How to Kiss Your Lover

February 1st, 2012

The kiss can be a sign of simple affection or an intense moment of intimacy between two lovers. Whether it’s the first time or the five millionth time, kissing is a great way to show affection, intimacy, passion, and desire this Valentine’s day. Here are some things to consider before puckering up for your current or potential lover.

Kisses gain much of their power from the mouth and what it can do. Before you begin kissing, you want to make sure your mouth is in top shape. Good oral hygiene can go a long way. Floss and brush your teeth at least twice a day, being sure to brush the roof of your mouth and your tongue. To get kissable lips, brush them with a clean toothbrush and a little petroleum jelly every day and use a moisturizing lip balm throughout the day. Drinking water also helps prevent chapped or cracked lips, which is more prevalent this time of year.

Before the Kiss
Now that your mouth is looking and feeling sexy, it’s time to make some moves. When it comes to kissing, use the most effective weapons you have, which are your eyes, your hands, and your mouth. Use your eyes to catch and maintain eye contact, flirt, and focus on the pair of lips you want to kiss. Use your hands to draw attention to your lips by gently running your fingers across your bottom lip, or reach out and touch the arm of the person you want to kiss.

Your mouth is your most important tool for kissing. Use it to flirt with your potential kissing partner by talking in a soft whisper or biting your lower lip. When desiring a kiss, try to keep your lips soft and parted. This body language shows interest and relaxation while making your lips look fuller. You can also use your mouth to verbally ask for a kiss or ask your partner if he or she wants to kiss you.

For women, a little lip enhancement can go a long way. Blood flows to the lips when they are aroused, making them plump-up and turn deeper shades of reds and pinks. To mimic this natural sign of arousal, use a lip plumper like Cake Delicious Kisser Lip Plumper to make lips looks bigger and smoother. You can also pinch your lips for a quick hit of color, or use a red lollipop for a light tint and delicious taste.

During the Kiss
There is much more to kissing than just pressing two pairs of lips together. Kissing involves different types of messages, movements, and body parts depending on the situation. A light, full-mouthed kiss can be used to show someone you desire them while a long kiss on the forehead can show someone you care about them. Some kisses are immediately intimate and deep, while some begin as soft, open-mouthed kisses and progress to full-on French kissing marathons. Whatever the kiss, be sure to enjoy the moment, because a kiss means that somebody cares about you.

You can experiment with different techniques using the various parts of your mouth. Use your lips to nibble softly on your partner’s lips or earlobes, or apply light suction to their tongue or nipples. Use your tongue to trace your partner’s lips or massage their tongue. When your lips are interlocked, pull away slightly and whisper into your partner’s mouth, or slowly breathe back and forth into each others’ mouth for a strong experience of each other.

You can also enhance your kiss with different sensations and different smells. Eating herbs, candy, mints, or honey before kissing can make your kisses sweet and memorable, while applying some Ice Queen Gel to you gums beforehand will make your kisses cool and minty. For a more fruity taste, try licking candy like skittles and running them across your lips or apply some Nipple Nibblers for delicious taste and tingling sensation. And kissing is not limited to lips. Try these different techniques and different sensations on other sensitive parts of the body, including ears, neck, shoulders, hands, feet, nipples, and genitals.

After the Kiss
Whether or not the kiss lasted one second or was an all-nighter, be sure to show the person or people you’ve been kissing that you enjoyed it. This can be verbally through words or gentle moans or through a smile. If you don’t like the person’s kissing style, you can encourage the things you do like or ask that they do it a certain way. Kissing styles vary from individual to individual, and there are exciting things about all types. Regardless of the type, kisses are a great way to show lovers, friends, and family that you care about them.

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Female Ejaculation

January 3rd, 2012

Female Ejaculation has intrigued and eluded humanity for centuries. In ancient Rome female ejaculate was equally as important as male semen in creating the “liquid of life” during reproduction. Cultures in ancient India referred to female ejaculate as  “The Nectar of the Gods” while women in 16-18th century Japan often owned decorative bowls specifically for catching female ejaculate, which was known for its anti-aging properties when drank.

Scientifically, female ejaculation has not been studied very in-depth. The research that does exist suggests that the ejaculate is a clear alkaline fluid that contains glucose (a sugar) and prostate-specific androgen, which was for a long time thought to be produced only in the male prostate (hence the name). It is not urine, although it contains trace amounts of urea and creatinine, and is expelled from the Skene’s glands as opposed to the urethra (where pee comes from).

Not all women can ejaculate, some women ejaculate very little, and others ejaculate internally rather than squirting externally. Because of the variation between women’s instances of ejaculation, current statistics about the percentage of women who ejaculate vary greatly between 6% and 40%, while some people claim that 100% of women have the potential to ejaculate. If you are interested in exploring female ejaculation, here are a few things to consider.

Explore Your Body
Many women are hesitant to ejaculate because the sensation closely resembles that of having to urinate and they are embarrassed or nervous to pee everywhere. One way to combat this is to explore female ejaculation without a partner. An important step when exploring female ejaculation is to relax and be alone to allow for exploration of your body without added pressure to perform.  

Another thing to remember about female ejaculation is that it is often easier to achieve for some women after being very turned on. To get warmed up, try taking a relaxing bath with a waterproof vibrator or touching yourself while reading erotica. Get your body and mind excited about the different sensations and fantasies rather than focusing on orgasms or ejaculating. Just enjoy the experience and the stimulation moment by moment.
          
Now that you’re feeling sexy, it’s time to find your G-Spot. Many women achieve ejaculation through heavy G-Spot pressure or massage. For self-stimulation, choose a vibrator or dildo with a curve or ridge, such as the popular Lelo Gigi or Njoy Pure Wand, that allows you to reach the inner part of your vagina, which is prime territory for the G-Spot. Try different movements and positions to find what feels good and comfortable for you.

Invite Your Partner
If you want to try female ejaculation with a partner, keep in mind where the G-Spot is located. Rear-entry positions and women on bottom positions in which her hips are tilted up are good for hitting the G-Spot.  A couples’ vibrator such as the We-Vibe III applies pressure on the G-spot before and during penetration while increasing arousal through vibration.  And don’t forget the lube!

If you are nervous about the sensation of peeing or want to avoid the clean-up, a good way to experiment with female ejaculation is in the bath or shower where flowing water seems natural. Also, a waterproof blanket, such as the Luscious Sex Blanket, allows you to get into your most comfortable position and keep your sheets or couch dry and is machine washable.

For more information, there are educational books and videos, such as Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl or Maximizing G-Spot Pleasures. 

G-Spot massage can be a very intense and seemingly long process. Just remember to take your time and enjoy the experience. If ejaculation happens, it happens. In the end you still get heavily stimulated and learn more about your body and capabilities.

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Private dancer: How to Strip for Your Lover

December 6th, 2011

Stripping for your partner is an extremely erotic and sensual holiday gift for your sweetheart. Here are Honey’s tips for performing a jaw dropping private event.

Getting Prepared
Stripping is all about being confident! This confidence comes from practice and comfort. If you don’t know where to start, watch instructional videos with professional dancers, like Strip to It – Bump N’ Grind, or striptease fitness classes, which are gaining popularity across major cities. These videos and classes teach you some awesome moves in a comfortable environment while working out your entire body.  Once you have some general ideas, make the moves your own! Stripping is about feeling sexy within your body, and letting it move naturally, rather than trying to recreate a specific move.

Looking the Part
Now that you have the confidence, you need to plan the performance.  Your music choice should be long enough to last the duration of your striptease without repeating songs. The outfit you choose should make you feel sexy while being easy to remove. Heels are a must because they define your legs and butt, make your posture straighter, and are easy to seductively kick off. You can also incorporate accessories into your performance or enhance your final reveal with Pasties or Body Jewelery. Also, be sure you don’t overlook pubic hair as an accessory! (See last month’s blog for reference). A notable reference book for further enhancing all your body parts is The Stripper’s Guide to Looking Great Naked.

A good way to decide on what to wear, what props to use and what music to use is to come up with a theme. Here are some classics:

Dark and Dangerous
Clothes: Zip-up Leather Corset, Fishnet Thigh Highs, Black Pasties
Props: Leather Crop, Handcuffs (for your audience)
Songs: “Pour some sugar on me” by Def Leppard, “Cherry Pie” by Warrant

Strip Club Standard
Clothes: Rainbow Fishnet Bikini
Props: Dollar bills in G-string, Wig
Songs: “Milkshake” by Kelis, “I touch myself” by The Divinyls

Slow and Seductive
Clothes: Maison Close Divine Mascarade, Sheer Ribbons Bra & Panty Set, Maison Close Garter Suspenders, Sheer Stockings
Props: Satin Lycra Gloves, Lelo Tantra Feather Teaser
Songs: “Justify my Love” by Madonna, “Cream” by Prince, “Bump N’ Grind” by R. Kelly

Flirty and Feminine
Clothes: Pink Heart Pasties, heeled slippers, Shirley Love Game Lace Garter, Bijoux Flamboyant Body Jewelry in Rosa
Props: Feather Boa
Music: “That’s the way love goes” by Janet Jackson, Seduction: Erotic Dance Rhythms CD 

Setting the Mood
Lighting is the easiest way to set the mood for a striptease. Candlelight is a great option because if creates a flickering glow that continually adds to the tease by popping your increasingly naked body in and out of the shadows. If you have ample time to prepare for the striptease, you can pick up different colored light bulbs from a local drugstore (pinks, reds, purples, and oranges are the most flattering).

Scents can also easily enhance your stripping routine.  Essential oils can be mixed with water and sprayed on your body, added to lotion for an all-over body scent, or diffused throughout the room by being rubbed onto warm light bulbs.

Making the Moves
Now that your look is completed and the mood is set, you’re ready to start taking off some clothes! The most important thing is to always keep moving, even if it’s just one hand going slowly across your body. Your hips are the easiest thing to keep moving and allow both you and the audience to get into the rhythm of the music and the theme. You can run your hands on your body, shake your butt, play with your underwear straps, or whatever makes you feel sexy.

Eye contact is a must for stripteases. It allows you to seduce your audience while maintaining control of the situation. You can also follow your lover’s gaze as a way to see what he or she is enjoying or wants you to take off next.

Be aware of your posture while dancing. Good posture will help you look more confident and push your boobs out a little more, which never hurts during a striptease. Wearing heels will help this naturally.

Rather than just dancing back and forth, utilize the room and what’s in it. A doorway can become something against which you can dance, a table can be used to prop up your leg and slowly take of your stockings, chairs (particularly the one in which your audience is sitting) can be straddled and grabbed for leverage, and the floor can be used to crawl away/toward your audience.

Extra Credit Striptease:
Finish your performance by letting your partner watch you masturbate on your “stage”. It’ll be an image he won’t soon forget.

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Personal Grooming

October 31st, 2011

Pubic hair is a sexy accessory that is often overlooked. Changing your pubic hair can be a great way to surprise your lover or make yourself feel cleaner or sexier. Whatever the reason, whatever the amount, and whatever the shape, the following steps will help get your pubic area looking the way you want!

Get into Position!
Here are some positions that make reaching the hair down there easier (and help prevent cuts!!!)
On your back: Spread your legs wide apart and raise them in the air. This helps keep the areas you are going to shave tight and easy to reach.
Squatting: Keep your legs at least should-width apart and bend them at the knees. This makes the pubic area easy to reach and easy to see if you put a mirror on the floor.
Standing-up: Lift one leg up and rest your foot on something.
Sitting down: 1) Sit with one of your feet propped above your waist and the other one resting on the floor. 2) Prop both feet above your waist and spread your legs far apart.

Prepare your hair:
Trim the hair as short as you can get it. Use an electric trimmer, clippers, or scissors (cautiously!). Razors are designed to remove short hair and stubble and will just pull and irritate longer hair rather than removing it. Warm the area to be shaved with warm water or a warm compress for about 3 minutes. This softens the hair, makes the hair stand up easier, opens the hair follicle, and relaxes the skin, all of which help make hair removal easier and less painful. Now you hair is ready to be removed!

Dry Shaving:
Dry shaving is an easy way to remove pubic hair without lathering or showering. To do this, you will need an electric razor or a personal shaver like the Wahl Delicate Definitions Personal Trimmer. These are more of an initial investment than disposable razor blades, but they last much longer and many people are happier with the results. After soaking in warm water, dry the area completely. Apply a talc-free powder like Kama Sutra Honeydust to remove any excess body oil or moisture in the area to be shaved (be careful not to get it in your penis or vagina). Use your electric razor or personal shaver to remove hair in a circular motion, trying to avoid going over the same area more than once and be sure to hold skin taunt.  Because of the design of electric razors, you can shave in any direction without cutting yourself. When done, rinse the area to remove trimmed hair and any remaining powder. Use a loofah or jute brush to exfoliate the area and help prevent ingrown hairs. Apply a fragrance-free and alcohol-free lotion, baby oil, or silicone based lubricant to the area to help condition the skin afterwards. If you are prone to ingrown hairs and razor burn, you might want to invest in a post-shave balm.

Wet Shaving:
Another common way to remove pubic hair is with wet shaving. For wet shaving, you will need a shaving cream/gel/oil or conditioner. Wet shaving without a lather can lead to razor burn and ingrown hairs, and in general the rule is the thicker the lather, the more protected your skin will be (It’s also a good idea to patch test the lather on another part of skin beforehand to make sure it won’t react negatively with your sexy parts). You will also need a razor. Make sure that you use a new razor blade or a new disposable razor for genital shaving. The genital skin is thinner and more sensitive than other areas and a dull blade will just pull hair instead of remove it. Now that you have your razor and lather, apply the lather to the area to be shaved and let it sit for about four minutes to help soften the hair, keep the hair erect, reduce friction, and condition the skin (this can be done while you’re washing the rest of your body). Once you are ready to start shaving, hold the razor in one hand and hold your skin taught with the other. Begin shaving in the direction of the hair growth. Although shaving against the direction of hair growth can give you a closer shave, it can cause more irritation and ingrown hairs. If you find that you are not sensitive to these issues, by all means shave in any direction you want. To remove the hair most efficiently and with the least amount of irritation, you will want to make light strokes with the razor. If you find that you need to apply pressure to the razor to remove hair, you are probably using a dull razor. Also, take your time with each stroke of the razor. Slow strokes reduce the chance of cutting yourself, missing hairs, or causing razor burns while shaving in the direction of the hair growth helps minimize the chance of ingrown hairs. Be sure there is shaving foam wherever you are shaving and try not to go over the same spot twice, both of which will reduce razor burns and irritation. And be sure to rinse the blade after each pass as hairs on the blade can interfere with shaving. Once all the hair is removed, rinse off any remaining shaving cream and splash the area with cold water to help tone the skin. Apply a fragrance-free and alcohol free lotion, baby oil, or silicone base lubricant to the area to help condition the skin afterwards.

Making Patterns!
Genital shaving doesn’t mean you have to shave everything. For instance, if you wanted to shave a landing strip or a specific shape (like a heart) into your pubic hair, you would follow the same steps as dry or wet shaving with a few added steps.

-First off, pick a shape you want. You can make your own stencil with paper, a pencil, and scissors. You can also print out some “pubic hair stencils” or if you prefer, you can do it freehand. Once you have your shape in hand or in mind, trim your hair down to the length you want the hair left on your body to be. Apply a layer of thick lotion or cream (conditioner works) to the underside of the stencil and place it where you want the design. Once the stencil is in place, press it down firmly and continue to trim the hair around it. Now that you have a shape that is different lengths than the rest of the hair, begin warming the area with water or a hot compress. For extra precision, use a brightly coloured lip or eye liner pencil to outline the shape before you lather up. Now it’s time to start shaving! For shapes, it’s easiest to use something you can see through a lather, like conditioner. With a fresh blade, start shaving the area around the shape (you can leave the stencil on or take it off; whatever is easiest for you). Once the shape is the only hair left you can go over it again with an electric trimmer to get the hair the length you want it. Follow the same aftercare steps as outlined in the dry shaving and wet shaving sections and you’re done!

If you opted for a ‘brazilian’ where all the hair is removed, vajazzling the area with sexy crystals like the Bijoux Flamboyant Body Jewellery will certainly leave lasting memories!

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Sex, Orally

October 4th, 2011

Dirty talk can be a great way to ignite or enhance desire in and out of the bedroom. However, many people find it hard to approach the subject because it can make them feel nervous for whatever reason. We’re here to tell you that learning and incorporating dirty talk into your sexual relationships can be easy and fun! Here are our tips for helping you become more confident in your oral skills.

You’re nervous about…..

Killing the moment by saying something offensive to your partner. A good place to start is with a discussion about dirty talk outside of the bedroom. Talk about words or phrases that you want to hear or really turn you on as a way to give your partner a guaranteed win the first time they try to talk dirty. One way to do this is to each write down three phrases or words that turn you on, then exchange lists. Establishing boundaries and dislikes is also important in this discussion. Remember that what excites one person might offend another. Tell your partner if there are any words you don’t want to hear, and be sure to respect your partner’s boundaries in return. If there is a word or name that you really like but your partner doesn`t, compromise! For instance, if he likes cunt and you like chocha, settle on something that is less offensive to you but more sexually charged for him, like pussy or vag. Keep the discussion going after talking dirty to let your partner know how you feel. If it’s positive,let them know anytime. If it’s something that made you feel uncomfortable or unsexy, discuss it outside the bedroom at a later time. Remember to stay positive and offer suggestions rather than criticism.

Sounding unsexy to your partner.  Again, the list of likes from the initial discussion gives you a solid foundation to work with in regards to what will turn on your partner. To keep ideas new and expand on previous ideas, set time aside each week to do the list activity, allowing for no repeated sentences. Another way to sound sexy is to find your sexy voice, since anything said in a sexy voice triggers desire in most people. The most important aspects of a sexy voice are: Resonance, pitch, volume, and rhythm. To find your sexy voice, sex educator Violet Blue suggests the following voice exercises: Practice speaking from your diaphragm as opposed to your throat to create a more resonant sound. Also, relaxing your face muscles with a massage or warming mask will help relax your rhythm and volume. To speak softer, lower the volume of your voice and try to hit lower notes. However, this lower pitch can throw off resonance. To find the combination that works for you, say a sentence in a low whisper deeper than your regular voice. Then say it louder, but still a little deeper. Next, start humming with your lips closed. Then say the same sentence in your low whisper voice but with the same resonance as the hum. Practice will make you more confident in your voice, which will help make you more confident in your word choice. You can also use your partner’s voice as a reference for tone, rhythm, and volume.
  
Laughing. If you are afraid that you won’t be able to take dirty talk seriously or you laugh when you get embarrassed, try saying the words out loud when you are alone. Saying them in front of a mirror is a great way to practice eye contact, and saying them out loud during masturbation can help you practice the flow and resonance of your voice in an aroused state. If you feel self-conscious talking dirty while making eye contact, try whispering naughty secrets in your lover’s ear or while in a non-eye contact sex position. You can also leave sexy messages on your lover’s phone or on a steamy washroom mirror.

Not knowing what to say. Keep it simple at first with this basic sentence structure: I love when you/I (insert verb) my/your (insert noun) (insert prepositional phrase*).  Example. I love when you (run) your (fingers) (down my back). After you feel more comfortable, start adding adjectives such as smooth or warm. Another way to feel more confident with talking dirty is by talking about things in the past, present, and future. The past encompasses the things you know you like, the present involves what feels good or what you desire at the moment, and the future includes what you want to do to your lover later. Ex. Thinking about what you did with your tongue last night (past) is making my legs quiver (present). I can’t wait to have you close to me again (future). When in doubt, compliments are always a reliable choice for talking dirty. Ex: I love your _____.Your _____ is so sexy.

Where to start as a couple. If the idea of dirty talk is new to one or both of you, remember to keep it slow and simple. Take time to read some sultry words to each other, whether it’s from the classical poetry of Ovid or Sappho or some modern day erotica.  If you are too nervous to start with actual spoken words, take time to read these dirty words on your own and highlight phrases or words that you like. Then give the erotica to your lover to read. This will give both of you a better understanding of what turns you on and what doesn’t.

Hopefully with these tips you will be dirty talking all over town, whether it’s through a sexy text, a dirty note in your lover’s wallet, or a quiet whisper at the Thanksgiving table. As you explore the art of talking dirty, remember to use positive suggestions and encouragement rather than criticisms. Also, be wary of where you leave sexy phone, email, or facebook messages. You never know who might have access to such things. And, perhaps most importantly, remember that words and phrases will sound the best and most natural if you truly mean them.

References: For confidence and skill building tools, check out The Fine Art of Erotic Talk by Bonnie Gabriel. For ideas of what to say or for dirty story telling check out Sweetlife: Erotic Fantasies for Couples edited by Violet Blue and The Mammoth Book of Best New Erotica edited by Maxim Jakubowski.

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How to Control Premature Ejaculation

August 31st, 2011

So you are ejaculating before you or your partner wants it to happen, studies have shown that this occurs in 30% of all men and most men have experienced pre-mature ejaculation at least once.  A variety of techniques and products can be helpful in controlling premature ejaculation.

Get to understand your body. That feeling you get just before you ejaculate while masturbating, that is the feeling you need to be aware of when getting intimate with your partner. If you don’t know when it’s going to happen you will have a hard time controlling it, so make sure to pay attention during self play and practice delaying gratification by either pulling back or stopping completely.  During intercourse you can stop and kiss and rub your partner while you regain control.  If you are very close to ejaculating, you can firmly press your fingers around the base of your penis in a tight ring to stop ejaculation from occurring.  Changing positions and using your hand or mouth to stimulate her are useful techniques to give yourself time to cool off and restart again and very few lovers would complain about you taking a few moments to just focus on her!

Exercise your kegal muscles, and yes men have them too. The pelvic floor can become weak in men; just as in women, and the stronger your pelvic floor muscles the more control you have over your ejaculation.  These are the muscles you would use to stop peeing mid stream, tighten them in reps of 10 for 10 seconds at a time. Then slowly lengthen the time you hold the muscles tight, just like working out at the gym but this is just less noticeable and can be done anywhere and at any time. And as an added benefit this will help with any age related erectile dysfunction issue as well as give you more powerful orgasms.

Cock rings – cock rings reduce blood flow through the erectile tissue helping to prolong the erection and to stop you from coming too quickly. The Silicone Rings, Maximize Ring or Le Parfait Adjustable Ring are all options for providing you with a snug but comfortable fit.  To use a cock ring you need to put a little lubricant around the inside of the ring to help it slide on comfortably, then put the ring at the very base of your penis or around including the testicles. You want the ring as far back against the base as possible.

Delaying Sprays or Creams – There are many sprays and creams available to help desensitize the skin, hence decreasing the amount of stimulation that can be felt leading to longer sexual intercourse.  Creams and sprays such as the Stud 100 and Pleasure Balm are popular delay products.  The benefit of these items is that they are easy to apply ahead of time and last for approximately 20 minutes to half an hour so you have some spontaneity with your playtime.  The Kama Sutra As One kit provide you with the numbing pleasure balm as well as a warming clitoral gel for her, this helps speed up and enhance her orgasms and delay yours so that you have a better chance of a simultaneous orgasm.

Note: Do no use these spray/creams in combination with a cock ring as you will be unable to feel if you are experiencing too much tightness or discomfort.

Condoms – Condoms themselves help to reduce sensation simply because they create a barrier between you and your partner.  They are a fast and easy way to help give you extra endurance during intercourse and specialty condoms such as Durex Performax have a gentle numbing formulation included in the lubricant as an additional delaying tactic without your partner ever knowing.

Just remember gents, ladies first is always a good rule of thumb.  And if you do come before she does, it doesn’t mean the night is over.  Clean up and spend some time focused solely on pleasuring her, she will be appreciative of your attention and attitude… and you will get to drive her wild!

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Travelling with your Toy!

August 9th, 2011

Planning a summer getaway?  From last minute weekend getaways to week long vacations, it is always exciting to take along something a little naughty for some extra-memorable holiday excursions.

Here are some tips and suggestion on traveling with toys:

Rechargeable vs. Battery operated – depending on where you are traveling, taking along extra batteries or a charger could be a hassle or helpful. If you are traveling overseas or out of the country you may be better off to choose a toy that recharges through a USB port on your laptop rather than an electrical outlet in case there are compatibility issues.  Otherwise, a battery operated toy is another reliable option.  Traveling with a toy that uses easily accessible batteries like AA or AAA instead of specific cell batteries would be another consideration although an extra set can be packed before you travel.

If your favorite toy is a rechargeable one, adaptors are available from most companies.

Top Rechargeable Travel Toys: Lelo Mia

Top Battery Operated Travel Toys: Black Jewel, Water Dancer and Bcute Curve

Waterproof – water can play a huge part of any summer holiday whether it is a private cottage near a lake, a hotel pool, or a private hot tub for two.  It is always a good idea to be prepared with a waterproof toy for any adventurous activity that may arise.

Top Waterproof Travel Toys: Form 2, Fun Factory Flash, Iconic Bullet and Lelo Alia

Storage – if you are travelling by air make sure to pack your toys with the batteries removed and in your checked luggage.  Always remove batteries before travelling in case it accidentally turns on in your luggage and if it is a rechargeable toy, turn the lock function on or store it in its own hard case until you get to your destination. 

If you are travelling with a sex toy in your carry on, also make sure you store the batteries in a separate place so you don’t encounter some accidental buzzing enroute.  And if you do get some question regarding your selection of carry-ons…it is what it is and it happens more often than you think!

Lubricant!  Don’t forget to pack small travel size lubes or transfer some of your favorite into a small travel bottle.

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Explosive New Sex Positions

July 5th, 2011

Lover’s Grip: With the woman laying on her back the man should kneel and lift her legs over his shoulders, raising her hips slightly to ease penetration. The friction and deep penetration makes this position particularly exciting, while allowing his hands to be free to stroke and caress her legs, breasts and add clitoral stimulation. She can easily angle her hips to vary the angle of penetration for deeply pleasurable sensations.

Erotic Flick: This position is called the erotic flick because the woman’s movements of her hips during lovemaking mimic the flick of a fish’s tail as it darts through the water. This position is passive and restful, designed for a more intimate embrace. With the man lying on his back with his legs extended she lies on top of him. With her knees on either side of his hips she gently positions his penis and wiggles it inside of her. Once she has enclosed him, the couple can nestle against each other chest to chest and kiss and caress each other as she moves her hips to the right and left, and up and down in a repeated sequence. This is great for building excitement and taking your time to have an intimate moment together.

Sexy Snug: Face to face to get a close to one another as possible. The man sits on the floor or bed cross legged with his knees open wide while his partner sits with her legs over his thighs and her feet on the floor. The couple pulls each other close to enable him to penetrate. This is emotionally very sexy as you create a gentle rocking motion rather then a thrusting action. The man can grasp her around the buttocks to help lift her as she moves up and down, while the woman rhythmically squeezes and let’s go with her thighs.

G-spot Bliss: This position allows you to indulge in deep penetration and G-spot stimulation. With the woman laying on her back she beds her legs at the knees and draws them close to her chest. The man knees with his knees on either side of her buttocks and moves into the most comfortable position for penetration. She can gain pleasure by holding onto her knees and raising her hips higher, so that her partner can penetrate her more deeply and at an angle that will allow his penis to run and stimulate her G-spot. The G-spot is on the upper wall of the vagina, so specially angled thrusting is required to reach it. To give your partner a G-spot orgasm through intercourse remember that sustained pressure on the spot rather then the friction of thrusting provides the necessary stimulation.

Kneeling Master: This position provides a dominating aspect that will bring her and him intense pleasure. Rear-entry positions lend themselves easily to games of light bondage and domination or submission roles, this position puts the woman in the submissive position by kneeling on all fours on the bed and resting her forearms and head on the bed as well. He enters from behind and her lower body is supported by the bed against her lover’s vigorous thrusts. To gain more stimulation from this position she can use her hands or a vibrator against her clitoris to maximize the stimulation of her partner’s thrusts. This leaves his hands free to roam across her back and breast and also allows him access to anal play with his hands or a vibrator as well.

This information has been provided by Anne Hooper’s Ultimate Sex Positions Book.

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How To Use A Glass Sex Toy

June 7th, 2011

Glass is a fantastic material for adult toys because it is completely frictionless, non-porous, phthalate free, and hypoallergenic.

Some of the greatest feedback we get from customers that purchase glass for the first time is how surprised they are at how much they enjoyed the unique sensation.

Features of Glass

We’ve already mentioned that they are hypoallergenic and body safe, but glass is also completely frictionless and smooth against the skin. With very little lubricant you can easily use glass toys both anally and vaginally without the need to re-apply.

Glass is also a great conductor of hot or cold sensations. You can warm up the glass toy in warm water or the microwave and the glass will hold onto the heat for extended periods and then slowly adjust to your body temperature. You can also cool down the glass by running it under cold water or placing it in the fridge or freezer.  The different temperature sensation are very stimulating both internally and externally.  If you do not warm or cool down the glass, the toy will easily and quickly take on your body’s core temperature for a comfortable play time.

The weight of the glass is also very erotic.  Feeling the natural weight of the toy is extremely rousing and distinctive in its sensation.

Clean up is also a breeze with glass toys.  It can be simply washed down with soap and water, boiled or placed in the dish washer. 

With proper care, glass toys are very durable and can last a lifetime. 

Glass Toys:

Glass Dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes and colors. The Larger full sized dildos like Blossom and Masagi provide a full length and have some added texture and a slight curve without being overwhelming.

Toys like the Sunlight, Pink Indulgence and Crystal G have a little less length but have a distinctive curved to stimulate the G-spot.  These glass toys also allow you to use either end for stimulation.  

Then there are more phallic shaped dildos like 7th Heaven that has textured ridges at the top but maintains a more realistic shape.

The Onyx is the same size and shape as the Crystal G but has added texture at the curved tip designed to specifically target and stimulate the prostate for men. Silksurra is specially designed as an anal plug with the full retrieval ring and curved tip for men or women.

Most of the glass toys can be used vaginally as well as anally.

Newer on the market are some amazing glass toys that actually vibrate! The Glass Waterproof Vibrator and G-spot Glass Waterproof Vibrator both have three speeds of vibration and designed to be used both internally and externally. They are a incredible addition to our array of glass toys as they do double duty as both a dildo and vibrator.

Stainless Steel

The Njoy Pure Wand is a medical grade stainless steel product. Stainless steel and glass are very similar in their properties in that both are frictionless, hypoallergenic, body safe, non-porous and phthalate free. The largest difference is the weight of the stainless steel, it has a very pleasant heavy weight to it which adds an exceptional pleasure sensation.

Glass toys are not only wonderful to use but beautiful to behold as well.  We hope you will enjoy your new addition and keep having fun!

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How To Masturbate Your Man

May 3rd, 2011

A friendly little hand shandy with our lover can often intimidate us, but learning a few new techniques can make this an exciting part of foreplay and the most memorable event of the evening.  Yes, he knows what technique will get him off fast and furious but really, it’s not you, and when you take the time and effort to provide some new manual masturbation sensations for your partner he will be forever thankful.

First things first, be prepared. Make sure your hands are clean and there are no rough edges or hang nails. It also helps to remove any rings or jewellery. Lubricant is a necessity for keeping things slick, slippery and frictionless.  Use water or silicone based lubricant if you’re planning on using a condom later on, but if you’re not then an oil based lubricant such as the Stroke 29 or Rocket Balm is the perfect slippery masturbation cream that will put his pleasure over the top.  Always warm up the lubricant (and your hands!) before contacting his skin by placing the bottle in hot water or rubbing your hands briskly together. Keep a towel or pleasure wipes close at hand for quick and easy clean up afterwards.

Get comfortable. It is never fun to be feeling sore or with your body at an awkward angle when you are trying to focus on giving him pleasure, so make sure that you’re in a position where you can comfortably maintain movement for a length of time.  Try down between his knees, sitting beside him or coming in from behind him. And remember: how you angle your body for comfort can also give him an erotic view of your body and face, which is an additional turn on.

Getting started. Remember that anticipation is half the fun, run your fingers along his waist band and along his thighs and butt cheeks, everywhere but where he really wants you to touch. Once you do make contact with his genitals keep the contact light to start and make sure to give the entire genital area a light touch or tease to get him ready. When starting to grip his shaft, keep it light at the beginning and then gently pulse or squeeze working your way to a firmer and tighter grip.

The techniques.  The foundation of a good hand job is to create an essential up and down movement creating a virtual vagina with your hand. Grip your dominant well lube hand around the shaft and use your alternate hand to stabilize or position his penis. Move your hand in a solid up and down fluid movement without losing contact with his penis, at first work the entire shaft fairly slowly and closer to orgasm speed up and work closer to the head. Be sure to ask for feedback and he will be glad to give you a pointers for what he likes best. Start with a light grip and gradually increase the tightness of your grip without causing any discomfort. Keep your movement steady and fluid; not jerky, and add a slight back and forth twisting motion as you go up and down for varied sensation. Don’t pull the skin with you; just allow your grip to move smoothly over the skin.

Get your other hand in on the action. You can use your less dominant hand to play, tickle and caress his testicles and you can massage his perineum which will indirectly stimulate his prostate.  If he likes it, you can stimulate his anus both internally and externally but be sure to give him warning.

It’s good to communicate with your partner about their likes and dislikes, especially with the happy ending. He may prefer you to maintain the firm, quick strokes right up until he ejaculates, or he may prefer a gentler slower motion with his ejaculation. You won’t know until you ask. Finally, it is always a nice touch to help him clean up when you’re done.

Advanced Techniques:

Let’s Twist Again – With each hand, form and okay signal with your thumb and index finger. (You can also use the middle finger if you prefer) Place your hands one on top of the other, starting at the base of the shaft. Twist each hand back and forth in opposite directions as they move in unison up and down the shaft.  Be sure to use a good amount of lubrication.

String of Pearls – Using a string of pearls or Bijoux Pearl Handcuffs and a good amount of lubricant, twist the pearls around your hand and then use that hand to stroke up and down the penis shaft. The feel of the jostling beads is fantastic against the penis. Alternatively you can wrap the beads loosely around his shaft and twist them gently as you stroke up and down for an unforgettable finale.

Giving Thanks – Put both your hands around his shaft with your fingers interlocks and your thumbs overlapping on the opposite side. Move up and down with firm pressure. Closing in on the head when your fingers pass it but don’t lose contact with the shaft entirely. You can add a slight squeezing and releasing around the shaft as you go up and down.

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