32, medium a 34 and a large would be 36. A bust size is not included because a plastic boned corset is flexible enough to range between an A – D easily.

Metal boned corsets are sized by the waist circumference as they are designed to reduce your waist size so you would want to go with this measurement.

To get your waist measurement you need to stand up straight and measure the slimmest part of your stomach just under the ribs.

Since you are trying to reduce your waist size you need to then take your natural waist measurement and then deduct 3 to 4 inches to get the size of your corset. For example if you have a 28 inch waist then you will need a corset that is a size 24. If you are concerned about that size being too tight then you can only reduce by 3 inches from your natural waist. The point of a steel boned corset is to slim the waist and to boost the bust, so it should be a snug fit.

Getting it on!

Bustiers and Basques are generally quite easy to get into as they usually use hook and eye closures like a bra but getting into a Corset can be a little tricky at first, but with some practice you should be able to slip it on without any help.

First you need to loosen the laces enough that the corset fits around your natural waist easily. Next you should wrap the corset around you so that it is sitting correctly, turn so that you can see what you are doing in a mirror and begin tightening the laces one by one starting at the top and working your way down. To stop them from re-losening you hold onto the first lace you tightened then pull the one beneath it while still holding the one above, work you way down this way until you reach the middle of the back where the first laces stop. Give them a final pull and tie them in place.

Then tighten the bottom set of laces working in the opposite direction from bottom to top, tighten at the middle and tie away the excess.

Getting it off!

Getting yourself out of a corset is a lot easier then getting it on. Simply untie the laces until it is loose enough that you can easily undo the clasps at the front. Taking the time to loosen the laces and not forcing the front will help lengthen the life of your corset so take care.

 Trying a bustier, basque, or corset for the first time can be quite fun and the effect it has on your partner will be memorable!

Position of the Week: The Stopperage

Friday, July 16th, 2010

What better way to make use of your furniture then by incorporating it into a hot, new position?  All you’ll need to pull off the Stopperage position are a few couch cushions, a flat surface and a few well-chosen, dirty words – but with some creativity, it won’t be long before you start looking at all your furniture in a whole new way.

She’ll start out by lying back on the bed and raising her hips as he places a cushion (or two) under her buttocks.  You can also use the liberator or position play pillows for support. Take time positioning the cushions so they’re directly under her butt and not the small of her back.  Her pelvis should be slightly tilted upward.  She’ll then bend her knees, pulling them toward her chest as he moves forward and penetrates her.  The Stopperage is completed as he leans forward, places his hands on either side of her and thrusts deeply. 

Having her knees drawn up will effectively contract her vagina, making for a nice tight fir as you enjoy face-to-face intimacy.  To get the perfect angle, couples can use a “sex wedge”, a firm, foam pillow made especially to get into new positions.  This angle makes for very easy penetration so he should be careful not to get too deep before she’s fully aroused, because this can sometimes be painful for women.

Long Distance Love: Keeping it HOT

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

Whether you are apart for a few weeks, a few months, or even years; keep it hot and heavy!

 Snail Mail

It is exciting to receive things in the mail.  You know your partner has picked out something meaningful for you.  It can be something as simple as a card, personalized letter, or a package with a small reminder of something sentimental like their favorite snack or a CD with memorable songs.  Receiving something in the mail is so much more exciting than emails and tells the person on the other end you are putting time and consideration into the relationship.  The Hug ‘n Kisses Couples Coupon Book … or X-rated is a great way to send a love token in the mail.  Filled with romantic and racy rendezvous to be redeemed when you meet up, it will be sure to keep conversations hot and imaginations revving.  Receiving this in the mail will be sure to put a smile on your partners face!

If you are unable to see each other for longer stretches of time then send something a little more daring once a month or once even a week. Gentlemen if you are gone why not send her a luxurious toy like the Lelo Ina, or for a pleasurable and fulfilling reminder of yourself, the Clone-a-Willy Kit; this kit creates an exact replica of your manhood and makes it into a vibrating sex toy.  Ladies, don’t forget that men don’t often get treated to sexy underwear and they love it when they do!  Mansilk Trunks are sexy and comfortable, made of 100% silk knit and slightly sheer for high sex appeal.  A fun toy for him would be the Intimate Grip Stroker for his solo playtime but can be used together during fellatio when you are together. 

Many of Honey’s sex toys or sexy lingerie would be thrilling to send/or receive…combined with some hot and heavy telephone or web cam time and you can be assured the flames will be blazing.

Telephone and Cell phones

Our telephones can do so much for us these days so between your computer and cell you can keep in constant contact.  Sexting has gotten such a bad rap these days but sending naughty and explicit texts can be a fun and arousing way to play with your partner throughout the day.

Phone sex is an obvious option but make the most of it by improving your dirty talk.  The Fine Art of Erotic Talk is well written and one of the top rated books for refining your erotic speech whether in bed, web cam or on the phone.  Reading erotic books to each other such as Sweet Life or Best Women’s Erotica 2010 can get the imagination going and fantasies alive.

 Connecting through the computer

Set up a sexy evening using some sexy lingerie that your partner sent you or you picked out together online, erotic movie that you can watch together, and/or sex toys in front of the web cam.  It’s daring and risqué but doing this with a partner you have full trust in is important.  

Being physically far apart can be difficult in a relationship but with some creative effort it can still include arousing and sensual experiences.

Position of the Week: The Mare and the Swing

Sunday, July 4th, 2010

The Mare is a great opportunity for ladies to show off their pelvic floor muscles.  These muscles stretch from the pubic bone to the tailbone and if kept strong and healthy (through regular Kegel exercise), can be contracted around a penis for an extra tight fit.  Once she’s gripped him hard, a woman can lean into The Swing, the second phase of this technique, thus completing this sexy rear-entry position.

This position starts with him sitting up with his legs in front of him.  As he leans back on his hands, she kneels astride his thighs, with her back facing him, and slides onto his penis, forming The Mare.  At this point she should squeeze and relax her vaginal muscles around his penis, as she slowly moves forward, resting her hands on his thighs.  She’ll have even more control as she moves into the second phase by walking her hands down his legs and placing her hands onto the bed on either side of his calves. 

Once the position is complete, he’ll have a chance to massage her buttocks while getting a sexy view of her enclosing his penis.  Turn up the heat by having him stroke her anus or perineum with a well lubricated finger.

Position of the Week: The Fourth Posture

Friday, June 25th, 2010

For a highly stimulating, yet comfortable position, couples are urged to experiment with this dramatic, sensual position.  The Kama Sutra’s Fourth Posture places his member directly opposite her vulva, allowing him more control for smooth, deep penetration – not to mention a great view of her breasts, neck and face.

 The Fourth Posture starts with him sitting in an upright, kneeling position.  She will then climb on top, facing him with her arms around his neck, and will press her body against him, sitting on his penis.  Keeping her legs wrapped around his waist, he’ll gently lower her onto the bed, exposing her body.  Finally, she’ll slowly move her legs, one at a time, to rest on his shoulders, completing this L-shaped position.  For more stability, he can hold onto her hips as he moves.  And if you’re a little more experienced and more flexible, she can cross her ankles and holding her thighs, pull her legs towards her body for an erotic twist on this classic position.

 By having her full front exposed, it makes for easy access to several erogenous zones, including her breasts, naval and clitoris.  This position is perfect for G-spot stimulation – and for a blended orgasm.  This can be achieved by simultaneously stimulating the clitoris with his/her fingers and/or a vibrator.