The kiss can be a sign of simple affection or an intense moment of intimacy between two lovers. Whether it’s the first time or the five millionth time, kissing is a great way to show affection, intimacy, passion, and desire this Valentine’s day. Here are some things to consider before puckering up for your current or potential lover.
Kisses gain much of their power from the mouth and what it can do. Before you begin kissing, you want to make sure your mouth is in top shape. Good oral hygiene can go a long way. Floss and brush your teeth at least twice a day, being sure to brush the roof of your mouth and your tongue. To get kissable lips, brush them with a clean toothbrush and a little petroleum jelly every day and use a moisturizing lip balm throughout the day. Drinking water also helps prevent chapped or cracked lips, which is more prevalent this time of year.
Before the Kiss
Now that your mouth is looking and feeling sexy, it’s time to make some moves. When it comes to kissing, use the most effective weapons you have, which are your eyes, your hands, and your mouth. Use your eyes to catch and maintain eye contact, flirt, and focus on the pair of lips you want to kiss. Use your hands to draw attention to your lips by gently running your fingers across your bottom lip, or reach out and touch the arm of the person you want to kiss.
Your mouth is your most important tool for kissing. Use it to flirt with your potential kissing partner by talking in a soft whisper or biting your lower lip. When desiring a kiss, try to keep your lips soft and parted. This body language shows interest and relaxation while making your lips look fuller. You can also use your mouth to verbally ask for a kiss or ask your partner if he or she wants to kiss you.
For women, a little lip enhancement can go a long way. Blood flows to the lips when they are aroused, making them plump-up and turn deeper shades of reds and pinks. To mimic this natural sign of arousal, use a lip plumper like Cake Delicious Kisser Lip Plumper to make lips looks bigger and smoother. You can also pinch your lips for a quick hit of color, or use a red lollipop for a light tint and delicious taste.
During the Kiss
There is much more to kissing than just pressing two pairs of lips together. Kissing involves different types of messages, movements, and body parts depending on the situation. A light, full-mouthed kiss can be used to show someone you desire them while a long kiss on the forehead can show someone you care about them. Some kisses are immediately intimate and deep, while some begin as soft, open-mouthed kisses and progress to full-on French kissing marathons. Whatever the kiss, be sure to enjoy the moment, because a kiss means that somebody cares about you.
You can experiment with different techniques using the various parts of your mouth. Use your lips to nibble softly on your partner’s lips or earlobes, or apply light suction to their tongue or nipples. Use your tongue to trace your partner’s lips or massage their tongue. When your lips are interlocked, pull away slightly and whisper into your partner’s mouth, or slowly breathe back and forth into each others’ mouth for a strong experience of each other.
You can also enhance your kiss with different sensations and different smells. Eating herbs, candy, mints, or honey before kissing can make your kisses sweet and memorable, while applying some Ice Queen Gel to you gums beforehand will make your kisses cool and minty. For a more fruity taste, try licking candy like skittles and running them across your lips or apply some Nipple Nibblers for delicious taste and tingling sensation. And kissing is not limited to lips. Try these different techniques and different sensations on other sensitive parts of the body, including ears, neck, shoulders, hands, feet, nipples, and genitals.
After the Kiss
Whether or not the kiss lasted one second or was an all-nighter, be sure to show the person or people you’ve been kissing that you enjoyed it. This can be verbally through words or gentle moans or through a smile. If you don’t like the person’s kissing style, you can encourage the things you do like or ask that they do it a certain way. Kissing styles vary from individual to individual, and there are exciting things about all types. Regardless of the type, kisses are a great way to show lovers, friends, and family that you care about them.









