Many people ofter feel awkward, stuck or straight out silly when they try to do fantasy role playing during sex. Some of us will also be stunted for creativity, props and ambiance…where do we start?
Let’s discuss the fine details to consider to really help you succeed in feeling confident for your role playing and sexual desires.
Take this example…
(this write up scenerio is from About.com http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexualroleplay/qt/settingthescene.htm)
You’ve decided to play a graduate student and your partner is going to be a professor. It’s the day of your big oral defense. This scenario is full of potential: power dynamics, opportunity for sexual bribery, a May-December sexual
tryst, plenty of “oral defense” puns.
But, if you don’t know what your research area is, or you don’t know whether you are a brilliant student being cut down by a sexy and overbearing professor, or a grad student who has slept their way to the top, and intends to do the very same tonight, you can’t get very far into the scenario.
Once you’ve come up with a character that strikes your fancy, start to think about the overall scenario, and answer some of these questions:
- What is the physical setting? If you’re indoors, what kind of room (big, small, dark, brightly lit).
- What time of day is it?
- Are there other people nearby, are you in a public place, or completely secluded where no one will hear you scream (with pleasure)?
- What’s the story? Why are you there, and (aside from the sex) what’s going to happen?
Filling in the details can not only give you more ideas for the sex part of the fantasy, but it can really help get you in character and make the role play come to life.
Check out your closet and drawers , look around your environment and find out what props would help with your fantasy and/or character…..Need help with props? Here’s some scenerio suggestions:
School Girl - try the Private School Girl Costume, or School Girl
- For the teenage schoolgirl – How about a lipstick vibe for acting out a typical school girl. Tease your partner while applying it to your “sensitive” parts… and not your lips!
- For the naughty but nice schoolgirl – why not compliment the costume with a set of Furry Hand cuffs or the Spank Me Kit….pretend you are in detention…who wouldn’t have fun with those!
French Maid – try the Friksy French Maid costume and match it up with a duster or a Sensual Body Feather. Instead of cleaning liquids or a bar of soap, grab a Massage Bar, Allow the buttery bar move along your curves…..create the perfect surface and let the delicious scent draw you closer.
Kitty Cat – wear a sexy Pussy Cat Costume and make him meow! Who needs to be tamed! Tie him up with Bondage Tape, and what self-respecting Sex Kitten would be caught without her purrrrrfect accessory….the Kitty Crop?
Nurse Betty – Try the Naughty Nurse - With this lycra dress, head piece and gloves…you don’t need much. Play the role of nurse helping a patient…maybe be a thoughful nurse and apply body chocolate to your patient and lick it off. Or even wear a pair of edible undies and let him try some candy!
And finally what other props you need to make the ambiance: Perhaps, a candle for a soft alluring effect, a spray of Bare Essence Phermones to boost your sex signals , or even an inviting trail of roses to set the mood.
